Roomate @ MindSay

so tonight i was getting ready to go to sleep and then i hear a knock at the door. im like "wtf?" and then i get to the door and its one of my bestfriends!! (whom actually understand what im going thru..were so alike its crazy) im like "wtf" and then i was like excited lol. and then we went and got pplz and i turned into this whole kewl night of fun and laughs.. and like my roomate asks one of our friends to go get her mikes hard lemonade cuz she wanted something to drink when she gets back from dropping off her friend (who might i add is 22, so she culdve gotten her to do it) and like we were getting ready to go but then we start playing this game and we like get soo wrapped up in it and they stop selling alcohol at 2am. and like she gets back at 2 am exactly and we r like, o shit. so she like started complaining thats he wanted something and that she doesnt like beer <neither do i but if its there ill have a lil bit> and so she leaves the room all pissy... i seriously had no sympathy cuz she def had someone of age to buy it for her. i know that shit aint gonna go down when im 21. so ne way, the night is going well and we're having a blast. and so after ppl leave im layin in my room chillen and she msgs online askin if im downlaoding nething, and im like yea. then 3 mins later she knock on the door and asks info about what im downlaiding sayin it might be takin up so much bandwith that she cant watch videos online..and im like well it never did before. and then she starts bring up rent, and bills and what am i gonna do etc and im like (in my head) its like 5am are u serious?...so ne way im like well my deposit is gonna pay for oct and if i cant find work by then im gonna sublet it..and she is like "no ur not" i seriously wanted to be like "fuck off right now ok?" cuz lately she has been actin as if she is my mother and last i checked i aint pop out her womb. moving on, im like if i dont find work by mid oct, or the end of oct then im gonna sublet..and she goes on about how her friend has gotten 2 jobs already..im like these ppl ur referring to have started working since they were fucking 15, my mother never let me work. she always said "dont worry about it ill pay for it". and then im lik, im still applying..and she cuts me off and is like "i havent seen you applying"...what do u expect me to do, go to ur room and be like "hey im applying to this place now, see see see, u shuld sit and watch me do it!" fuck that shit! I sit through long ass application questionares on a reg basis just cuz u dont see it doesnt mean i dont do it...and allthis shit coming from someone who has never worked for shit. and then after she is like im not subletting my half she is like if u have to leave im screwed out of like 600 dollars.... its like she is blaming me for the bitch in ny that didnt pay her rent which in fact caused my financial situations (i feel bad for her cuz i mean i know itd hard, but damn!) she aint even have to pay for the entire thing jus like 450 out of 1200!!!!!!!! in NY!!!!!! r u fucking kidding me!! so i mean i understand u worrying, but to be a lil bitchy about it. trust me when i say i can be just as bitchy or even more. i mean if her parents knew where all that extra money was goin..hhmmmm lol i woulndt do it, but i mean i can be that spiteful. ne way, and then at the end of it all she is like, say something so i know ur not mad at me...did she really think i was gonna say how i feel. im not gonna make her cry or get upset and then she goes and tells mutual friends and i look like the bad guy..hell no.  (funny think is my friend who surprised me actually noticed my roomates recent bitchy attitude.) im so over it, and she still hasnt fucking cleaned the liter box, but she has time to go out all the time and drink, among other things (hint hint) so please, someone tellme if im crzy or not, cuz this seriously needs to stop....i dont wanna go back to NY and im tryin my hardest to find something, but all the stores wont call till early oct, whoch thanfully is pretty much right here. lets hope i start working soon....which will be amaing cuz after work i can hang with work friends and we can all chillin my room and introduce them to my lil circle and itll be awesome. cuz before i was always around mutual friends..like all of em were my roomates friends. soon ill have my own new circle. like i have friend that are kinda more mine than hers lol, but to venture out and meet brand new ppl would be an experience id love to have. <although it is a lil spiteful lmao> but im not doing it for that, i promise. i just want something new. ne way, thats the latest in roomate ishes. <issues> am i crazy and looking to much into it, or is she being a lil bitchtastic? comments and/ or advice are accepted, i like to hear different points of views..other ppl see things that i probly cant. :P

Oh boy , this is funny. my roomate..who has never had to work for anything... is on my back more so than my mom lately about me finding work. now i can understand u being like..hey, u shuld try here or u shuld try there, but to be like.."u need to stop sleeping during the day and find a job" is not acceptable. especially after i was explaining how my energy has been like oddly low lately. and ive had this one sided headache that has been plagueing me for like two weeks and counting. Im just really sick of it cuz its not like im not trying..and she told me that i can use her car to look for work while she is in class and all of a sudden now she is gonna "write down the bus schedule and leave me $5"...way to keep ur word.

