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Racial and Politically INcorrect Humiliaton
I recently had an email asking if I accept requests for EXTREME racial humiliation which inspired me to share this old article I once wrote on my philosophy regarding this requested scene and personal opinions on racism outside of role-play; out in the real world.
Though I do accept such requests and am extremely talented with verbal humiliation and degradation of all sorts, I always find myself feeling the need to clarify I don't support bigotry in real life and want to be certain not to mistakenly be confused as a bigot/racist by accident. I hate trash, and trash exists in every color, every sex and every sexuality, but you can't always identify "trash" without closer inspection, and if you don't take closer inspection before labeling one as "trash", often you will find you've misjudged, when you do.
For your enjoyment, information, "food for thought" and discussion, here is the original article I wrote about "Racial and Politically Incorrect Humiliation"... enjoy:
Not to long ago I saw the big media hoopla about Prince Henry
dressing as an SS soldier and the half of My duality that tends
towards being judgemental (though it thinks itself to be liberal) for
a brief second was offended as the media dictated I should be...
The other half of Me, the half that is truely liberal (yet liberals
don't think it to be nor does this half of Myself concider itself to
be liberal) sought to fight for the underdog...no matter how
politically incorrect it seemed to be.
So where did this half of Me wander before forming it's less hasty,
societaly programmed opiniion of the situation? It started to
reference the dark element of the human race that is seldom seen in
an honest light anywhere other than in BDSM, and particularly pro-
domination.
It's funny, submissives, masochists and fetishists will open up about
things to a pro-domme that they won't even admit to in a lifestyle
situation...and one such thing is the existance of racial humiliation
fetishism, and other simular situations in which a person is non-
consensually persecuted in the vanilla world, yet in the dungeon the
same racist biggotted humiliation turns from a miserable reality into
a hot fantasy.
Being that I look like the epitomy of the German frauline it is no
big surprise that there has been some request that I role-play a
very "Ilsa: She Wolf of the SS" type. What might shock you is just
who it almost always is that has such a fantasy request...jews.
It isn't just the jews and their fantasy of the darkest moment of
their cultures past. I have bared played with black men who want to
be plantation slaves. This is not easy for some to do, much less
understand.
Though I personally was able to digest these fetishes easy I had a
really difficult time accepting a related fetish had by some gay boys
that want to be "bot bitches" to homo-phobic neo nazis.
Many confuse such a fetish with someone being full of self loathing,
but I can offer up some other theories on the subject. I cannot deny
that some do self loath, but not all people who share this fetish
role-play come from such a dark place. As with all things in the
world, especially BDSM, there is just as much a chance that it
originated in a negative place as there is that it came from a
nuetral place or even a positive one.
So where might these things unlikely fetishes come from?
