Perfect Man @ MindSay

Out of all the men I have dreamed about, the one I would want the most ( and can never have) is Anderson Cooper. I watch him every night religiously and I cannot think of a more perfect man. From his handsome good looks, to his mind. *Sigh*. Why I decided to blog about this I don't know,  but he just makes me so happy :).  

there are 2 men in my life as of now, my brand new puppy chino....who wont fall a sleep with out me and the man i wish would sleep next to me.....

......i think that is what i like about Chino  though, he cant sleep with out me, and the man on the other hand, does, and i understand the boy (chino) but i dont understand the man. he calls me, texts me, comes over, holds my hand and takes me out all the time, but at the same time, things are more complicated than nesisairy, and thats prevents him from sleeping next to me, and i resent that fact.

he called me up 2 nights a go and asked if i wanted to go for a car ride,  and i agreed, we went out to a nature reserve, and sat under a pavillian wile it raind, thunderd and lightninged out, i we kissed for the first time, and it started to poor, it was the perfect "movie screen" first kiss....and he came over tonight and just held my hand, yet he texted me a bajillion times between then and now, and we hung out yesterday and he huged me and kissed my forhed and neck, but he stays away from the lips, mainly because its not okay for us to be anything, because he would be my manager......but it sitll kills.....
.....the thing i have lernd from this though is that it would be much easier if all of our affections would be satisfied by the love that you get from a dog

Create a Partner...

 

Let's create the perfect partner....Robot Man...Are you ready to imput?

 

Funny....definately..and serious...got to be not all a barrel of laffs.

Handsome....yes...but not too pretty...I don't want tons of competition.

Spiritual...His quest is spiritual growth...enlightenment.

Intelligent....yes...somehow I don't respect the guys who have air passages through their brain with Ripples in the wrong places.

Kind...if he is kind to others in the world...he will always be kind to me.

Successful.......Has his passion and wisdom and hard work paid off....Does he dream big?

Wise.....Do I admire his counsel because I believe in his instincts?.in his wisdom?

Creative......words, music, art, literature, poetry... beauty comes to life in his world..

Integrity and Loyalty.....His word is sacred...

Sensual......Life unfolds in his presence.....and of course...the most important aspect...

Must not forget to compute this one..

 

He adores me and is madly in love forever......

Okay...time to press....Enter...

 

I now have a perfect Robot Man for Robot.....

I have only one little question...

Now that I have all of that imputting taken care of....Now that the technical difficulties have been solved...there is one little area that can't be imputted in my computer....that is...

My heart...His heart....When we gaze upon each other for the first time....Will there be magic? Will we know we are enraptured? Will there be Liftoff?...chemistry?...sparks?

It is a biggey....

 

Not one I can imput...

 

I've been thinking a lot lately about men and what I expect from them and it made me realize that there is a guy in my head that is my perfect man. The knight in shining armor who makes me happy. Anyways, I thought it would be interesting to talk about him and then hopefully hear back from people about their ideal person and perhaps some reasons why they came to this conclusion.

My man is tall (as in probably around 6 feet tall) with a swimmer like build. Fit and at least slightly muscular if not with a absolutely perfect body. He is a white male slightly tanned with short to mid length light brown hair and green or grey eyes. Obviously, he's hot because if the man in your dreams isn't super hot then what's the point in dreaming about him :P This man is successful and probably a business professional or in some sort of profession that would make him wear suits or other business attire. If he doesn't wear the business attire, he is defintely preppy and very metrosexual. He doesn't have to be super rich or anything, but he should be financially stable. Personality wise, this guy is smart, mature, and funny. He has to be able to make me laugh. That is hugely important to me. Obviously, he needs to be a nice guy who genuinely cares about his friends and others that are around him. He should be respectful and well spoken.

Now I don't expect all of these things from a real guy because I'm not perfect myself. It's just that I thought I didn't have a type or a kind of guy that I was attracted to until I realized that when I read romance stories or even just a normal story that involve men and women I pictured this guy as the male character that I liked the most. In reality, I realize that I don't need to date nor have I dated the classicly "hot" guy. Beauty is definitly in the beholder and I've met many guys that I didn't find attractive at first, but once I got to know them I reassessed their attractiveness. In reality, the only things that I absolutely require from a guy is that he's honest, caring (of me and others), and funny (now he doesn't need to be a stand up comedian or anything, but I do like to talk and we should be able to talk and laughing always makes the day better so if we can laugh together that's awesome). Other than that I tend to look for guys that I feel comfortable with and who I can be myself with without being judged. I don't particularly want the guy I date to change his personality for me so he needs to be comfortable with me as well. Yes, it takes time for two people to become completely comfortable with each other, which makes me think that I'll probably know the guy I end up marrying for quite some time before I actually date him and eventually marry him.