 

and what also pisses me off is that ive been the only person cleaning the apt since dec and when ppl talk about how the apt looks.she uses the word "we" when talking about cleaning..like today i was talking to one of her friends about the ant problem the apt has and how i mopped and cleaned the kitchen and they like multiplied..out of no where she starts sayin "yea we wuld scrub the floors and they just eep coming". i swear, i wanted to be like."we scrubbed?" lol, but i was nice. She never cleans, unless its her room and thats only if a boy she likes is coming over...she'll do her room and then il do the rest of the apt...as usual. im gettin sick of it. ugh. and i was supposed to go to sleep but i got too ADD and started lookin stuff up..which sucks cuz i have to go to urgent care about my headache among other things..then i gotta look for work, and after all that buy some groceries with wat little money i have and then look at an apt my friends are interested in. life is just great u know.

So the infamous roommate, Dan, sent me a text message that he was dropping out of school and moving back home, due to how depressed we have made him. He was supposed to graduate in May. He got some kind of letter a few weeks before he told us he was dropping out that said important graduation information. I think he was missing a class or something and they probably weren't going to let him graduate anyhow. He is still in Kent, but I don't know who he's living with. He has come back to the apartment at least once since he told us he was leaving. He has left everything here, AND moved in a small refrigerator into his room. It's not plugged in, the plug is hanging out of his room. Neither Steve or I have seen him. So, we figure that he is waiting until he thinks, or knows that we are supposed to be gone.

I turned in my portfolio. I think that most of my stuff is good, but all of the craft, from everything is horrible. My boxes from 3D are put together so pathetically, and my teacher said that if craft is bad, they aren't going to even look at design. I have been thinking about all of my different options that will be open to me when/if I don't make it. I'm still pretty stressed about it, I'll get the results on Monday. They hand everyone an envelope and I'm going to wait until Steve gets home so that we can open it together and I'll have someone to support me. I'm so scared! I don't like not having a set plan for what is going to happen. I know that there is always something that could change plans, but I like having like a blueprint, which now, is all screwed up. ARGH!

I'm having a lot of trouble finding a job for the summer, no one seems to be hiring. Everyone is accepting applications, but no one is employing. I don't know what I'm going to do, I need a job for the summer, and one  of my options from review is to skip Fall semester and redo Spring semester. Lots of stuff going on right now. Its crazy!

Hey everyone!

It has been forever since I last was on here. Not too much has changed, I don't think.

We moved out of Steve's apartment. His roomate was stealing from the university, and us. A lot of computer fraud as well. He was found guilty at one of his hearings lost his job, I think, and his girlfriend who was only with him for his money anyway, so she broke up with him.

We are trying to find a place for over the summer. I'm still a little worried about it. I know that we have moved fast, but he is going to be graduating next year, and then I will be up here by myself. I'm thinking we might need to wait for a while longer. It is almost too late to worry about this summer, its comming up fast.

I might change majors, again! I had to drop my major's class VCD this semmester, and I might take it up over the summer. A lot of stuff has been going on this semmester.

My chior director died from breast cancer, and my friend died in a freak car accident. I have been having bad migraines too. I just saw a specialist for them, and I now take Imitrex STAT Pen. AKA shots.

I think thats about it... like I said, not too much......

Let me be Mcgruff ....the crime dog for a minute.

My roomate was telling me of an interesting incident that happened to her ...........she just came back from a weekend trip via greyhound bus.  Unfortunately she had missed her first bus so had to wait hours for the next one.  She finally arrived at the bus station here in DC at 2 in the morning. 
She originally planned on taking the metro bus back to the apartment but at that hour, everything had stopped running and she didn't want to wake me up.  silliness!  okay, so she's out there in the city, with very few people around, and everything is closed. 

well.......a man approached her to see if she needed a cab.  Yes, she answered but then realized, he's no cab driver.  He had a car, willing to give her a ride wherever for $10.  Of course my roomate said no thanks.  The man persisted though, he tried to persuade her to see that he was safe, just wanting to earn some money.  ....that he was a family man.  He even showed her the baby car seat in the back of his car.  He was telling her about his wife and his children.  He told her, .."you can take my cell phone and call your family with it so they will have my phone number".  He even went as far as to allow her to scratch him so she could have his blood under her fingernails for DNA evidence if anything were to happen to her.  ...which I found kinda crrrrazyyyyyy (but what an interesting idea he offered).  anyways..... my roomate said no. 

I know this may sound like I'm making a big deal about it...... but I am reminded of serial killers like Ted Bundy and his M.O. when I hear things like this.  You can never be too careful with strangers, even if they seem completely legit.   Bundy was able to gain the trust of countless young women by looking vulnerable, helpless, wearing an arm cast, and asking for assistance.  The helpful, kind, woman was the easiest target.  and they're dead now.

I'm glad that my roomate didn't take the man's offer even though she was extremely tired, and wanting to cry being out there so late alone.  She felt bad for the dude since he seemed genuine and just hard up for cash,  but who in the world knows what could've happened.  He could have been totally safe but if not, that's not a risk you want to take with your life.   If you feel bad....give him $10 and call it a day.  or tell the stranger that approaches you, I'm sorry I can't help you but I'll call for someone to assist you with your stalled out car as soon as I can, or just ignore them.  Whatever the situation is......just remember to play it safe.