My first hypothesis is that where an anglo-saxon protestant hetero-
sexual male has always had a multitude of media fantasies of fetishes
of Femme Dommes to reference, such as comic booc heros and villains,
and catholic martyrs these other submissives didn't have such
readily available fantasy inspiration.
A modern jewish submissive doesn't have much exposure to catholic
guilt and all the millions of sado-masochistic images that greatly
influence the stereo-typical dungeon scene, they don't have the
Spanish inquisition...and though they could go back as far as the
anciant Egyptian culture dominating jewish slaves it is far more
reasonable to reference the most modern events that could paralel
slavery...the nazis.
The black submissive is much the same as the jewish submissive in
this way. To look at the movie screne and see a very anglo-man
suffering to a woman is not as easy to project himself into the role
as it is to that of one that is part of their cultural history.
Imagining themself under the whip of a lusty, wanton plantation
Mistress is much less a stretch.
The gay submissive male has their whole own reason. With neo-nazi
neanderthal gay bashing and other crimes against gays so fresh there
is not just the intensity of such a brutal scene for the most hard-
core gay subby...but there is also a sense of triumph and justice
when they seduce a homophobic brute to accept them as a "boot boy",
especially when they break such a "Master" to the point that they are
allowed to sexually service them, not just take humiliation and
torture. Unfortunately this fantasy turned reality has often gone
bad when the homophobic top suddenly realises that he is infact a
participant in gay sex, much less that he enjoys it.
In My further seeking to understand such a fetish (which is harder
being an anglo-saxon protestant/germanic woman with no shortage of
imagery to reference about My upbringings) I started to look for
counter parts to this phenomena...
I was amused to find out about an Armenian Mistress in the Los
Angeles area that specialises in owning and getting some sense of
justice through her stable of Turkish slaves.
I also started to think of the white male submissive that has a
tendency towards man-hating dyke Mistresses, or even more than that
the white male who only seeks to serve a black Mistress who lays it
on thick for the lack of civil rights of in the last decade for black
people in a white male dominated society.
Of course this isn't exclussively a male pattern of behavior. These
theories can also be applied, though less strongly, to the female
submissive who sems to favor the Male dominant that has little regard
for any woman as an equal, especially a Dominant female.
It is truely fascinating how the psychology of sexuality can turn the
terrors and nightmares of reality into some of the hottest
fantasies. Keep in mind that though someone fantasizes about thse
things sexually, and plays them out in consensual roleplay, a healthy
individual knws the difference between the fantasy and the reality,
and usually detests such mistreatment in the vanilla world.
Do you have any fantasies that share this same dynamic? Does a dark
part of your past, or your culture's history manifest itself in your
sexual games?
Can you think of other examples of fetishes and role
play that share this root?
Can you think of other possible origins
of such "politically incorrect" kink?
Mistress Genevieve
 
