Soul Mates @ MindSay

Hello everyone! I haven't blogged in so long because things have been so hectic. I have been so busy with school, and this new organization I am a part of. I'm kind of stressed out about school because a class I needed was full! I need this one class to graduate and I hope I can get into it! I'm planning to visit a friend in the summer and I can't wait to do that. I love traveling! and this will be a trip I'm sure will be meorable! Everyone lately has seem to find their soul mates... or the person they believe they will spend the rest of their lives with. May be at this age..early to mid tweenties you find that person you might possibly marry some day and have kids with. Yes, sometimes these marriages don't work, but it is nice to be apart of something that you cherish. I remember my first love and it was spectaciular. I know some day that I will find him and we will be together. I know that sounds really eerie, and a bit to hopefully but it is this feeling that I have. I don't necessarily believe in soul mates, but sometimes you just know. Anyways, moving on from that school has been so crazy. I have a million things to study for but can't seem to do it. I'm so burned out! arrrgh! Anyways speaking of studying I better do that soon. I promise there will be a more informative blog once finals are over! Peace and love amigos y amigas!

... you meet someone you have never met before, or read a text by someone you have never met before, and you feel an instant connection?

This happened to me this week, and I am the slowest person to make friends. I take my time, even when I like someone, I still keep my distance. But it was here actually, on MindSay, a lady commented on my writing, and I don't know what hit me, but I *HAD TO* get to know her better. I even felt so comfortable with her, that I was truthful about a thing that would usually drive anyone away, but I knew that she wouldn't go. I cannot explain it, she's the type of person I would normally steer clear from, not because I would think bad of her kind, just that I would think we've got nothing to talk about.

I know, that some day I will be mad at her, I will shout at her, and I will go through a lot of different emotions, that only friends can take. My mother once said, that you can never be a friend with a person you haven't had a good fight with. And I think she is almost right. If you have to be careful of not to say the wrong thing so that the other won't go away, it's not real solid friendship. But it doesn't ALWAYS have to come to a fight, if you are so alike that there's no conflict. But being alike isn't what is required for a friendship. What it takes either excist or doesn't, and sometimes you just know that it does.

I'll make this brief. I believe. However, what is not common in my belief, is that I also believe there is several soul mates in our lifes, and not all of them are mr. Rights. I also believe in something called a twin soul, your actual other half, that you are destined to get together with at some point - but not necessarily in this life. Your twin soul might not be Mr. Right either in this life, but eventually will be. Soul mate is someone who you have shared a life with previously. As a friend, a family member, husband or wife or a teacher maybe. Someone who has a big impact on your life. Soul mates appear sometimes only briefly in your life; to give you a hugely important piece of information or to save you from trouble. Sometimes you can't get rid of them no matter how much you try. And because we have several of this kind of people in our lives, we obviously need a lot of soul mates.

Therefore "he's my soul mate" doesn't necessarily mean you should stick with him through thick and thin. He might be there just to teach you when to let go.

I know this is random but do you all believe in soul-mates?

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