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Veterans Day Nov 11th 2007
Two Stories Affecting Veterans Lives



Half a Million U.S. Veterans Homeless in 2006


Aaron Glantz, OneWorld US


LOS ANGELES, Nov 9 (OneWorld) - As Americans prepare to honor their military veterans with parades and patriotism this weekend, a new study shows that 494,500 U.S. war vets lived homeless on the street for at least part of last year. Close to 200,000 veterans are homeless on any given night. The study, by the National Alliance to End Homelessness, found that about half of homeless vets are Vietnam veterans and at least 1,500 are newly returned from Iraq or Afghanistan.


Among them is 23-year-old Jason Kelley. Kelley grew up in Tomahawk, Wisconsin, a small town of just 3,700 in the state's great Northwoods near the Canadian border. A strong man with a sharp face, he spent a year in the army guarding convoys on their 14-hour drive between Kuwait and Camp Anaconda in Balad, north of Baghdad. Kelley's convoys regularly came under attack and after a few months in Iraq he had a mental breakdown. Medically evacuated back to the United States because of severe post traumatic stress disorder, Kelley returned to Tomahawk but didn't fit in. "I was bored," he deadpanned, in a recent conversation with OneWorld. "There's not much to do there." Three months later, Kelley moved to Los Angeles. Almost immediately, he ended up on the streets.


"I got stuck in a little predicament where I couldn't get a job because I didn't have an apartment and I couldn't get an apartment because I didn't have a job," he said. "The money I saved up in Iraq ran down and I was living on the street." After just a few weeks on the street, Kelley brought himself into a residence hall run by U.S. Vets, the largest provider of services for homeless veterans in the country.


Such services are not readily accessible to most veterans, however. According to the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA), the U.S. government provides only 15,000 shelter beds for homeless vets nationwide. Community-based non-profits provide another 8,000 beds. Collectively, the two systems meet only about 10 percent of the need. An even bigger problem, said John Driscoll of the National Coalition for Homeless Veterans, is that after finding space in a shelter and stabilizing themselves, many vets still can't afford permanent housing. "The VA programs go a long way in developing transitional assistance programs," he said. "The problem is that most of these programs only help the veteran for up to two years. Most veterans who successfully complete that program are not able to afford fair market rents in virtually any community in the country. Unless there are rental supports, that veteran is still at risk of being homeless after he gets out of that program."


Pentagon statistics show American soldiers are disproportionately recruited from poor, inner city, and rural areas. Many join the military primarily to get out of that environment. "What typically happens to young adults who go into the military at 17 or 18 [is that] when they return home, the same kind of economic conditions that forced them towards the military still exist or have gotten worse," Driscoll said.


The late Ricky Singh of Black Veterans for Social Justice believed veterans should be given special housing dispensation. Singh appears in the documentary film, "When I Came Home," which tells the story of Iraq war veteran Herold Noel, who had to live out of his jeep when he returned to New York with post traumatic stress disorder. "Every person in this country who is incarcerated is given a discharge plan, and part of that discharge plan is a housing plan," Singh said. "It should happen for soldiers too. If a soldier is returning to an unacceptable housing situation, that soldier should have in his hand as part of his discharge a Section 8 (federal housing voucher)."


VA representatives did not return repeated calls for comment on this story.


In September, former VA Secretary Jim Nicholson wrote to prominent senators warning that President Bush would veto key spending bills if Congress increased funding for veterans beyond the relatively modest budget Bush has suggested. The Senate ignored the warning, passing a larger VA budget by a vote of 92-1.


Vets looking for a place to turn can call the National Veterans Foundation's crisis hotline at 888-777-4443.



A major part of the problem with the VA today is the current nature of the present conflicts. In Vietnam, over 50,000 service men and women died partly due to the lack of or availability of immediate medical care. (58,249 Men and women died or missing) In todays conflicts the number of returning injured service men and women is approaching that number due to advanced and more immediate medical care. This fact coupled with the current administrations lack of support for all veterans is placing an extreme financial burden on the VA. The current administration and our representatives in Washington in their 'infinite wisdom' have placed more and more restrictions on eligibility for past veterans to receive benefits. I know, because as a veteran when trying to obtain help and benefits for my present journey and battle with cancer the most I could obtain was a small benefit with prescriptions and nothing else. I told them thanks, but no thanks (but not in those terms). I can get better benefits or discounts through Wal-Mart.





