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Hi,
Was drawn here by a wiki comment .... so I came to take a look.  I love the second picture with the basket of fruit and the grape vines in the background... looks like home (I live in an agricultural valley) except the fruit looks citrus, is it?  Curious where this is... Calif? 

Need to go check out your blog for other pics! 
Carol

1) Thanks so much for commenting on that pic! I love taking pictures, and I thought that a rather good one.

2) Yes, you are right, there's vines and it's all citrusy fruit.

3) Yep, I am in CA, the central valley to be more precise. Do you live in CA as well?

4) I don't have any pics in my blog, only a video of me playing guitar. I would have a buttcrapload more pics on here, but my computer likes to be gay and not let me load pictures onto here. The pics on my wiki I had to have my boyfriend put on from his computer. >.<

 

Anyway, thanks alot!

Lol, ignoring Andrea comment!

 

Good luck...I spent 16 months of my life with Brandon...and he broke me. Ha...Good luck is all I can say.

If anything happens don't let it get to you...I almost did. =]

 

Anyway...

 

How are you?!

Might I ask why I need the luck? He's not really that bad, is he? If you don't mind me asking... do you have Yahoo IM? And could I have it?

 

 

Hahaha, I'm doing pretty good.... except my shin is killing me ( I got hit by a softball at pretty close range today). It was intense pain, enough to make you hop around then fall down gripping your shin like Peter Griffin. XDXDXD

So how are you?

 

BTW, thanks for the add.

Lol. He's a good guy and all, he's a sweetheart...but HE WILL DO YOU WRONG. I'm not joking. I'm not saying this to get back at him, I'm not saying this because I don't like him, because I do. But, I heard things about him when I was dating him. He "cheated" (like...not physically, but verbally) with my best friend. AND...he used to tell people "what I didn't know, wouldn't hurt me." I don't even know why I put up with it so long. You're right, he's really not a bad guy. But, I don't trust him, and to this day I still know how he is. He loves attention, from any girl. It doesn't matter who they are. He'll tell you he loves you, and give you this "you're my love", "you're the best thing that has happened to me" type thing, and he'll make you think it's real. For a while, I thought it was.

 

Like I said, I'm not saying this for revenge, or anything, I'm just warning you, and trying to protect your feelings, because he made me a cold hearted bitch. Just hope that you can meet him, because that's the ONLY way it'll work, if not...then he'll let go of the "false sense of security" and let you go.

 

I do have Yahoo Messenger: nicolehasthecoolness

I am only able to get on mobiley most of the time. But I'll make an effort to talk on a PC.

 

Bleh, softball accidents, don't even remind me. lol. That hurts, a lot.

 

I'm pretty good. I'm in Networking I at the moment, and we just got our break. So, I'm just searching the web.

 

You're welcome. Thanks for requesting.

 

Also, remember what I said about Brandon, okay? I didn't believe his ex girlfriend Casey, when she told me the same thing.

 

ttfn

-nicole

Also, look in my blog archive for a blog entry called "223. Good news."

 

That'll show you, I'm not kidding.  

Wow, that was alot of typing. I'll check out that entry in a minute. Wow, that's some pretty intense stuff. I don't doubt what you say either. I've never been in a long-distance relationship before, so I'm kinda iffy about putting it all into this, because I know that no matter how sweet a guy is, he's still a guy, and might not think twice about straying.

If things go the way they're supposed to, then I'll be meeting hin in June, but I'm not putting all my money on it yet.

The whole, "what you don't know can't hurt you" is, like, the worst thing in the world, and I'm surprised I'm not a cold-hearted bitch, because people like to take advantage of my good nature and forgivingness...

Anyway, thanks for all this, um, information, and I'm gonna try my hardest not to put my everything into this until we're "securely" together, but which I mean, like, living together, providing things go well and I don't get hurt. =\

Oh yes, I just read it too, and I have to ask how he got put in his place.