 
   
 

Racial and Politically INcorrect Humiliaton
I recently had an email asking if I accept requests for EXTREME racial humiliation which inspired me to share this old article I once wrote on my philosophy regarding this requested scene and personal opinions on racism outside of role-play; out in the real world.
Though I do accept such requests and am extremely talented with verbal humiliation and degradation of all sorts, I always find myself feeling the need to clarify I don't support bigotry in real life and want to be certain not to mistakenly be confused as a bigot/racist by accident. I hate trash, and trash exists in every color, every sex and every sexuality, but you can't always identify "trash" without closer inspection, and if you don't take closer inspection before labeling one as "trash", often you will find you've misjudged, when you do.
For your enjoyment, information, "food for thought" and discussion, here is the original article I wrote about "Racial and Politically Incorrect Humiliation"... enjoy:
Not to long ago I saw the big media hoopla about Prince Henry
dressing as an SS soldier and the half of My duality that tends
towards being judgemental (though it thinks itself to be liberal) for
a brief second was offended as the media dictated I should be...
The other half of Me, the half that is truely liberal (yet liberals
don't think it to be nor does this half of Myself concider itself to
be liberal) sought to fight for the underdog...no matter how
politically incorrect it seemed to be.
So where did this half of Me wander before forming it's less hasty,
societaly programmed opiniion of the situation? It started to
reference the dark element of the human race that is seldom seen in
an honest light anywhere other than in BDSM, and particularly pro-
domination.
It's funny, submissives, masochists and fetishists will open up about
things to a pro-domme that they won't even admit to in a lifestyle
situation...and one such thing is the existance of racial humiliation
fetishism, and other simular situations in which a person is non-
consensually persecuted in the vanilla world, yet in the dungeon the
same racist biggotted humiliation turns from a miserable reality into
a hot fantasy.
Being that I look like the epitomy of the German frauline it is no
big surprise that there has been some request that I role-play a
very "Ilsa: She Wolf of the SS" type. What might shock you is just
who it almost always is that has such a fantasy request...jews.
It isn't just the jews and their fantasy of the darkest moment of
their cultures past. I have bared played with black men who want to
be plantation slaves. This is not easy for some to do, much less
understand.
Though I personally was able to digest these fetishes easy I had a
really difficult time accepting a related fetish had by some gay boys
that want to be "bot bitches" to homo-phobic neo nazis.
Many confuse such a fetish with someone being full of self loathing,
but I can offer up some other theories on the subject. I cannot deny
that some do self loath, but not all people who share this fetish
role-play come from such a dark place. As with all things in the
world, especially BDSM, there is just as much a chance that it
originated in a negative place as there is that it came from a
nuetral place or even a positive one.
So where might these things unlikely fetishes come from?
My first hypothesis is that where an anglo-saxon protestant hetero-
sexual male has always had a multitude of media fantasies of fetishes
of Femme Dommes to reference, such as comic booc heros and villains,
and catholic martyrs these other submissives didn't have such
readily available fantasy inspiration.
A modern jewish submissive doesn't have much exposure to catholic
guilt and all the millions of sado-masochistic images that greatly
influence the stereo-typical dungeon scene, they don't have the
Spanish inquisition...and though they could go back as far as the
anciant Egyptian culture dominating jewish slaves it is far more
reasonable to reference the most modern events that could paralel
slavery...the nazis.
The black submissive is much the same as the jewish submissive in
this way. To look at the movie screne and see a very anglo-man
suffering to a woman is not as easy to project himself into the role
as it is to that of one that is part of their cultural history.
Imagining themself under the whip of a lusty, wanton plantation
Mistress is much less a stretch.
The gay submissive male has their whole own reason. With neo-nazi
neanderthal gay bashing and other crimes against gays so fresh there
is not just the intensity of such a brutal scene for the most hard-
core gay subby...but there is also a sense of triumph and justice
when they seduce a homophobic brute to accept them as a "boot boy",
especially when they break such a "Master" to the point that they are
allowed to sexually service them, not just take humiliation and
torture. Unfortunately this fantasy turned reality has often gone
bad when the homophobic top suddenly realises that he is infact a
participant in gay sex, much less that he enjoys it.
In My further seeking to understand such a fetish (which is harder
being an anglo-saxon protestant/germanic woman with no shortage of
imagery to reference about My upbringings) I started to look for
counter parts to this phenomena...
I was amused to find out about an Armenian Mistress in the Los
Angeles area that specialises in owning and getting some sense of
justice through her stable of Turkish slaves.
I also started to think of the white male submissive that has a
tendency towards man-hating dyke Mistresses, or even more than that
the white male who only seeks to serve a black Mistress who lays it
on thick for the lack of civil rights of in the last decade for black
people in a white male dominated society.
Of course this isn't exclussively a male pattern of behavior. These
theories can also be applied, though less strongly, to the female
submissive who sems to favor the Male dominant that has little regard
for any woman as an equal, especially a Dominant female.
It is truely fascinating how the psychology of sexuality can turn the
terrors and nightmares of reality into some of the hottest
fantasies. Keep in mind that though someone fantasizes about thse
things sexually, and plays them out in consensual roleplay, a healthy
individual knws the difference between the fantasy and the reality,
and usually detests such mistreatment in the vanilla world.
Do you have any fantasies that share this same dynamic? Does a dark
part of your past, or your culture's history manifest itself in your
sexual games?
Can you think of other examples of fetishes and role
play that share this root?
Can you think of other possible origins
of such "politically incorrect" kink?
 
 
 

