I went to a seminar today on lap band surgery. I went to get information for myself but i was reminded that nothing in my life changes. All my husband could talk about is what he thought he should do, which surgery would be best for him, how soon we could get it started. I just don't know that with all of his medical issues that the doctor will even consider him. but this only drove home the point that with my husband for anything I do even if I attempt to do it for myself, like the photography or computers, or even bariatic surgery it always has been and always will be all about him.
Just like I got a very expensive gourmet cupcake that was very large and I told him that would be our dessert for dinner on Friday. And he comes out of the kitchen after dinner finishing off the last of the cupcake. when I say something to him about did he leave any for me he just looks at me like what do you mean any for you?? It wouldn't have mattered so much just that I made a point of saying it was for US and this is not the first time this has happened.
Things never change in my marriage. It is all about him only. And now I have to go because he has decided that now he wants to take a shower and I have to help him right now
