Women And Sex @ MindSay

For anti-choice advocates, as well as others who hate individual personal sovereignty, to be sound in their arguments and morality, they would need to be the strongest proponents of social welfare, blood/organ donation, and medical science.

What do we usually see in its place, however? We see the vile products of a social-darwinian mentality: the abolition of welfare, restricting access to contraception and a woman's right to receive abortions on demand, even in cases of rape, incest, and the threatened life of the mother, and complete arrogance in denying objective, scientifically sound truth.

That is not pro-life.

I just dont get how some women go so long wiht out sex. Like they want sex and all but have gone 10 month and beyond with out it. The reason this seems such a loss for me is because I have always seen the power of when sex happens in the hands of the woman.. or between the legs of a woman I guess. Anyways Men are horn dogs. Yes in a relationship if the man is good he will just go fuck crazy on his one girl but if single we go back to our animal instict. This means to spread our seed to as many women as we can. In MANY spieces it is the female of the sex that chooses the mate and that is how I have seen it with humans as well. True I just answered my question where the woman will say I just have not found a man worth doing stuff with, but par tof me sees that as a cop out and you must not really want the sex as bad as you say. See for a man after about 5 months with out and single.. he will drop whatever standurds he has by quite a lot and go out to the bar find some chick that will do stuff with him both get waaisted have the fun and then go back to his normal life.. unlesss he be unlucky and got something from the girl or stupid and planted his seed. Anyways back to the the point and my mystery...

 

How are cute girls going with out sex when they want it? I just DONT GET IT!!

 

That is it for now.. Later

~Bob

Its funny how people think of men. Being a self proclaimed lesbian with little interest in either sex, (It kept the riffraff down) I'm now starting to focus on what sexuality i might have. While its just a label that doesnt matter, I've realized this is something thats going to come up, and in my head, that makes it something worth contemplating.

 

The kind of man I want to be with is warm, and huggable, filled with smiles. Someone kinda like me, but minus the Manic Depression. Or else one of us will be dead. Messily.

 

For no apparent reason, I'm engaged to someone in World of Warcraft, and he's a honey. I'm kinda wondering, what would he really be like. This fascination with a unique example of the sex caused me to have a vivid dream, and the emotions i felt during it have haunted me all through working hours and further sleeping. My existence has become polluted with thoughts about my ideal partner.

 

Now, I must admit... I have a fondness for women, but i havent met one i could stand in a relationship. Most of the lesbians I've met and flirted with werent very forward. A relationship with them would make me the leader. Unfortunately I dont want that kind of relationship. I want equal partnership. These women... Just. Were.... Well. They werent going to take control and i like control, but i hate being stuck with someone with no decisions. Besides, there was great sexual chemistry, but being the women they were, the novelty of the chemistry would have worn off enough for us to realize that there was nothing there but sex.

 

Yes, i understand, the kind of relationship i have in my head is near impossible... But. I'm trying to make senseof it.

The worst part is that this person is taking up my thoughts, because of a dream i had. I've asked the fates of the universe for help, and Now i'm treating my Bipolar. Now i've asked them for clarity because i needed love and support (companionship) and they are giving me dreams, they are giving me good, solid loving people. Only I fear them. The people they are giving for they strike my heart close. But i want to get to know this man that has so beguiled me and infected my dreams, polluting my thoughts.

 

He may live several hours away... but we'll see where this goes....

 

 

 

 

I sit here and ponder......Why am I here? Why do I exist? What is my purpose on this God forsaken planet? Am I here to make something of myself? Was I meant to be a leader? A soldier? An actor, a plumber, A grocery store clerk? What, I don't know anymore....Do I have potential? If I do was I meant to take that to another level? to turn my entire world upside down and break away from those who say I will never make it? What do I have that sets me apart from so many of the billions and billions of other people on this planet? Do I use this to an advantage if I am as unique as I believe I am? Why do we exist....are we all on just one big ant farm, are we someone's science experiment, and criminals are the part has gone wrong? Are we someone's dream and we will all dissappear the moment they wake up? What is my purpose? It's a simple question why can't anyone answer it?