Combat wound affects a life's journey


By JULIET WILLIAMS, Associated Press Writer


STOCKTON, Calif. - The telegram that arrived on Nov. 15, 1969, was not pessimistic: "Private First Class Johnny O Brooks was slightly wounded in action."


It gave 20-year-old Flora Brooks, recently married, no hint of how much her life was about to change.


"Since he is not, repeat not seriously injured, no further reports will be furnished," the telegram concluded.


Today, they are growing old together, but not in the way either had envisioned. There were no children, no exotic vacations, not even any more of the simple fishing trips they had enjoyed before Johnny Brooks was drafted into the Army — three weeks after their wedding _and sent to Vietnam. He returned home without a leg and soon lost the other, along with his ability to speak and the use of his arms.


Today, Flora Brooks continues to serve as nursemaid and constant companion to a husband who is confined to a bed, unable to talk or move on his own. She never imagined any other way: "I'm so thankful that we were married," she said.


Flora Brooks, now 58, is a pillar of compassion and dedication, a model for others coping with spouses returning from Iraq and Afghanistan with missing limbs or damaged minds. Nearly 30,000 U.S. troops have been injured in Iraq alone; about 600 have lost at least one limb. Better armor and field medicine are keeping severely wounded troops alive at far higher rates than in previous wars, but their survival taxes the nation's medical systems and many families' ability to cope.


That has created financial and emotional burdens in families throughout the country, said Jim Weiskotf, a spokesman for Fisher House Foundation, which runs 38 homes where wounded veterans' family members can stay while they get medical treatment. "There's no doubt that that takes a significant toll. In an instant, your life is just changed and can never be changed back, when you get the phone call that your son or daughter's been severely wounded," he said.


Flora Brooks' advice to families of other severely injured veterans is simple: Just get through each day, because thinking about a whole lifetime is too daunting. "My heart goes out to them because they're just starting on this journey," she said. "If they don't have a family, I can't imagine having to go through it yourself." Despite the tone of the 1969 telegram, Johnny Brooks was wounded so severely by a mortar explosion that he lost most of his blood. While being prepared for skin graft surgery on his shredded back, he went into cardiac arrest and suffered serious brain damage. He was not expected to survive. Despite her reliance on family and close friends, Flora Brooks has cared for her husband mostly by herself. She leaves home only for brief outings and appointments.


She sleeps in a small bed in the living room, next to her husband's medical bed. Her days are spent almost entirely on his care: filling syringes with the liquid food she injects into his stomach tube every two hours, suctioning his mouth when he coughs, dispensing a small pharmacy of medications, draining catheters. She says she shares a rich, full life with her husband, who responds mostly through eye contact.


She reads Biblical scriptures to him, buys DVDs for them to watch together and talks to him while she does the intricate stitchwork on the patriotic quilts that adorn their home. Flora Brooks knows that many people in her position would have prayed for an easy death. Instead, she prayed for her high school sweetheart to live, regardless of what that life might hold. Johnny Brooks' mother, Ruth Brooks, still spends a lot of time visiting and helping her son and daughter-in-law. But even she depends on Flora.


"I still am not over it," she said. "She's so strong, and I'm not."


That resiliency has amazed Flora Brooks' family and friends, especially now that she also is caring for her mother, who suffers from dementia. She said she chooses not to dwell on her own twists of fate.


"I'm way thankful," she said. "I'm the one that's still saying 'Please God, please God, don't take him yet.'"


These stories are only two out of hundreds or even thousands affecting the lives of American service veterans. Shouldn't veterans of any war, of any conflict be able to obtain support and benefits from the VA without further hassles or sacrifice ? After all haven't they already sacrificed enough with their lives and their futures ? I know it would be futile to waste your time trying to convince the current administration that veterans deserve so much more. They are too busy spending our tax dollars enhancing and shoring up support for their political parties. You can however contact your states representatives in Congress and the Senate and convince them that if they want to keep their jobs they had better do something now. Isn't the sacrifice of so many men and women worth it to you ?



