Desparado's Wiki Page

Long time no see, hope you are ok and your holidays were great.

Thank you - it just so happens that I logged in today for the first time in months because I saw in my email that someone had left a message.  My mom has fallen very ill and I have been taking care of her when I am not at work... it leaves no time, but I am not complaining at all. I love her and would do anything in this world for her. Its nice to know that back here on mindsay, at least someone cares enough to remember.  Thank you again.  I also hope that your holidays were great as well and that 2008 brings  you many blessings.

Oh dear! I am truly sorry to hear about your mom! I certainly understand you needing to be there to care for her. My mother depended on her children to take care of her in her last two years. She had a fear of being left entirely in the hands of medical ppl who didn't care about her personally.

Taking care of her the last year of her life was possibly the hardest thing I've ever done in my life to date but, I wouldn't trade one minute of it.

And yes, there are some ppl here who care about you. Me for sure.

God bless you and your mom and family hon. I pray that things get better for you all soon.

It is so hard, and at times this body of mine gets so tired too in this process that I just don't know how I am going to keep going. But, I do. The inner fortitude kicks in - as well as the realization that everything I do for her could quite possibly be the last at any given moment.  I am sure that in the grand scheme of things,  what I do for her could not hold a candle to all she has done for me. She is worth it... and like you, when the day is done I wouldn't do it any differently and I would do it all over again even knowing all that I know now.  I never want to have any regrets where my mom and dad are concerned. They are good people.

 

Thank you so much for caring. It really does mean a lot...

If you ever need a shoulder please feel free to write me at mindsaymamajo@yahoo.com I would be honored to be there for you. If you do write me there, tag it in the subject line so I will know it is you and not a spammer ok?

I don't know just how much longer I will be communicating here at mindsay. I may just check in now and then. The is a lot of negative things that have been going on and that is the last thing I need in my life and so not what I started on here for.

Please take care of yourself while you are caring for those you love.

Where are you? I hope you are doing ok. Know that I am thinking of you and sending positive thoughts and prayers your way.

Blessings, MamaJo

I like your blog's  header qoute !

*smile* Thanks :-)  

check this guy out...we were just speaking about this
naturalmystic @ MindSay

I did and I responded.  Thank you for sharing....    

I am going to try to go to sleep now...

Thanks again for being there...

*Hugs, my friend* 

whenever you need..same as you have done for me

huggs

D pray for your friend and ask God what is his will for you. Do it when you have time to hear what he says.Please know that my God ask many things of us, but he also gives us much more. In all he has given me he as always said do unto others as you would have them do unto me

Be Blessed and may the ending of this friendship open another door

thank you for being a friend... 

i can say for sure that it is my pleasure being your friend. i am hoping your friend will miss your friendship and speak to someone that tells them what we are really supposed to be doing as far as friendships