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What makes some people think, “I’m only one person.  What can I do?”  While others stand up, and use the voices they’ve been given.  What makes them so different?  Why do some people believe they can, while others believe they cannot?

One voice can sing quite beautifully all on its own.  It can touch people in ways that they may not even fully understand.  When you coalesce numerous voices, you get a powerful chorus which can move people in compelling, emotional ways.  Music can, and will, move people to tears.

Take away the music, keep the lyrics (or message), and the same is true.  One person speaking up, and just one person listening, can make a difference in some way.  When a number of people get together with a common cause, their impact can be immeasurable.  They have a louder voice.

My point is, don’t ever think you can’t do something because you’re “just one person”.  You can live your life the way you want to live it.  It’s yours, so make it count!  You can let your voice be heard solo, or you can lend it to an already colossal choir.  Stand up for your beliefs.  Be extraordinary!  The choice is yours.

Until Next Time,

Danielle   

 
 
   
 

I really want to go to this comedy show

Opie and Anthony Traveling Virus Comedy Tour

Wednesday, June 14, 2006 at 6:49 AM
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Opie and Anthony Traveling Virus
Opie and Anthony announced the launch of the Opie and Anthony Traveling Virus Comedy Tour - a "comedy festival" of sorts, the Traveling Virus Comedy Tour features a huge lineup of ridiculous comics with other events in the works. See below for Traveling Virus dates and linkage:

Nissan Pavilion, Bristow, VA, August 18th

Confirmed Lineup:

  • Bob Kelly
  • Bob Saget
  • Carlos Mencia
  • Jim Norton
  • Louis C.K.
  • Otto & George
  • Patrice O'Neal
  • Rich Vos

 

 
 
 

   
China Man, China Man
best keep from attempting to drink any form of liquid for next 8 and 1/2 mins. =)

 
 
 
   
 

I'm proud to be an American.
Yes, I'm a liberal.  And yes, I'm proud to be an American.  Neocons are like religios extremists.  They live in their own little world where anyone who doesn't believe as they do is somehow inherently evil.  And like a cult, they find believers who do not question them.  They bring people in on sensitive issues while screwing them on the important ones.

But I do love America.  There's no country I'd rather live in.  There's no other country where you can really start off with absolutely nothing and, at least in some places, can earn a college degree at no cost to you.  You can in Georgia.  And we're 49th in SAT scores (only because we make all high school graduates take the test, not just those who want to, unlike high-ranking states such as New Jersey).

Sure, maybe we don't have national healthcare.  But, go to a county hospital, and they have to treat you a little.  Maybe it's not great.  Maybe it's not always enough.  But it's better than bleeding to death in the street.

But what makes our country truly great?  Freedom.  Liberty.  The pursuit of happiness.  And who's trying to take that away?  It's not the liberals.

The Patriot Act, the Department of Homeland Security, brain children of our president and the current congress, take away freedoms.  They restrict our liberty.  By June 2008, you'll have to have a passport to go to Mexico or Canada.  Or anywhere outside the U.S.  That's a little unnecessary.  Terrorists didn't get through our borders from either of those countries.

There's been so much propaganda on both sides, and what you want to believe is up to you.  But do this.  Don't listen to the media.  Don't listen to your mom.  Don't listen to your best friend.

Listen to yourself.

Find out who will be on your ballot.  This can be done through your state's website.  Watch the political advertising and find out which candidates are running in your districts.  Call your elections office, and they can give you a sample ballot.  Then, use the internet.  Go to the candidates' websites.  Find out what they say they believe in and what they will fight for.  Sure, they won't live up to all their promises, but they'll give you an idea of where they stand.

If they say things like "core family values" and "conservative leadership" and that sounds a little vague, there's a reason for that.  They don't want you to know that they want to restrict your freedoms and become a big brother over your life, censoring information and checking up on who you call and even on your bank records.