   
Racial and Politically INcorrect Humiliaton
I recently had an email asking if I accept requests for EXTREME racial humiliation which inspired me to share this old article I once wrote on my philosophy regarding this requested scene and personal opinions on racism outside of role-play; out in the real world.
Though I do accept such requests and am extremely talented with verbal humiliation and degradation of all sorts, I always find myself feeling the need to clarify I don't support bigotry in real life and want to be certain not to mistakenly be confused as a bigot/racist by accident. I hate trash, and trash exists in every color, every sex and every sexuality, but you can't always identify "trash" without closer inspection, and if you don't take closer inspection before labeling one as "trash", often you will find you've misjudged, when you do.
For your enjoyment, information, "food for thought" and discussion, here is the original article I wrote about "Racial and Politically Incorrect Humiliation"... enjoy:
Not to long ago I saw the big media hoopla about Prince Henry
dressing as an SS soldier and the half of My duality that tends
towards being judgemental (though it thinks itself to be liberal) for
a brief second was offended as the media dictated I should be...
The other half of Me, the half that is truely liberal (yet liberals
don't think it to be nor does this half of Myself concider itself to
be liberal) sought to fight for the underdog...no matter how
politically incorrect it seemed to be.
So where did this half of Me wander before forming it's less hasty,
societaly programmed opiniion of the situation? It started to
reference the dark element of the human race that is seldom seen in
an honest light anywhere other than in BDSM, and particularly pro-
domination.
It's funny, submissives, masochists and fetishists will open up about
things to a pro-domme that they won't even admit to in a lifestyle
situation...and one such thing is the existance of racial humiliation
fetishism, and other simular situations in which a person is non-
consensually persecuted in the vanilla world, yet in the dungeon the
same racist biggotted humiliation turns from a miserable reality into
a hot fantasy.
Being that I look like the epitomy of the German frauline it is no
big surprise that there has been some request that I role-play a
very "Ilsa: She Wolf of the SS" type. What might shock you is just
who it almost always is that has such a fantasy request...jews.
It isn't just the jews and their fantasy of the darkest moment of
their cultures past. I have bared played with black men who want to
be plantation slaves. This is not easy for some to do, much less
understand.
Though I personally was able to digest these fetishes easy I had a
really difficult time accepting a related fetish had by some gay boys
that want to be "bot bitches" to homo-phobic neo nazis.
Many confuse such a fetish with someone being full of self loathing,
but I can offer up some other theories on the subject. I cannot deny
that some do self loath, but not all people who share this fetish
role-play come from such a dark place. As with all things in the
world, especially BDSM, there is just as much a chance that it
originated in a negative place as there is that it came from a
nuetral place or even a positive one.
So where might these things unlikely fetishes come from?
My first hypothesis is that where an anglo-saxon protestant hetero-
sexual male has always had a multitude of media fantasies of fetishes
of Femme Dommes to reference, such as comic booc heros and villains,
and catholic martyrs these other submissives didn't have such
readily available fantasy inspiration.
A modern jewish submissive doesn't have much exposure to catholic
guilt and all the millions of sado-masochistic images that greatly
influence the stereo-typical dungeon scene, they don't have the
Spanish inquisition...and though they could go back as far as the
anciant Egyptian culture dominating jewish slaves it is far more
reasonable to reference the most modern events that could paralel
slavery...the nazis.
The black submissive is much the same as the jewish submissive in
this way. To look at the movie screne and see a very anglo-man
suffering to a woman is not as easy to project himself into the role
as it is to that of one that is part of their cultural history.
Imagining themself under the whip of a lusty, wanton plantation
Mistress is much less a stretch.
The gay submissive male has their whole own reason. With neo-nazi
neanderthal gay bashing and other crimes against gays so fresh there
is not just the intensity of such a brutal scene for the most hard-
core gay subby...but there is also a sense of triumph and justice
when they seduce a homophobic brute to accept them as a "boot boy",
especially when they break such a "Master" to the point that they are
allowed to sexually service them, not just take humiliation and
torture. Unfortunately this fantasy turned reality has often gone
bad when the homophobic top suddenly realises that he is infact a
participant in gay sex, much less that he enjoys it.
In My further seeking to understand such a fetish (which is harder
being an anglo-saxon protestant/germanic woman with no shortage of
imagery to reference about My upbringings) I started to look for
counter parts to this phenomena...
I was amused to find out about an Armenian Mistress in the Los
Angeles area that specialises in owning and getting some sense of
justice through her stable of Turkish slaves.
I also started to think of the white male submissive that has a
tendency towards man-hating dyke Mistresses, or even more than that
the white male who only seeks to serve a black Mistress who lays it
on thick for the lack of civil rights of in the last decade for black
people in a white male dominated society.
Of course this isn't exclussively a male pattern of behavior. These
theories can also be applied, though less strongly, to the female
submissive who sems to favor the Male dominant that has little regard
for any woman as an equal, especially a Dominant female.
It is truely fascinating how the psychology of sexuality can turn the
terrors and nightmares of reality into some of the hottest
fantasies. Keep in mind that though someone fantasizes about thse
things sexually, and plays them out in consensual roleplay, a healthy
individual knws the difference between the fantasy and the reality,
and usually detests such mistreatment in the vanilla world.
Do you have any fantasies that share this same dynamic? Does a dark
part of your past, or your culture's history manifest itself in your
sexual games?
Can you think of other examples of fetishes and role
play that share this root?
Can you think of other possible origins
of such "politically incorrect" kink?
 