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Mumbling of a drunk

So this morning after finally deciding to go to sleep around 2,  my drunk father arrives home from his night out around 3 am. First thing that happens, he brakes the door bells, he jammed it in , so it was stuck on. So I had to find a screw driver, and fix that at 3 am while my mother held the flashlight for me.

 

Then I promptly went back to my bed. Wanting to stay clear of the drunk. So what did I have to listen to. Him, yell, bitch and holler at my mother about every bad thing that has ever happened in his entire life. You name it, he brought it up. This lasted until around 4, when he finally decided to stumble to bed on the other side of the house.

 

He truly made me feel like shit, and he didn't even have to see me, to do it. He says I hate him... well no, I don't. I hate the drinking.

 

Anyway, after falling back to sleep probably sometime around 5, I slept until noon. When I decided that I didn't want to lay there anymore. So I got up, and turned the TV on. To find absolutely nothing to watch for the first few hours. Then at 2, NHL hockey was on NBC, then the Kentucky Derby. 

 

Oh, between those 2 shows, I had to drive my father back to the Lancaster moose around 5 PM. Yup, the a** went out again ! So I took him there, dropped him off, and came back home. I hope there isn't a repeat of last night ! Ugh !...

 

The NASCAR race that was suppose to be on tonight has been rained out. So I have NHL hockey on again. Do you think I am having fun?  God I hate my life. I am so fucking bored right now.

 

There's so much BS on my mind right now. Lets see, were to start.  Oh, a so called friend asked me the other night. Why I don't come out to hang out with them anymore. I wanted to say "what is out there for me ?"  ... but I was nice, and blew her off instead of being mean.  I really wanna know, if another so called friend of mine, has any friends that she doesn't make fun of behind there backs. Humm... Just things that randomly come to my mind when people ask me to do things.

 

I don't wanna hang out with people that make fun of other people, and bad mouth people behind there backs. God only knows what they say about me, when I am not paying attention to them.

 

Well anyway, if you wanna know why I hang out at home , alone most of the time. Its cause of that reason. There are very few people that are nice, and even fewer that I would trust.

 

~ what a crappy life I lead

 
 
 

   
The Disaster in the Midle East

This war or occupation fiasco,whatever...is a horrible flashback for me.  It is hard to hear about the TIA's and see soldiers with missing limbs.  I cannot stomach this.  Mainly I cannot because I was there during the Vietam War.  I had no idea what was in store for me.........

I was 19, working at the Brentwood facility in Westwood, doing my Master's clinic in Speech Pathology.  I was finishing up at Cal Sate University at Northrdge (CSUN). My responsibility was to assess and treat  patients of all ages in group and individual therapy settings. Unfortunately, most of the patients I saw were right from being in country and landed at the VA to recuperate before being shipped home.

So many were my age range, and that made it tough to stay detached and help properly.

Guys came into group therapy unshaven, with urine bags hanging from wheelchairs, in their pajamas..and there I was leading these broken people in group speech therapy sessions.  My God, what a bizarre situation to see.  We spent most of our time just trying to get some feelings out, through whatever speech they had left... and tears. At times I had to totally forget my age and surroundings to function.

I will leave this monstrous story with the most unbeleivable scene........Mr H was a Judge, quite old and had a stroke. He lived in the VA domicillary permanently. Several times a week he came to the hospital to see me for individual therapy and was always there.  One session he was very late and I  called and found out the bus had picked him up to take him to therapy.  When he never showed....I finally found out that he had been riding around the grounds on the bus, DEAD, and NOBODY noticed that he NEVER got off at the hospital stop, even though it made several trips there.

This crap happened during Vietnam people-------SO many years ago.  Look what is still going down with our soldiers. I AM HEARTSICK.

