Relationship Advice @ MindSay

I'm not sure if i blogged about this before but a while back i was gonna ask this girl in my photography class out. However after deciding to ask her out we were talking as a group about relationships and she said she wasn't really interested in a relationship so i decided not to ask her out.

 

However yesterday she said that she believes that the guy should always make the first move. This made think whether sh had changed her mind and is now interested in a relationship. SHould i ask her out or not?

 

Anyone got any advice?

 

Anyway,

 

"Tell me what the fuck is wrong with me"

A few days ago a friend of mine had an absolutely horrid sexual experience with a guy who she'd been seeing. Granted this was their first time, but she said that he was like a demented chihuahua -- just humping away.  She said she felt like he forgot she was even there! Even after she told him to stop and slow down, he still went back to hammering away like possessed jackhammer. The foreplay, she told me, consisted of him rubbing her arm for five minutes and calling her "baby".  

 

I noticed that a lot of "How to Please a Woman" books are written by women.  I feel this may put the advice in the books at a disadvantage. After all, men rarely listen to women anyway. Ask any married woman and she'll tell you numerous tales of instances where her husband was half-assed listening to her.  Therefore, I feel like the best advice on how a guy should please a woman should come from the average, everyday guy. 

 

The Gothic Mistress and I are calling for submissions of advice on how to sexually please a woman by men, ages 18 and up.  It can be instructions for actual techniques or advice about how women differ from men when it comes to arousal and their sexual mindset. 

 

Just reply to this post with your suggestions. We will be anxiously awaiting your imput. *giggle*

 

You know when we were going through our marriage issues? I was looking all over the place for help. I was looking for Relationship Advice for Women. I found some real help then and it helped me to get my mind wrapped around what my marriage was really supposed to be about. Sometimes married people forget their main focus and end up in so many more problems than they need. What reminded me of it is that I am watching The Jefferson's and it's the double episode about when Lionel and Jenny were thinking about calling it quits.

The main points were communication and compassion. We have to try and understand each other's needs and wants from the other person's perspective. The couple on the show were going what many couples go through when a new baby is in the house. Articles like Love Isn't Something that Just Happens to You really help to open the lines of understanding which then leads to compassion and communication.


disclosed

hey guys. i haven't updated in a while. so since i have time and am bored i thought i would. so...i'm still with jason. as most of you already know. i love that boy to death. =]  he's my baby. but our relationship hasn't bee easy at all. very dificult indeed actually. i have cheated on him twice. and i regret it all. i might as well of just ripped his heart out. it prollyt would have been less painful. i am so sorry for all of it too. so take my advice...DON'T CHEAT!!!! its not worth it. if your really unhappy break up. even though i tried that too and that also wasn't what i wantd. what i really OBVIOUSLY!!!  lol. so ye...but we're good now.

 

 

well there is an update. leave me stuff. thanks everyone. =]

 

 

-Lindsey Elizabeth