Sleeping Together @ MindSay

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Blog #83

Meh, Saturday.

 

 

 

I woke up this morning with my arms around Shelly's neck again.

I love cuddling her when we're in bed together - it makes me feel so loved and secure.

 

Of course - cuddling leads to other things.

Lmao, we proper need to learn to keep our hands off each other.

At least it was only finger fun - 10 in the morning is too early to be eating muff for breakfast. :)

 

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Nana made pizza for lunch - but bodged them.

The first thing Shelly said was that they were undercooked. I wasn't overly arsed, so I just started eating this semi-frozen pizza.

 

I told Shelly to go ask nana to warm it up some more - but she was too scared to.

This really aggravated me at the time - to the point where I had to go and ask her.

I got so worked up, and so did she - up to where neither of us wanted to even eat them.

 

I only ate half of mine, Shelly only ate half of hers.

They ended up going to the seagulls outside.

 

Perhaps I can understand why she was afraid to ask - but it was a proper stupid thing for us to argue over.

This must be avoided in the future.

 

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Shelly was going to stay tonight as well - but her mam decided to be a slag and demand her home at 4:30.

So I was left by myself.

 

I just dissolved back into my Bully addiction.

My Wii play account says I've played it for almost 10 hours today.

 

I was playing it when Shelly was round. I was laid on her tummy. :)

I've started to blart her a lot now. Her tummy sounds a lot different to Ash's.

Ash tenses up when you do it to her though, so it's not as loud and blarty. :)

 

 

 

 

“You’re hot? I’m freezing”  How many times must my husband and I have the same conversation? Ever since hitting middle age my thermostat is permanently higher. And to my thinking one can always  put on more clothing or layers r blankets but once one is hot and naked and the bed us stripped what else is there to do? So here we are in a house set for 60 degrees at night and he has one level of warmth on his side of the bed and I have another and I am still waking up 2-4 times a night totally drenched in sweat. These are not hot flashes. I don’t get hot flashes. I get over heated because this 98.6 degree heating element I am married to insists on painting himself my already to warm body when we sleep. So I inch closer to the edge and he follows until I awake at 2 am , drench, limbs hanging off the bed and my upper torso clinging to the edge of the bed so I don’t fall out all together. What is a gal to do? Sleeping apart  is out. It’s not fun and who would get the master bedroom? I want the window open. He says it’s too cold when he gets up to pee which with an enlarged protate and a bladder the size of a pea is a considerable issue. But I have not slept through the night all week and so I am lethargic and napping in the day, compounding the problem I know.  We have discussed this many many times. He says we should both be comfortable. He says I am not normal. He says that I should go to the doctor. He says I should only wear a sheet. He says no one sleeps  with the windows opening winter in America.

 

This is one of those logical argument issues. I experimented with a thermometer and  when we are both in the bed it reads over 90 degrees. Of course I am sweating when it is 90 degrees in the bed. This is not abnormal. My doctor can’t give me chill pills. I am tired of waking in a puddle of sweat and adding towels to the bed. This isn’t menopause of a woman’s faulty wiring. I suggest that maybe he makes too much heat, that HE should go to the doctor, that we don’t set the room temperature to 65 so he can be comfy hen he wakes up to piss. Okay I am pissed. I just want to sleep and not be accused of continual female malfunctioning.  Please please maje this issue go away.