 

My second rant of the day...(sorry, I'm usually not like this.)

  Why the hell is sex so fucking complicated? As humans it seems like we are the only species that use sex as a pleasureable outlet AND for producing future generations, and as I see it I don't recall ever seeing anothe species in the animal kingdom having relationships based on the size of their male/female companion where we or the female gender, or at least most of them spend a lot of time basing their partners with certain criteria like...How big is their dick? Do they have a hard body? Do they have a sexy ass or how's the face? and Men, we are all guilty of this.....We see a woman larger than a size 6 and we're like "next!" How can we be so shallow all the time? I see my roomate, and he's bringing in 3 or 4 women a week and I haven't been active for months....and he's always bragging and when I act like I don't care he assumes it's because "I'm not getting any" I don't care because I almost became a father at one point, when I was 18.....I am much more careful on what I do with a woman now because of it and I mean that loosely because I rarely do anything anymore.

So where do we get this sexual aggression and testosterone from? where do women get their sex drive from.....I understand going into heat or a.k.a getting horny but why we select criteria for a mate is beyond me....there should be a connection...mentally, and emotionally before anything physically....so what do you think? Am I crazy for posting this or does some of this ramble make any sense to you? 

Ok... I read an article a while back by Kevin Powell (sorry no link…Google him) that pretty much confirms my experience with the opposite sex in AZ. Ya know...the whole sex crazy thing.

And I do agree that Americans are becoming more obsessed with sex than previous generations. Although, I wonder if it's a result of our society's outlook on how sex and nudity are portrayed in media.

With that being said, I had a conversation with Abbey and another co-worker we'll call Hilary, on account of the fact that she irritates you like Hilary off of the "Fresh Prince of Bel Air", so fake. I've never cared for her since I met her, but that's another story. Anyways, I was recounting a conversation I had earlier in the week with our mutual friend GA Peach about my up and coming trip. Peach told me to make sure I took plenty of rubbers (she actually said condoms with her southern belle twang, but I hate that word...it's like saying prophylactic). I told them what I told Peach, I don't get down like that. They were like why not? Imagine my shock. Please keep in mind that everyone is married.

 

Now, I'm far from a prude but I do try and maintain a few mortals now that I'm older. Like everyone, I've done questionable things, but contrary to popular belief, I don't share those things with everyone regardless if it’s trendy or acceptable.

But lately, I've been told by several married chicks that it's okay to have one night stands, it's okay to fuck random guys when you're out of state, All because I'm single. Gimme me a fucking break.

 I think we single and not so single women are more sexually promiscuous these days because we're in a pissing contest with men. If you can do it, so can we! But the thing is that we, women, forget is we're not men. We don't think like them. They can have no emotional repercussions from fucking a broad and not even knowing her name, unless they get caught by their woman, of course. lol

We, women on the other hand are emotional and plus we're dealing with the whole "act like a lady" mantra that's we've been brainwashed with since we were 2 or 3 years old.

So, yes eventually, we can get to that where we can fuck men in the same matter as guys fuck girls, but at what cost?  At the cost of being jaded because the guy who’s our friend with benefits doesn’t see us a woman, only has an outlet. At the cost of not meeting any real men, because there are so many women performing stupid porno tricks for free to who ever seems interested. I think it’s a constant struggle.  

 

Now don’t think I’m bitter because I’m not….or that I need to get some ass ASAP. Actually, I do have plans to get laid today. LOL. Seriously, I guess what I’m trying to say is that I wish it wasn’t so PC to be fucking out of control.

Think about it, ten years ago you knew very few adults that would even admit to having a threesome, now we’ve got kids going into college who have a zillion video clips of their group activities stored on their razor phones. Where’s the tenderness! Where’s the afterglow!  LMAO

 

So, here’s my question: Do your actions and conduct in your sex life significantly define you?