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Warning: I decided to be ballsy and publish this openly for all of Mindsay to read.  Be forewarned that sex and sexuality are the topic of this post and mature words and concepts are used and discussed. Don't read any further if any of these things make you uncomfortable.
 

My only class on Tuesday/Thursday this semester is a little gem called Sexualities and Society- Soc 269 (Yes, the 69 is on purpose, which I still find hilarious).  I really cannot even explain to you what this course is like. It's definitely unlike I have taken or will ever take.  The first day of class, my professor, who is a sex sociologist by profession, showed increasingly erotic pictures over the projecter throughout the hour long class. The first image was of a couple holding hands, then a scantly clad couple cuddling on the beach.  As the hour went on, more and more skin was shown, and the images got more and more shocking. By the end of it, we were viewing some very X-rated pictures- a woman using a huge dildo on herself, one man giving another head, and so on.  I was somewhat shocked, but very intrigued. We all had to make a pledge saying that we'd been exposed to what the content of the class would be like and that we had been warned that it contained explicit material.

Throughout the semester, all kinds of topics have been covered, sparking conversations I will never again see in a classroom setting.  Most notably, we watched a 45 minute montage of hardcore pornography, projected on the huge screen.  It was definitely different to watch porn in a classroom with 100 or so other students. We watched it with a very critical eye- where is the camera focusing? why is this hot or not hot?- but it was still all very surreal.

Though the shock value of this class has worn off some, and some lectures are more mundane than others, this class has been an eye opener for me.  Today was no exception.  We have a big assignment coming up called our "creative project" (which I need to get started on...ugh).  One of the students in my class, a curvy 30-something mother of five, put on a passion party for our class today.  For those of you who are unaware (I was!), this is a akin to a Tupperware party, or a Mary Kay/Avon sample session, except the items being sold are sex items. That's right, lubricants, massage oils, edible everything, dildos, and vibrators.  Tiffany, the presenter, came dressed in a sexy cop costume and proceeded to market her products, handing out samples and giving first hand accounts about many of the products. She even passed around several vibrators!  I really enjoyed myself and am thinking of purchasing a couple of things for myself :P

Sexaulities and Society is a ballsy class that never would have existed even just a couple of decades ago.  I think it's fantastic that we as students can discuss and learn about sexuality in more than a biological or psychological way.  It's something we all experience- everyone has a sexuality whether it be hetero, homo, bi, or a.  The main point of this class that my foul mouthed professor continues to drive home is sex positivity. That means viewing sex as normal, healthy, and good. It means not being afraid to discuss sex. 

My professor defines sex positivity in five key points:
1. Use appropriate of terms and labels.  This means calling a penis a penis and a vagina a vagina. From a young age, it's important to teach kids these words, instead of using things like"pee-pee" or "private spot". It also means that although there are many slang terms for penis, vagina, and sex (you know them- dick, cock, shlong, pussy, cunt, hoo-ha, fucking, doing the nasty, gettin' it on...I could go on for days), it's healthy to use their real names on many occasions.
2. Recognize boundaries and limitations. This one is more obvious.  Everyone has boundaries and no one finds it pleasant for those boundaries to be crossed. The goal is to be open, but don't say or do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Let your limitations be known.
3. Use humor when applicable. That's right, it's okay to laugh. Sometimes having sex or talking about sex can be uncomfortable or awkward, and it's more than okay to break the tension with a little bit of humor and laughter.
4. Understand and apply sexual variation.  Put simply, everyone has sex in different ways and finds different things sexy.  Your ultimate fantasy may not be someone else's, and that's okay.  Maybe you're a man that like to wear women's underwear and is in to BDSM. That's okay too.  Everyone is different, and difference is a-okay. Refrain from judging others and in turn know that your sexuality is normal too.
5. Create a dialogue about sexuality.  Yup, talk about sex! The more people who feel comfortable discussing sex with one another, the better.  Although America is crazy sexual, it is also surprisingly very sex negative.  It's okay to talk about sex with your partner. (This may sound obvious, but many couples do not in fact ever discuss sex- they simply have it). It's okay to talk about sex with your friends. It's okay to talk about sex with your kids and yes, it's okay to talk about sex with your parents. Everyone has sex, it's natural and wonderful and not something to be ashamed of.  Share your experiences, thoughts, and feelings with others.  I really feel that America would be a better place if we started teaching our kids about sex while they're young, and continue to foster their sexual growth.  Why is sex still so taboo?! We all have had it, are having it, or will have it. So what's to hide?

I didn't mean to get up on my soap box, but there you go. Now get out there and have sex! Err, I mean, be sex positive!
 
 
   
 

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k so long story now im here. but back to the day today i worked. but in that 4 hour time period alot of shit happened. well not alot but whatever. first i took some things out to the car for this lady (40 lb bags of salt) and those were easy and so i did that and i was walking back in when the bakery dept manager said hey how would you like to try some 50 lb bags of flour? and well ive done em b4 so that was simple but bags got holes and i got flour all over my black pants. so that kinda sucked walking aro almost my entire shift in white covered black pants lol. but oyu also step on the flour which covers the bottom of your shoe which reduces the friction you have so i slid around alot witch was fun till i was bagging later and forgot i had less traction and ran to go get something and so i did a quick true which then i slipped and fell sideways wich kinda hurt but i was more concerened about everone looking at me. so that was embareassing. and later a buddie worker of mine came in we do the game ball gazing. which the people who watched love guru get but for everone else it is where you try to get your friend to look at the circle you made with your finger that you place on your crotch and they look you hit them. well he asked how much time you got left i said a short time,not long. and he tryed to ball gaze me but what he said was "as short as this?" i didnt look so no points for him but then i said dude, you just called your dick short. he immediatly replied with "NNNNNNNNOOOOOOOO!!!!!" so that was funny. and last thing was a bitch from my music class came in and she was like i know you you were in my class. to which i wanted to respond oh right you were that bitch that made fun of me my girlfriend a kinda friend a autestic kid and disrespected the teacher. but i couldent cuz i was at work but i was i could have. so that was my day work work at least. but as for the rest of the day it kinda sucked well cept i saw a gif of a chick getting rammed in the ass and she kinda looked like me 0_0 so that was weird. but other then that im just sitting here hopeing someone will talk to me. well thats me signing off. c ya whoever reads this
 
 
   
 

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