Sexual Fantasies @ MindSay 
The sexual fantasies of men are fairly simple compared to women. Women can have such scripted fantasies sometimes that they can be hard to fulfill. I knew a woman who fantasized about meeting a stranger in a club who she finds out later is a vampire. (I swear it isn't me!) She even had certain lines she wanted the vampire to say.
Men often like archetypal females which is why you can go to any number of adult costume shops and find a naughty nurse, school girl, cheerleader, French maid or slutty cop costume. Each of these costumes with maybe the exception of the cheerleader represent either submissive or dominant fantasies. The naughty nurse comes in and gives a helpless, vulnerable man much needed TLC and sympathy sex. She's in control, but she dominates gently. The slutty cop is what one would call a "power top". She's not exactly sweet and gentle in her domination. The school girl represents innocence and ripening sexuality that must be cultivated by a skilled lover. She's totally submissive -- yet curious. The French maid on the other hand represents submission because she is an employee. She submits for two reasons, 1) because her job could be in jeopardy and 2) because she is attracted to the power of her employer. The cheerleader is about having sex with someone popular and very fit.
The one fantasy woman I find intriguing is the naughty librarian. What is it about an attractive librarian that men find sexy? I know she represents intelligence and intelligence is sexy, but is it the initial assumption of her sexual repression that men find sexy? Maybe it's her knowledge of the Dewey Decimal System?? LOL!
She's usually dressed more conservatively than the other fantasy women -- wearing sensible shoes along with form fitting clothing. Her hair is often pinned up and she sports glasses. After shaking her hair out of it's up do and removing her glasses she suddenly becomes a font of sexuality.
I dressed up as a naughty librarian for my other half once and I thought I was going to have to spray him with the hose after awhile. Sheesh! :P So fellas, give me some insight into the naughty librarian. What's so sexy about her? Also, why do some of you think watching two women get it on is hot?
Ladies, do you feel you have really scripted and detailed sexual fantasies? You don't have to tell us what they are, but if you are brave enough, go for it!
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For those here who are happily open about our sex lives, I have a question. This question comes from reading a post about fantasies. Thanks to xugliegurliex. After reading her fantasies I began to wonder, what other people have fantasies about. What are your ultimate sex fantasies?
-- Lory
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The other day I read about a very unique case in Germany about a cannibal named Armin Meiwes. From the time he was a little boy, Meiwes had fantasies about eating people. As a boy, he dreamt about comsuming his classmates, and when he grew up, he built a slaughtering room in his home.
Meiwes searched for other people like him, and finally, with the birth of the internet, he was able them. He found a site where other people with fantasies like his liked to share their sick and twisted dreams. He placed an ad on the internet to intice someone to come "play" with him.
A man by the name of Bernd Brandes read the ad and was intrigued. He contacted Meiwes, bought a one-way airplane ticket, and flew out to see him. Meiwes and Brandes had hours of sex and then Brandes asked Meiwes to stab him to death. It would be the ultimate sexual experience. Stab him to death - and then EAT him.
Meiwes could finally re-enacted his ultimate fantasy. He stabbed Brandes to death, chopped up his body, and stored the pieces in his freezer. Every day, over the next few months, he thawed out Brandes, piece by piece, and ate him for dinner.
Meiwes was caught, arrested, and stood trial. But was a really a murderer? He had only done what Brandes had asked him. It was no different than other forms of euthanasia. He was helping Brandes to die, as Brandes had wished.
What do you think? Do you think Meiwes should be convicted for murder? If he is convicted should he be convicted for first degree murder, second degree murder, or manslaughter? Should he get off on insanity?
Definitions of murder convictions:
First-degree murder (or murder in the first degree, or colloquially, murder one) refers to premeditated murder, or murder which occurs after some degree of reflection by the murderer. This reflection can be years or less than a second.
Second-degree murder or voluntary manslaughter refers to murder done without thought in the heat of the moment, or in some states after "adequate provocation."
Third-degree murder, also known as manslaughter or involuntary manslaughter, occurs without the specific intent to kill, but usually after an act of criminal negligence or some other act resulting in a person's death.
The Insanity Defense are possible defenses by excuse, via which a defendant may argue that they should not be held criminally liable for breaking the law, as they were mentally ill or mentally incompetent at the time of their allegedly "criminal" actions.
*UPDATE* Specific details per Mullows's request: (Added 4/28 and 4/29)
Gory details:
The evidence in the case was lurid.
The victim, 43-year-old Jürgen Brandes, a computer specialist, traveled from Berlin to Meiwes' home near the city of Kassel in 2001 in reply to an Internet advertisement seeking a young man for 'slaughter and consumption.'
After sex at Brandes' request, they cut off his engorged penis which they fried and tried to eat. Losing consciousness, Brandes was killed by Meiwes, who stabbed him and carved his body like an animal's.
The trial judge said Meiwes' thrill was in the carving and consumption, not the slaying. Meiwes ate 20 kilograms (44 pounds) of the flesh -- accompanied by pepper sauce or wine sauce with potatoes -- and stored more in a freezer before burying the rest.
He has become a minor celebrity and a media company has acquired the rights to make a film about his life.
Meiwes told the trial last year he regretted the killing, but Brandes "came to me of his free will to end his life." The gruesome incident was all captured on camcorder. "I had the fantasy, and in the end I fulfilled it," he said. The fantasy first developed between the ages of eight and 12, he added.
Mr Meiwes spoke of how he felt ignored by his father, and longed for a good-looking younger brother - whom he would bind to himself forever by consuming.
Meiwes said he was not acting out of sexual desire when he killed Brandes, but rather out of loneliness and the desire for the brother he never had. I wanted "someone to be part of me," he told the court.
What do you think?
