Trolling @ MindSay 
Speaking of trolling, isn't trolling a waste of time? Wouldn't it be a complete waste of time for me to go on the Stormfront website just to put my two cents in?
They never change. They NEVER "learn their lesson." Conning people is a WAY OF LIFE and these predators go back to it ASAP!
Barber is currently using the email: M.barber52@yahoo.com
Barber is telling women he's 52 (shaving five - 5 - years off his age!)
Barber says he was "born in California" (LIE!)
from our friends at FightBigamy:
This is the generic letter he has been sending to unsuspecting victims, chocked full of run-on sentences, grammatical, and punctuation errors. You would think a guy who 'professed to be a doctor' would know better.In the past, Barber has had a penchant for women named Joyce or Donna. THIS MAY have changed since his conviction & incarceration.
Barber1 Hi Angel How you doing today how is your health and how is your day going. i use to think that all me angels are found in heaven but now i can say i was wrong cos looking at your pictures on your profile you are such an angel. These descriptive little essays are hard to do. But hopefully it gives you a glimpse of who I am as a person. Cause I'm new to this online dating. So here it goes. My name is Micheal...was born in California. i'm 52 years old I'm the kind of man that treats woman so nice with kindness and respect them i care so much i like to take my woman on dates surprise her i am here to meet someone to trust and be there for her through anything. Someone to do things with and enjoy life with I want to share my life with that special woman who would be called my Queen i've a good sense of humor Loyal Genuine I love anything to do with the ocean and beautiful sunsets i love the rain i'm a very serious person Hoping to hear from you Well you can IM me on yahoo im at M_barber at yahoo dot com.
He professes to be new at online dating, yet he knows that online dating sites will not publish a bona fide email address when communicating via their systems, so he spells it out -- as he is well aware that the dating site's software will not catch the email address if is written that way!
Barber will change his information, get false identity papers and/or change his nicknames & email AS SOON AS HE KNOWS HE'S BEEN CAUGHT ON THIS ONE. BEWARE!! His last victim is lucky to be alive!
Like Ed Hicks -- these predators/ con men DO NOT CHANGE. THEY ARE INCURABLE!
Write immediately if you have any contact with this Cyberpath so we can pass the information along! (cyberpaths@gmail.com)
Surviving a Bad Choice -- by one of Barber's many Victims
FightBigamy on Barber
Very Bad Men on Barber - click on "THE DON JUAN OF CON"
Troubled man a ‘sociopathic sex addict’
By Gail Saltz
Q. I can’t get enough of women. I have to look at every woman who walks by. I watch porn, I flirt, I keep in touch with past girlfriends, I make new ones, I browse for women online. I get up to 30 e-mails a day from women. Once I have seduced them online, they are dying to meet me and usually sleep with me on the first date. Then I find the simplest flaw and use that against them to break it off. They are devastated.
They feel I have used them sexually, and they are right.
The kicker is that I am married. My wife is great, beautiful, intelligent and we have a good sex life. I am 41. We have been together for 25 years. I, however, still have a constant rotation of new women. I just can’t stop seducing other women and having sex with them. Nor do I want to, because I am having the time of my life.
This is affecting my job, but only because it is so time-consuming. Typically, it takes three hours a day to write to women. Then I make phone calls to those higher on the rotation. Then I e-mail again for another three hours after my wife goes to bed. Then I do a few hours of research for new women. I have slept with an untold number of women.
I would not call it an addiction because I like it so much and it makes me happy to meet them, seduce them, sleep with them and, yes, even break up with them. This week I will hit my all-time record of sleeping with 13 different women. They are all beautiful, intelligent and successful, and they all think we will live happily ever after. They have no idea that I am sleeping with so many other women, let alone married. I know hurting them emotionally is bad. I just can’t stop. To me it is all fair game as long as it is consensual. (there's no way this is consensual when you are lying to these women! and you're a predator to even think so. - the exposer)
To seduce a women to the point where she really wants to have sex with me is very stimulating to me. It is like I have scored a touchdown in the last few seconds of the Superbowl. I have gotten so good at the aftergame as well that I make only one call or e-mail. You are not what I was looking for, please don’t write me anymore. I never hear from them again. I find myself so manipulative it scares me sometimes.
Part of the game, too, is being so manipulative with my wife that it feels like directing an orchestra. Move her here, date the wife, sleep with the girlfriend, get a new girlfriend, slot her in for Tuesday. Can you please give me some insight into what is going on?
A. I think you are a sex addict and a sociopath.
What you describe is sexual addiction. Like any addict, you have a feedback loop that provides you with positive reinforcement every time you make a conquest — hence your comparison to a winning touchdown in the big game. This gives you a dopamine high (dopamine being the neurotransmitter involved in pleasure and reward). It is also involved in sexual activity and addictive behaviors like compulsive gambling.
What is so very disturbing is your complete lack of guilt, remorse or empathy for the other parties involved.
You know intellectually that this is bad behavior, because you are aware you are betraying your spouse and hurting all the other woman you deal with. Yet it seems that you understand this only on a purely observational level. It sounds as though you have no capacity for emotion.
You lack any ability to hold yourself morally accountable for your dishonest and harmful actions.
You are easily able to rationalize hurting and mistreating others, whether they are strangers or relatives. In fact, you take pleasure in it.