 
 
   
 

VA Seeks Volunteers to Play 'Taps' at National Cemeteries

 

By Gerry J. Gilmore

American Forces Press Service

 

March 6, 2007 – Hundreds of volunteer buglers and trumpeters are being sought to participate in Armed Forces Day observances held at veterans' cemeteries nationwide and overseas, a U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs official said here yesterday.  The event, called "Echo Taps Worldwide," will be held May 19 and is co-sponsored by the VA's National Cemetery Administration and "Bugles Across America," a volunteer group, said Michael Nacincik, the cemetery administration's chief of communications and outreach support.

 

"Echo Taps" will take place at VA-operated national cemeteries, U.S. Department of the Interior/National Park Service national cemeteries, and American Battle Monuments Commission cemeteries located overseas, Nacincik said.

 

"It is an extremely important event for a number of reasons," Nacincik said. "It honors the service of veterans to our country."

 

The initiative also encourages musicians to perform as live buglers at veterans' funeral ceremonies year round, Nacincik said. In 2006, 688,000 veterans died in the United States, he noted, with most belonging to the World War II generation.

 

"There is overwhelming popular support to have 'Taps' played at veterans' funerals," Nacincik said. "And, obviously, with that many burials taking place, there are not enough buglers to provide a live bugler at every burial."

 

Nevertheless, Bugles Across America has done "a very good job" of obtaining volunteers to play "Taps" at military funerals, Nacincik said.

 

"It is important that our nation preserves the tradition of a live bugler to play final military honors," Leslie Hampton, a Navy veteran and Bugles Across America volunteer, stated in a recent VA news release.

 

"Hopefully, 'Echo Taps' will go even further and help to identify people who know how to play 'Taps' or are willing to learn how to play 'Taps' and motivate them to want to provide the service when they're available at veterans' funerals in the future," Nacincik said.

 

Volunteer buglers and trumpeters must register through the VA's website, which is attached to the "Echo Taps" site at www.echotaps.org, Nacincik said.

 

The VA operates 124 veterans' cemeteries across the United States, Nacincik said. Generally, persons who've received other than dishonorable discharges after completion of military service are eligible for burial at a VA-operated national cemetery, he noted.

 

Related Sites:
Participate in Echo Taps Worldwide


Echo Taps

Department of Veterans Affairs Burial and Memorials information

 

This article was sponsored by criminal justice online leadership; and, police and military personnel who have written books.

 
 
 

   
America, Wiccans and Tiger Woods
I am proud to be an American. I don't always agree with my government, the president or law makers. That's what makes being an American is about. I vote, I voice my opinion and dare to disagree. It is as much my country as it is any other American Citizen, from the lowliest, poorest person to the richest and most powerful. So on this note I will post this video: Watch This

If you watched this you will understand why I am making this post. This is an outrage. I may not be a Wiccan, I might disagree with a lot of Wiccan ideals, but they deserve to be recognized equally. Here is the VA's list on it's site of approved emblems HERE

And here is a site that explains more in depth about the issue and I found it very informative HERE
While I was discussing this with my roommate he pointed out this from the above site as the VA's reasoning for not including the Pentacle as a valid religious emblem "The Government policy insisted on: A written request from the recognized head of the religious group, a list of national officers and a membership tally. None of these are possible, because Wicca, like other Neo pagan religions, Native American Spirituality,New Age, Santaria, Vodun, and other decentralized and/or aboriginal religions, has no recognized head, no national officers and no membership lists."
Further down it says this however "...the cemetery administration updated its rules, and now only requires historic information about the religion and other documentation supporting the use of a specific faith symbol"

So in fact there is no reason for the VA to not accept the Pentacle as an emblem representing the Wiccan faith. This is a violation of our Constitution. This country was founded on religious freedom. We need to help make this change. Our troops, who fight for this right, should have this equality. It is only right. I am so boiling mad that this isn't all over the news. Who gives a flying rats ass on how sad it is that NFL players miss their families on Thanksgiving? Who cares about Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes??? Our troops are DYING out there and for what? So their bodies can be brought back here and not have the recognition they deserve? I don't agree with this war but I do support our troops. They fight for my right to tell the VA to fuck off.

Ok I was going to talk about Tiger Woods but I am gonna save it for tomorrow, I am too pissed off.
 
 
   
 

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