Long story short...when he broke up with me...I tried to talk to him...he wouldn't...so, this girl Casey, whom I was friends with...IMed me and told me to leave him alone...that he didn't like me anymore, he liked her. He lied to her and told her I said she was a bitch, and that I didn't like her, and that she was liar. Later on, she caught him in his lies, and came back and apologized to me.

 

And that immaturity thing...he apparently broke up with me because I was "too immature", but to this day...I still think the real reason is because he was talking to Casey.

 

He's a piece of work, and I know things about him, things that would even piss you off. But, I'm going to let him be happy, and I want you to be happy. So...=] I'll just keep my mouth shut.

Ahhh, that's a sucky story... but at least she realised what happened, so you didn't really lose out.

 

Hmmm.... I wouldn't know if you're immature or not, but your reasoning sounds good. =\

 

Wow, those must be some pretty intense things then.... Yeah, I don't need any worries right now... so you can keep quiet for now. But, I mean, with Brandon and I, we'll either break up or be in it for the long haul. And, if I need to know more about him, I'll be sure to refer back to you.

Haha, thanks! I'm glad you don't think I'm coming off as a bitch or anything, because I'm not trying to. You have a better tolerance for people than I do!

 

I'm glad you took the time to listen, and understand. I just wanna give you the heads up, because I know him like I know the palm of my hand. I'm glad the two of you are happy together. He really needs someone to keep him straight. 'Cus like I said he's a good guy, but he just has an "attention problem".

 

Yea I can be immature...but I don't call it immaturity. I call it my way of having fun. You know? Like, acting like a jackass...trying to make someone laugh, and make their day better even when you can ake your own better! I tried to be real with him, but he just didn't get me, I guess.

 

But yea...just let me know stuff!

 

And don't be afraid to talk to me about anything else! I'm always willing to talk about different things. =]

 

ttfn

-Nicole

Hey, so it looks like you're dating Brandon. He's an old friend of mine. Congratulations, he's a good guy, so I hope everything works out how you both want it to!

Take care,
Dre

Oh thank you so very much. I'm glad to hear from someone who knows him that he's a good kid, that puts me at ease.

How long have you two known each other?

Oh wow, we've probably known each other since we were like 13! Lol as for Nicoles comment, that was just her experience, I never dated him intensively or anything so I cant say for sure that it's true, I thought he was a nice guy. 

Wow! That's, like, 5 years! XD Cool stuff.

 

Yeah, I'm chatting with him right now and I got his side of the story on that. It doesn't seem like I have too much to worry. I think he's a really nice guy, I love him alot already, but I'm sad that he's moving.

Ah, that's a bummer that he's moving, but you're both 18, right? So at least you're both free to go visit and live where you want. I know how hard that is, my heart is in Germany =/ but I'm going back there in July so I'm waaay excited!

Well...... I'm not 18 yet unfortunately. If you saw my age on my profile when it said I was 18, I was lying. X] I'm only 16. But yeah... our time in the sun/rain is going to be June, so I'm really excited as well! We're gonna spend some time at my cabin in Tahoe.

Awww, too bad your heart's so far away, mine's only 256 miles away. =\

Ooh okay. Well, at least HE can come visit you. And that's super awesome that you have a cabin in Tahoe, I love Tahoe.

The distance can be a killer, but it really makes the relationship all the more strong. And you appreciate the time you have with one another that much more.

Yep. At least he can.

Yeah, but I haven't been to Tahoe since I was like 5. I love it there though, and plan to live there when I settle.

 

Oh, the distance and time together really do make it all the stronger.

Yeah, we just had a conversation about him straying since we can't have each other everyday, and I made him promise to tell me if he does, cuz I'm willing to forgive, especially since I have to fight back the urges too. I think our openess about that will make our relationship stronger, too. ...I hope.

Knowing Brandon for as long as I have, I have a feeling you won't really need to worry about him "straying." For one, I just don't think he's that kind of guy, to me he always seemed like if he had someone he really cared for, he'd give all he has to make them happy. And secondly, I think if there was someone around Dayton area he could get with, he'd be with them already instead of you, you know what I mean?

But even still, it is good to keep an open minded relationship.

So, if you live in Carson, when'd you two find the chances to hang out and stuff?