Hence, I also think you are a sociopath, with an utter lack of concern and regard for others. I suspect there are additional areas of your life where you repeatedly break the rules or injure others with no concern for the consequences. You might well destroy your marriage and your job.
You are leaving a wake of destruction.
For your own sake and for the sake of everyone else unfortunate enough to have their lives intersect with yours, you need help. If you don’t stop this behavior, you will likely contract a disease, get yourself arrested or enrage someone so much that you are harmed.
If you want to try living a normal life — something beyond a life governed by sexual addiction — you need treatment, either individual treatment or group treatment.
To my readers: People like this are often charming and charismatic. As you can see, this man has no trouble duping people and racking up innumerable conquests. If you encounter somebody like this, I suggest you get away as quickly as possible.
Dr. Gail’s Bottom Line: A sociopathic sex addict behaves in ways that violate social norms.
original post here
ALSO READ: INSIDE THE MIND OF A SERIAL SEDUCER
CROSS POSTED HERE
Who would have thought the girl who use to be out of the house every Fri-Sat would actually hate weekends anymore?
Well I do. And I have only started hating them since May. Why do I hate weekends now? Very simply......We are fucking broke like a monkey on crack is!
And before any of you say......in your sick know it all sweet voices..............."Go do the free things in your area." Let me explain to those of you who do NOT live in rural areas..........we drive......we drive to everything free or paid. Especially when you live outside of town. It still takes gas that we have to pay for when we are broke to go do "free" things. And another reason is rural areas just don't have the same amount of "free" things that city's do. Sure I can take the kdis to the park.....got to drive to it. Sure I can take the kids to the YMCA on the weekends........but we have to drive to it. Sure I could take the kids to the public accessed art gallieries..........again we have to drive to it.
I know things will get better......their on there way already......even though unless I get a refund check from child support recovery by tomorrow we are fuckered with paying rent late this week......but in the mean time it fucking sucks. I know I should count my blessings.......I have many.........I freely admit I was spoiled this past 7 years with a decent income.........I have a loving hubby, two great kids (even if they are my own spawn and cause me heart ache), I have my fur babies, I have a large loving extended family on both sides ........I live far far away from my in laws! That is the real blessing there I think! Everybody is healthy (even if I still can't afford to get to the doctor to get an MRI done). I have a roof over my head and food in my belly (for the most part with the food-I am stuck eating pork........I hate pork.....so pb sandwiches and crackers with tuna have become my next best meal! Most of my monthly bills are paid on time and the rest are only a month behind.........I am not counting back bills from moving!:P
I actually could go on and on with my blessings. But I still have the right to be pist off as Macha on the War Path, frustrated as Anu is when strugglign to take care of her Children! I have every right to ask my Gods and Goddesses.........Why the FUCK are you doing this to me? Haven't you tested me and mine with financial shit all of our lives?! Why can't you go test those fuckers with all the money and don't help anyone with it! Shit even when we are just "comforable" we make a point in purchasing things for donation, helping out charities and other events when we can, and taking care of things! And now you have us back to the point where I might have to turn over a coal miner to pull a dimonad out of his ass just to let me kids do things that every kid in this world should be allowed to do!
I have every right to rant and rave and point out how ppl in my family don't listen to me when my gut says don't do somethign! I have every right to rant and rave about how my husband's past choices combined with mine has made our life a living hell concerning his ex wife and his spawn with her! And even though we have that taken care of we are still feeling the fall out because Iowa is one of the worse states when it comes to their DHS system!
I start getting lazy and saying fuck it all. Why bother? The Gods and my faith aren't goign to help me. Then I take a deep breath and feel the Daghda give me a huge huge and pat my back. Saying.....the Cauldron of Plenty is only used in times of great need. Yes you are being tested again......and yes you are coming through the test.........and yes you have every right to be upset and frustrated. Give it time girl. As you freely know the Universe is a funny place and many things happen that you can't explain.
So I have been taking deep breaths because our situation is going to improve. With both my husband and I working our butts off trying to improve it and with the help of the Gods. I am slowly starting to get out of my lazy why bother funk. Sorry folks I am still goign to be the Crabbiest Bitch you have meet.....you can thank humanity for making me that way:P But the goal for this week, is to take back my house. It is clean but not to my normal standards. And I am starting up going back to the YMCA daily. I haven't been to the fitness room in two weeks. Ju Jitsu only.
These past two days I screwed up my sleeping schedule because I have been busy working on my website. I am still going to troll for pt jobs otu of the hosue. Full time ones won't cut it with kids in soccer and the whole family in ju jitsu and hubby works over nights with a funky schedule himself. I will still troll for pt or ft time jobs from home. I have a line on one that I had to take a test for. And I am going to start my own business up. I have a complete home office.......well not complete but with a lot more hardware and software then a lot of stay home moms. I am going to start a Virtual Assistant business up. I know how to advertise it and I have lines on some potential clients. And my own daddy runs his own business and has used my talents in the past to help him send out information; and is willing to let me take over his small machinest marketing campaigns for his own business. He is also goign to contact my uncle and cousins who also own their own machinest shop in eastern OK for me to try and talk them into using some of my servies!
All this good news on things looking up......still makes me hate weekends though!
