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I will only do that if she expressly asks me to do so. Laine asked me to do this a few nights ago. I must say that Laine did not ask me to reply, I actually asked her if it was ok to throw in my comments as I was actually offended by what this person said, having 'known' each other since she read my post on the female orgasm, a week or so ago.
A week is not enough time to get to know, and try to psycho analyze someone. This women, both Laine and I feel, tried to do it. Badly, but nonetheless, tried, which was bad enough, but what's more, knowing the state of our religious beliefs, or non beliefs as the case maybe, kept on about it... and on about it..... Well, I'll let you read.... and I took out her screen name to somewhat protect her identity.
I'm not looking for approval or dissaproval, because it's happened now. I just found it amazing how rude people can really be, when all we've been is nice... until now.
and that is a healthy emotion, as long as you don't let it carry you away ...
but you may also be a little hormonal..so get a good daily workout, at least a good swift walk and clear the cobwebs...and i say do it without matt, as you need time to think, and we all need space for a while each day...we appreciate each other more that way...
and about the erotica..do it as he is doing, in small instalments at a time...click it off, just when it is getting juicy and we will be begging for more, and then make us wait a day or two for more...the anticipation will build us up to love the next one...and you will get replies each time, instead of just one from one long blog that all people cannot plow thru for lack of time...
that was just another thought...
of course, we all love to hear juicy stories from time to time...keeps the old juices flowing...just remember to do it to kids only and you may want to screen results while you are doing that series..and then take it off the blog after we have allhad time to see it...
i prayed for you last night, and was glad to hear matt say that you guys slept like a log...
And even though we are both very sexual sensual people with eachother, we don't have the amount of sex that it seems. It's quality, not quantity.
i always have a tendency to analyze everything to death, instead of just taking things at face value...but i am glad that you said you seem to be feeling better and we all have a few bad days, now and then, don't we?
I analyze as well...but I overanalyze myself.
for i cannot for the life of me remember anything about your little girl and jealousy going together in one topic...and don't have time to go back to your blog...but you did mention jealousy....
oh yes....now i remember...the little girl i was talking about was you...the child in you that has not matured yet...wow....glad i finally clicked and do not feel quite so crazy...
the inner lainey, is what i was talking about...we all fee jealous and self centered and sometimes act like we would have as toddlers, because we have not come to terms with all of our feelings....causing a bit of stunted growth in that area...
sorry about that...god...i didnt mean anything by it, was just musing and wondering....will be much more careful in future...
i have so much to do now that my time is going to be very limited anyway, so you may actually be relieved to hear that i won't have quite as much time to "meddle"....lol
so sorry, hope there are no hard feelings, now that i am wide awake...
have a good day
This may sound harsh and although being offended with your comments as I am, I'll try and make this as plain as possible without causing too much offense to you. I don't believe in 'an eye for an eye', but I do believe in standing up for what you think is right.
Although we are unlucky enough to reside in the same state, we are not the usual people that you would find walking down any street or through any Mall in Kentucky. Personally, I have never lived anywhere where people are so small minded and self absorbed, nosey and biggotted. I actually hate this place and if it weren't for Laine, I wouldn't live here at all.
Laine has been away from here most of her adult life and grown so much as a person it's not even funny. Laine is very intelligent, very talented and very opinionated, in a good way of course, but she's also extremely open-minded.
Therefore, when Laine posts something on her blog, as most of the community do here on mindsay, the comments section is for just that. Comments. Not purely offensive over-analytical statements that show that someone who really knows nothing about Laine that reads a few posts decides to accuse her of being hormonal and jealous.
Laine is not hormonal and is certainly not jealous. These are private emotions that don't need over-analyzing. The fact that Laine has posted it in her blog is the fact that she can articulate it more in her writings than in speech at that time. It's not to give someone a free-for-all chance to make her feel even worse by over-analyzing her every emotion.
Stuff the time it was written, it WAS written, which makes it worse that you admit the fact that you were tired and really weren't thinking too much about what you wrote. If you're not sure what to write or you think it might come out contorted, don't write it at all.