 
   
 

Creepy Collegiate Constabulary: Or, How I Learned to Worry About Words
The Thought Police have come to Queen's University, the university I attend in Kingston, Ontario, Canada.

Though I acknowledge the fact that we, as a student body, are notorious for our Homecoming (possibly the biggest party in Canada, annually), we are a fairly normal bunch. Sure, many students are financially fit, but that happens in many institutions.

Queen's is the first institution in Canada to enforce such a mess of an idealist hand-holding program, where 'facilitators' who are chosen, and trained for 11 days, are roving the campus, listening in on conversation and sporadically intervening if someone makes a comment that they deem politically incorrect. Now, I'm a liberal person, but talking to an Official who is eavesdropping on conversations that might be able to be overheard in the hallways and general campus area about something I trust to be kept relatively private strikes me as wrong. Yes, you are in a public place, and there is a level of privacy reached wherein one should simply go somewhere deemed private, but honestly, in university life, where can you go where there aren't others around? I can't even escape people in the house I live in; the walls are paper thin.

Obviously, slurs of all sorts are wrong, and I can't stand them, but there is a fine line between a friendly reminder to not be ignorant, and utter control exercised over the student population. It leaves us in paranoia of saying something that might be deemed politically incorrect. You may say that this paranoia is healthy because then nobody will say anything potentially 'wrong', but honestly, is that solving the problem? Of course not. The problem lies in how people think, and making them afraid to speak their minds is aggravating the situation, not helping it.

Furthermore, university is supposed to be a place of discussion, debate, learning. How can you learn to be differently if you're afraid to speak your mind? Clearly, the slurs aren't used in an intellectual context, but where will they draw the line on PC-checks?

Also, this creates an us vs. them mentality, which is exactly what the program is trying to get away from! Students vs. Facilitators, Young vs. Old (not taking into account mature students, obviously), 'Race' vs. 'Race', Sexuality vs. Sexuality; and at the head of this, is the new Principal, a conservative hardhead if there ever was one, who creates more problems and legislation, rather than trying to enforce the old ones. (Sounds a lot like the current state of Ontario politics, and really, all politics in general.)

Why does this apply to you? Why is this news worthy of the entire mindsay community?

Well, right now, it doesn't/isn't, entirely. However, things like this trickle down through institutions.

Imagine:

Coming soon to an institution near you:


The Thought Police.



Creepy, isn't it?



[If you're going to comment, play nice, or I will turn off commenting, because I don't have time to deal with every single cruel remark you might make to each other. This is controversial, sure, but wading through endless circular conversational plight is, really, no fun.]
 
 
 

   
Michelle Obama's America -- and Mine
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Hi Everyone,


OK, I’ve been out blog hopping here on Mindsay and I just happened to stumble across something that caught my attention. So being true to form I glommed onto it to post here, and here it is.


Blognapped from thewidowsson  


Michelle Obama's America -- and Mine
By Michelle Malkin
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
 
 
Like Michelle Obama, I am a “woman of color.” Like Michelle Obama, I am a working mother of two young children. Like Michelle Obama, I am a member of the 13th generation of Americans born since the founding of our great nation.

Unlike Michelle Obama, I can’t keep track of the number of times I’ve been proud -- really proud -- of my country since I was born and privileged to live in it.
[That’s what I said too.]

At a speech in Milwaukee this week on behalf of her husband’s Democratic presidential campaign, Mrs. Obama remarked, “For the first time in my adult lifetime, I am really proud of my country, and not just because Barack has done well, but because I think people are hungry for change.”
[RICH Communist Bitch…imho.]

Mrs. Obama’s statement was met with warm applause from other Barack supporters who have apparently also been devoid of pride in their country for their adult lifetimes. Or maybe it was just a Pavlovian response to the word “change.” What a sad, empty, narcissistic, ungrateful, unthinking lot.
 [Well…what more could you expect from RICH…THIEVING Democrats?]