My weekend Kicked ASS!!!! Wow I have needed a full weekend of nothing but fun and new people. Ok Well got down there on thur at like 10 AM since Jeff had class that day. Well not to much happend during the day. Met his roomies, rugby, & frat friends. After he got out of his class I met a lot more people... yeah I am to lazy to go really into details about this stuff... Then after it got later we went to the BAR!!! Yeah that is what I was waiting for lol. We went to (removed name for legal reason). Very cool bar. Yeah they card but that dont really mean to much to me. Still got in with the 21 stamp. Told them I was with my friend the night he got his license taken away and I got mine taken too... he is 18 I am 19... yeah they just dont care mostly. Anyways that was draft night where it is just 75c for draft beer. Yeah... we spent about $16 that night... that was just on the beer... we had some shots too...Anyways after that we went back to a friend house of his.. who is closer friends with the girl that he mainly does... yeah my friend is a man whore... anyways this is the night that I had my first time not remember something. I woke up in the middle of the night with my back and right arm soakign wet. At first I was like crap did I puke on myself.. which woudl be wierd because the only thing that had ever made me puke is running.... anyways the next morning when I was more sober I smelt it and it was just water... my friend did puke that night though lol... we still have no clue how my shirts got wet. Ok then there was friday. This day I hanged out with Jeff friends because he was in class all day. Mainly it was Gretchen.. the girl that he mostly does... she is very cool and they look good together... but it will never go anywhere because they are both they same(drank a lot, have sex a lot, and black out with dranking a lot,... it just does not add up to anythign good)... Wow I really am random lol.... ok After hanging out with her for a bit we went to Drews house... ok jump back to thur. Night... I went to this house for an AA meeting... not what you think but I cant jump bnack to actually talk about it because I have gone to far... back to drews house. We watched VHI and him playing Partypoker.com. He was getting some awsome hand there. We then went back to Gretchens Room where we sat for a while tell we went to eat at the Caf. We all met up there since everyone was done with classes and after that... well I dont remember what exactly went all... it was a boring time for like two or three hours... but then we went to the appartment where I met more people and this one main chick I noticed named Vada. Well Anywyas after there We Went to (named removed for legal reasons) A resturant and Bar. Yeah another lovly place that served me beer. Well there I drank and flirted with some girls. Ended up playing cards with Vada and one of her friends... I actually did not even notice I was playing cards with her at that time... did not know tell later that night... ok well after there we went to (first removed name) to get really drunk. Well we went out on the dance floor and me and Drew started dancing around some other females. Well next thing I know me and Vada are dancing together... I was not arguing about that at all... well we ended up dancing together the rest of the night. I actually soberd up mostly while there dancing. Only had one Slutty Rugger while there. Well after They closed We walked back to her hall with Drew and some other chick. Well we made out in a lounge... O yeah Drew and the other chick left before we really got into that... well after several hours of making out and one shirt less for me we went to her room and went to bed at like 5 am.. yeah so it was about 2 hours or so of making out lol.. anyways we just went back and went to bed. No sex! I know I have not had it for along time but yeah no matter how bab I even act like I want it I dont think I would ever be able to do it with out having great feelings for the other person. Anyways I really have missed that, holding some one as you go to sleep and waking up to some one that damn hot ss very cool and sweet and yeah... I am way too emotional of a guy at times lol... Well after that I made it back to my friend room and then went to his Rugby game which kicked ass. After that we started dranking.. it was like 3.. bar did not open tell 4 so we went to some other room to drank... well it was some time after four when I went to go see Vada since I was going to stay the night and say fuck the parents basically. Well went over there and shortly after her roomie left. THat lef into another heavy make out session and me shirtless again... and I also found out I like getting bit this weekend and that she is trully the greatest teaser I have ever mad eout with, teasing is so hot to me... anyways we chose to get back dressed and go eat before her roomie got back since her roomie would be like what the F if she came back while we were doing that. Well we went to eat where I rememberd I worked today at like 7am. I was happy I did because I did not drank much yet and still had time to hang out and get home at an ok time. Well we hanged out for a little more and then she went to have a girls night and I jsut went and bummed around campis for two more hours.. o yeah and we did talk durign al thsi time too... it was not just a random makle out thing... I may have to try and take her from her BF.. or yeah she has a BF... but they are on like major rocks right now because he like does not seem to appriciate her enough. He wont even really drive 1 1/2 hours to come see her because he does not like luther. I mean that is they same for my distance and I would do it like every weekend for a girl like her. We seemed to have a lot in commen so yeah.. who knows.. going back down this coming weekend too lol.. not just to see her but to have a great time.. I think Jeff maybe up here on friday while I am down there though lol... but we will hook back up to get drunk on Sat... Well Yeah this is really long and I have no idea where to go now since I went into major writing after I hit the stuff about Vada so I am going to call this one a quite. Later
~Keep SMiling and God Bless

PS: I took out those names because I dont want to get those places in trouble