I notice that you also told Laine that you prayed for us. We've made it totally clear that we do not subscribe to your god, your jesus or any of your own personal beliefs. While we respect your own beliefs, we don't feel the need to tell you what we may or may not feel in our own lives, so please, we don't need to know that you spoke to your comforter and 'prayed' for us. Laine is Pagan, and I am agnostic. Laine does not believe in the same god as you do and therefore, does not want to hear about your god, as she doesn't deem it necessary to sit in a salt circle and meditate and tell you about it. Please, stop with the religion thing in your replies. If you can't, and I understand that it's a part of who you are, I suggest we quit visiting each other's blogs and go our separate ways now.
I know that as a christian you are not going to compromise who you are. So please, stop trying to force Laine to compromise who she is.
Laine is a very secure person, she knows who she is and what she is. Her blogs are a slight insight into her life. A keyhole into the life of Laine, it's not an open book, and the comments that you display are not comments as I would see them, they are the sort of thing that is reserved just for Laine to analyze. So I ask you, politely before you are blocked, have a bit of respect. Please?
I do feel that you could have talked to me personally and not thru Matt, but no offense was meant; I was just talking about things that women go thru, one woman to another. However, I meant no offense, and certainly do apologise for being offensive to you. I will not mention the Lord any more either, altho He is a center of my being. I am still new to being completely dedicated to him, after a long lapse, and am enthusiastic and zealous. It may be best for all concerned if I just take my leave while we have not had greater "words" than we have. I will seek friends with whom I have more in common. I do not apologise however, for saying that you will be in my prayers, because I know prayer changes people, even the most hardhearted pagans and agnostics.
I said:
"I don't feel the need to speak for Laine at all as she is very articulate person, however, I'm going to stick my nose in on this as I KNOW the sort of person Laine is and to be quite honest, you don't."
Which actually means - Laine has not asked me to respond to this but I feel I should as it not only offended her, it offended ME and this was MY response and MY feelings.
You said:
"the inner lainey, is what i was talking about...we all fee jealous and self centered and sometimes act like we would have as toddlers, because we have not come to terms with all of our feelings....causing a bit of stunted growth in that area..."
I was offended because I feel you were trying to equate Laine to yourself. Laine has not had a stunted growth and has grown more as a person in the last year that I have ever experienced. She never acts like a toddler and I resent any comment that likens to that effect.
You also said:
"oh yes....now i remember...the little girl i was talking about was you...the child in you that has not matured yet...wow....glad i finally clicked and do not feel quite so crazy..."
The child in Laine??? You have known her three days and you are implying that she has a child inside her that has not matured yet??? This is just ridiculous!!!! Anyone who knows Laine, knows that there is nothing about her that spells immaturity.
You also contradict yourself in your reply by spouting:
"I will not mention the Lord any more either..."
But you go on....
"altho He is a center of my being. I am still new to being completely dedicated to him, after a long lapse, and am enthusiastic and zealous."
....and on.....
"for saying that you will be in my prayers, because I know prayer changes people, even the most hardhearted pagans and agnostics."
..and in reply to that, I was nothing but accepting and understanding about your beliefs and then, in what seemed to be an 'apologetic' reply, to Laine and not I of course, you think it's ok to offend us both in one swoop and call us hardhearted?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
Bonnie, I've been holding myself back on saying this, as I really didn't want to believe it, but I think you are totally deranged and if I were you, I'd delete my blog before you alienate anyone else.
Pray all you want, but it's a waste of time and effort - Your god is your god and whatever it might be, has no place in my life, through your prayers or through the blood in my veins. The only thing I am hardhearted about is accepting your 'lord' into my life, where it has no place.
You people think it's fine to just inch it into the conversation and think nobody notices, but it's so in your face. I have no idea why you people take it upon yourself to try and convert the unconvertible. Before you know it you'll look back at your life as a total and utter waste of time trying to convert people to your own beliefs. Thus alienating people in the process.
If that's the way you want to live your life, who the heck am I to judge? And I ask you this question:
Who are YOU to judge????
ok... this entry is going to piss some people off, suprise others, and just let people know things.
Ok i have a new girlfriend....Brigette. Yes david...Brigette. I asked her out today and she said yes. Now for those of hers and my friends. I just wantd yall to know.
David...she said you waited to long...i know you say that you still love her and i know you are probably pissed at me even more now that her and i are together...
Allen...Yeah dude me and her are together...she told you things wouldnt happen between you two because of the reason she told you...
Any one else who is mad at me because of this or happy...just leave me a post...i will read them and reply if i can...i dont care what you reply...i screen them so it doesnt matter...bye
Paul "Kazuo" Loftis
The Mongoose