I’m just seven years younger than Mrs. Obama. We’ve grown up and lived in the same era. And yet, her self-absorbed attitude is completely foreign to me. What planet is she living on? Since when was now the only time the American people have ever been “hungry for change“? Michelle, ma belle, Barack is not the center of the universe. Newsflash: The Obamas did not invent “change” any more than Hillary invented “leadership” or John McCain invented “straight talk.”
[IMHO…all of those mother-fuckers are nothing more than SELF SERVING FUCKING SNAKES.]

We were both adults when the Berlin Wall fell, Michelle. That was earth-shattering change.

We’ve lived through two decades’ worth of peaceful, if contentious election cycles under the rule of law, which have brought about “change” and upheaval, both good and bad.

We were adults through several launches of the space shuttle, in case you were snoozing. And as adults, we’ve witnessed and benefited from dizzyingly rapid advances in technology, communications, science and medicine pioneered by American entrepreneurs who yearned to change the world and succeeded.

You want “change“? Go ask the patients whose lives have been improved and extended by American pharmaceutical companies that have flourished under the best economic system in the world.

If American ingenuity, a robust constitutional republic and the fall of communism don’t do it for you, hon, then how about American heroism and sacrifice?

How about every Memorial Day? Every Veterans Day? Every Independence Day? Every Medal of Honor ceremony? Has she never attended a welcome home ceremony for the troops?
[Welcoming home the troops…who, her? You’re kidding me…right? She loathes our military just as much as THE CLINTONS DO! The only troops that she would be willing to welcome are those Blue Helmeted bastards from the UN.]
 
For me, there’s the thrill of the Blue Angels roaring over cloudless skies. And the somber awe felt amid the hallowed waters that surround the sunken U.S.S. Arizona at the Pearl Harbor memorial.

Every naturalization ceremony I’ve attended, where hundreds of new Americans raised their hands to swear an oath of allegiance to this land of liberty, has been a moment of pride for me. So have the awesome displays of American compassion at home and around the world. When millions of Americans rallied to help victims of the 2004 tsunami in Southeast Asia -- including members of the U.S.S. Abraham Lincoln Carrier Strike Group that sped from Hong Kong to assist survivors -- my heart filled with pride. It did again when the citizens of Houston opened their arms to Hurricane Katrina victims and folks across the country rushed to their churches, and Salvation Army and Red Cross offices to volunteer.
[God bless the people who so eagerly extended a helping hand to the people displaced by Katrina…and may Gods wrath be upon the welfare leeches who even now, two and a half years later, steadfastly  refuse to do anything to help themselves other that to bitch that FEMA, and our tax dollars haven’t done enough for them.]

How about American resilience? Does that not make you proud? Only a heart of stone could be unmoved by the strength, valor and determination displayed in New York, Washington, D.C., and Shanksville, Pa., on September 11, 2001.

I believe it was Michael Kinsley who quipped that a gaffe is when a politician tells the truth. In this case, it’s what happens when an elite Democratic politician’s wife says what a significant portion of the party’s base really believes to be the truth: America is more a source of shame than pride.
[ALL elitists, regardless of their professed political party, are of that opinion, as are the globalists who are hell bent on bringing that fucking ungodly New World Order to power in their attempt to have a One World Government.]

Michelle Obama has achieved enormous professional success, political influence and personal acclaim in America. Ivy League-educated, she’s been lauded by Essence magazine as one of the 25 World’s Most Inspiring Women; by Vanity Fair as one of the 10 World’s Best-Dressed Women; and named one of “The Harvard 100” most influential alumni. She has had an amazingly blessed life. But you wouldn’t know it from her campaign rhetoric and her griping about her and her husband’s student loans.

For years, we’ve heard liberals get offended at any challenge to their patriotism. And so they are again aggrieved and rising to explain away Mrs. Obama’s remarks.

Like Lady Macbeth, Lady Michelle and her defenders protest too much.



OK, That's it. All the blue stuff is my comments.


Wendy
 
 
   
 

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