If they say things like "national healthcare" and "open foreign policy" and those things are important to you, look at that candidate.  Don't worry about them being blue or red.  There are Republicans who are genuinely good leaders and Democrats who are generally crappy ones.  And vice versa.  Even if we don't want to believe it.

What's really sad is the campaigning being done in Georgia now.  There are two big Democratic candidates running for governor against an asshole Republican, the first in 182 years when he was elected.  Instead of pulling together, they're tearing each other apart.  Whichever wins, no one will want to vote for the winner of the primary come November. 

I think that happens on the national level, too.  Candidates tear each other apart, and, by the time one is picked, we don't like them.  So we go with the incumbent.  And that's not right.

You have to education yourself, do your best to discern what people stand for, and don't vote straight ticket.  I know that "Republican" or "Democrat" button is tempting, but don't press it.  Although Charlie Manson would have to be running as the Democrat for me to vote Republican at this point, I'm still going to vote for each office.

Primaries are coming up.  Ours are only 13 days away.  This is the first step in this election process, and yes, it's a very important year.  The Neocon congress (I don't like using Republican as a durogatory term, but the people the party has chosen to represent them are certainly deserving) has been screwing us.  The lastest tax cuts will cost the country $1 trillion over the next 10 years, allowing only the top 1.5% to save money.

The burden falls back on us, the middle class, the voters.  I can't afford to vote this way.  I don't want my rights stripped.  And I'm going to stand up and vote for who will represent me.  I want a congress that looks out for the people, not the corporations.  I want a congress that is going to pump money into healthcare, education, and national security.

The current congress has cut spending on national security.  Spending has been cut in DC and New York City.  In the years since 9/11, hundreds of thousands of cops have been laid off due to cuts in federal funding. 

I don't know about you, but I'd rather pay a little more taxes, make the rich pay the taxes they should be paying in the first place, and put cops on the streets, protection at our borders, ports and air ports, and protect our own citizens by giving them opportunities for education and giving them real health care, not just sick care.

Decide for yourself.  Are you happy with the status quo?  Do you think we should continue on this track?  Do the people you vote for get elected and then not represent you?  Then vote for someone else.  Vote your own beliefs.

I'm a liberal.  And I love this country.  I want to protect it.  Right now, we're slowly being destroyed.  Gay marriage will seem like a non-issue when half the country lives in poverty and we are under attack from nations like Iran and North Korea who feel like they have to make a pre-emptive strike against our tyrrany and WMDs, that we not only have but have used.

And that's leaving out the fact that over 1 billion world citizens could have to move because their homes will be under water, like New York City, Los Angeles and Miami.  But there's no such thing as global warming.  I don't feel comfortable with our leaders living with their head in the sand.
 
 
 

   
More Discussion with a Fellow Survivor

I wasn't sure whether to post these or not, but I remembered that a lot of the people who read my blog now didn't read it a year ago when a lot of this information was coming about, so I decided to anyway to help shed more light what I've been through. Don't forget that I also have a couple PTSD links to help you try to understand, too. Her e-mail is a reply to the one I posted in "My Big Step Vol. 3" and then I replied to that. Also, her text reference in here is because my text accidentally came out as black on a black background because of my blog. :P but yeah, I hope this helps you guys understand a little.

 

"Hi Jennifer,
 
Thanks for your reply - I am glad we've kept in contact. I'm also glad you'll continue to speak out...I think it's very important. I didn't end up going to the Open Mic thing...I wanted to really badly, but I was exhausted because I hadn't slept well for a couple of days, and also like you I did NOT want to walk home in the dark. I also had homework to work on and I had to get up early the next morning to get ready for a weekend camping trip (that's why it took me so long to reply to your email). I really want to do something like that though. It has been very healing to me to meet other survivors and talk to them. A counselor can tell you you're not alone 'till they're blue in the face, but you will never FEEL you are not alone until you meet someone who really is with you.
 
I think it's cool what you did with the text of your email. It reminds me of those government documents released through FOIA (Freedom Of Information Act). Except that your email actually tells the truth instead of covering it up, which is the best!
 