 

I dunno, when we were talking about that last night he specifically said, "I'm not going to lie I've played girls" and "You just don't know how tempting it is for a guy like me..." to which I replied "It scares me when you say 'A guy like me...'" and a bit after he said "Well, I can say this

I'm not going to lie about this either

I probably will stray once or twice
And I'm saying this ahead of time
Because it's so hard to resist the temptation, even though I wish it was you."

 

Yeah. Those were direct quotes copied and pasted from our convo. So he pretty much admitted it. However, what you say sounds about right too. I don't doubt that he'd give everything for me to be happy. But, on the flip side, I told him there's always the possibility of myself straying as well, because it's simply in my genes and I'm the type of person to see how far I can take things. And yeah, it makes me bad, but when I'm in a relationship I like, like this one, I can easily say no.... and I would hope Brandon could do the same.

Well being that when we were hanging out it was both before we could drive, we had to wait for one of our parents wanting to drive to the other city, which is only about a 20 minute drive.

And as far as I knew, Brandon couldn't get anything to stray WITH, lol but maybe he's changed? To be honest, I haven't talked to him in a year or so.

Oh, well, at least 20 minutes isn't bad.

 

XD "Couldn't get anything to stray WITH"

That's rich and full of hilarity.

 

A year isn't alot... hopefully he HASN'T changed since you last talked to him. =\

Lol, I mean, I don't mean to talk shit about him by saying that, but as far as I knew he wasn't really getting with anyone around his area, and that's why he dated Nicole, you, and maybe a few others.

I think if you both are ready to be in a committed relationship, you'll wait for each other...

Haha, I know you didn't mean anything mean... Maybe you're right though about him not getting anyone in his area.... But oh well.

 

I sure hope so, cuz I like him alot, and he knows this.... and he's by far the sweetest and best I've ever dated, and he says he doesn't wanna risk losing me over some temptation.... so.... I dunno, we'll just have to see where this goes.

I just don't understand if he could get someone in Dayton to be with, why he would then bother dating someone who he can't yet see everyday, you know? I mean it just seems a little odd to me. Maybe he's just saying the things about "temptation" to make himself sound cooler, like hella bitches want him or something lol. I don't know, but I think you'll be alright. How long have you two been dating now?

Ah! You make a really good point! Haha, you're making me feel better by the gallons. ^_^

Hmmm, you could be right... guys do do that. XD Bah, guys, I'll never get 'em.

We've been dating 2 months yesterday, and out of all those days we only didn't get to talk for 7 of them. It's a pretty good ratio I think. ^_^

7 weeks of talking out of 8 so far, yeah that is pretty good. If you can just get him to keep talking to you everyday for as long as possible, then he shouldnt be able to find time to get with other girls, lol!

And yes, boys are pretty stupid/confusing. But I'm thinking that maybe what he means by the whole temptation thing is that, if the possibility comes up that someone who lives near him really likes him or w/e, then he'd be tempted to get with them only because he like never gets girls from his area, and finally having a person who is interested in him locally would be hard for him to resist. You know what I mean? Rather than there's always girls on his nuts and its hard to resist that type of thing. lol

But most likely, from knowing Brandon as long as I have, that won't happen and you two will stay together.

XD That's true, huh. Plus, school's almost out for him, too, so where is he gonna find girls? >.<

 

They are freaking stupid/confusing, I agree 100%. Bahaha, but Cosmo's teaching me what I need to know. XD lol, j/k.

Ah, yeah, I guess he wouldn't be able to resist someone locally, but, like I said, he'll be out of school soon, so I guess I don't have much to worry about.

XDXDXD ROFL!!! Always girls on his nuts. That's fucking epically hilarious!!! Oh God.

 

Ah, I sure hope you're right, and you know him better than I do, so I'm put at ease. Thanks.

 

 

Lol @ the Cosmo thing. I think you don't have anything to worry about. Wish ya both the best! 

Thank you! =D

No problem. If you ever want to chat, you know my Mindsay. haha.


PEACE.

Happy friggin' birthday!  16 candles.