That's horrible that people are spreading rumors on a blog. That's messed up. I HATE people who friggin' (--does the F word offend you? I appologize if it does and won't use it anymore if it offends you) ----anyway I hate people who make up the most shit-faced excuses trying to vaporize the turth. I've been told I dreamed it, I had a fantasy about it and can't tell fantasy from reality, I made it up to get attention...on and on. My academic counselor here at HSU even asked me, TO MY FACE, if I was sure I hadn't just made it up. WHAT KIND OF QUESTION IS THAT! As if I have anything to gain by making something up and hiding it from myself. Is that even possible? "Oh, they're doing a lot of research now, and most people who have said they were sexually abused were really just making it up". That's what she told me. GOD! I am still angry about that! I hate her ass!!!! I have invisioned her death so many times. I don't want to kill anyone, but I like to have anger fantasies someitmes - which, I'm sure I don't need to tell you that YES I CAN tell fantasy from reality, unlike this lady, Sharon Ferrett, seemed to think.
 
It's cool that you're going to get together and change things. Count me in. I want to start a support group too, because although I do think the Health Center and Emma Center (I also was on their wait list, I believe) need to improve thereservice, I can tell you for sure that I will not be waiting on them! Im willing to work to effect change, but in the meantime, if I want something done right, I may have to do it myself. A group BY survivors FOR survivors. What's all this lab rat shit that goes on? I'm not willing to be another HSU Health Center experiment.
 
Take care of yourself. Do something fun for you! You deserve it!
xxxxx"
 
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"Hey xxxxx,

 

lol, thanx for the thing about the text. It's a very good point, and it's cool that it took you a while to reply. While I do check my e-mail often, I'm so busy with school that I often don't get to replying to them, so it takes me a while sometimes as well. As soon as I know what's going on I'll let you know. I actually got a chance to talk to one of the directors for Psyc. Services today, and she asked me to set up an appointment with her to discuss the policy even further. I know I'm just one person, but if I can communicate with her and take away some information, maybe I can spread that and get something done.

 

I so feel you on what you're saying about people who accuse you of making shit up. What the hell DO i have to gain from that? If I just wanted attention I'd come up with a much less complicated story than the shit that I've been through and I'd talk about that. Honestly, what the fuck? (oh yeah- unless you directly call me something or use a word like "faggot", words don't offend me. :P) I can't believe your advisor told you that. It's so aweful that people can say that, and it's terrible that a lot of people don't believe that women DO rape other women! Some rape men! So many people don't acknowledge or believe that that does happen, so if I was raped by a guy and no one believes me and I'm pissed now, I'm sure that's just a fraction of what you're feeling and I'm so sorry. I do have to say, though, that sometimes I do ask myself if I'm making it all up, like I just had a psychotic break, but if that's true, why do i remember it? Why do i have RECORDS of it? Why do I have it written down on my calander, why do I see old blog entries from before the cops found out, why is it so traumatic for me to hear other people talk about it? There's no way I made it up, and there's no way that what happened to me wasn't very real. I understand how you feel about the killing fantasies. "Kill Bill" is my favorite movie for a reason. :D I really just don't like to think about him anymore, though, and as hard as it is I'm trying to grow and move on. Also, I have never seen any record of any study done like that, and I've never heard any professional tell me something like that. I know that there are people who make it up, and they are truly sick and twisted individuals that feel god knows what reason to do something like that. As I said before, make up something else. Make up that you're an orphan that's being raised by a crazy cat lady or something. Something else interesting to think about is the people who generally make up those lies and say things like that are generally the ones who are seeking attention, and that's why they spread them.

 

With that I need to get some sort of work done, but it's great talking to you and getting to share this dialogue with another survivor. I'm doing all I can to learn what I can do to change our system and change the way that it works.

 

Do something fun for yourself, too, because YOU deserve it! And always take care.

Thank you,

Jennifer"

 
 
   
 

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