Pawning @ MindSay 
Well I have been biting my tongue out of respect to my dad over a lot of things even though we do "dicuss" things. But remember when I said some folks are going to come down off their pedestals a while back? Well the first casuality is my sister. 
I told her how my therapy appointment went and she totally agreed and said what featherdawn said! And then we went on about how her weekend went and how her work is going. Little back ground from here. My moms is an RN and my sister is an RN with a BS in Biology and Minor in Chemestry. I worked as a CNA for 5 years. My sister and I both have worked nursing homes and my mom has only ever worked Hospital settings. Now my sister is a floor nurse at one of the major county hospitals for her area after getting out of ER after 10 years.
Okay we got to talkign about how eventually in my dottering old age I will be like our father and end up in constant pain and in a wheel chair. My dad isn't to the wheelchair part yet but it is only a matter of time now. My sister procedded to tell me that there was no excuse for my bitching when I put myself through pain and blah blah blha. I can live with her spouting she knows NOTHING about orthopedics nor what it is like to have bad knees or any bad joint for that matter. I even got her ass on her trying to spout off on my Diabetes. She has Thyroid deises and if she doesn't get her weight down she will end up with Diabetes. That didn't piss her off this is on of our normal arguements. What did piss her off was my defending the old Geratrics at my therapy session!
She goes I would have told those people off! I said oh T they don't know any better! That is how they were raised and in a way they have earned the right to spout. As long as I didn't take offense what is the big deal. And then she procedded to say that is why I would never make a good nursing home nurse is because I worked to long as a CNA if I ever wanted to be a nurse that is. I said bullshit. You as a Nurse that worked in a Nursing home have NO CLUE how to react or interact wtih the residents! All nurses do is paperwork because you all don't know how to put the residents before paperwork. And if you don't like what I have to say to dayum bad. I have taken on more LPN/LPVs, RNs, DONs, and Adminstrators then you have ever thought of. You are too afraid to open your dayum mouth. Nurses handle paperwork and pass pills and pass on the information that CNA's gather to the docs and family. Then you all have the NERVE to get PIST when CNA's are short handed (which is all the time) and need some help. Goddess forbide you all stay past quiting time to finish the paperwork! No instead you blow the CNA's off and do your paperwork unless it is an "emergency". When a CNA HAS no choice but to take care of the resident right then or there. A because that is what we are paid to do B because if we don't the nurses get pist off and try to fire us and C the entire nursing staff from nurses to Administrators (most of them in nursing homes use to be DON's which they all use to be nurses or in some other medical feild) are more concerned over paperwork! If CNA's are required to do something for a nurse it doesn't matter to them if we are in the middle of something, we are to finish up as fast as possible and screw what needs to be done right or if the resident's feelings are taken into account and do what the nurse says because the nurse is to lazy to mop up Mr. such and such's spilled snack drink themselves! Let alone get Mrs. so and so's cig and wheel her to the smoking room or outside for that smoke that the NURSE promised but the CNA has to take care of! And if we don't have our shit done when quiting time comes around to dayum bad! We have to stay finish it and do rounds with the next shift! HOW FARKED up is that! All the while the nurse is on her way home! And don't get me started on LPNs/LVNS! They are the worst in nursing homes even compared to RNS. Your lucky sister that you got your RN cause if you didn't I would call you one lazy ass slacker! What is the whole point of going through nursing school to get an LPN/LVN when your only a few classes short of getting an RN?!? That one my sister happened to agree with me on:D
After that lil bout of arguing and my sister pouting but agreeing with me we then went off about our children! I know my children aren't perfect but I love them. And I know I wench and bitch about getting some me time but I don't pawn my kids off every farking chance I get! And I may not like it when the schedule changes due to a kid activity and I do my share of moaning but I go with the flow. My sister is famous as so many other parents are about bitching and moaning that somethign is not working out because of the kids or hubby and not like how I and others do it......bitch about it, be done with it and go with the flow. She harps on it. And it is her own dayum fault for signing her kids up for things and not putting her foot up her hubby's ass or even her own ass about her busy schedule! I asked her why did you bother having kids if they are going to be constantly either at a baby sitters house, doing something, and your constantly sleeping because your working?!? I will give it to my sister though she doesn't bitch about not going out. She knows that would just get her ass handed to her not only by me but by all her mom friends even the divorced ones that share custody! You gave up the right to have a life that consist of being kid free when you spread your legs, popped out a mini me, and consented to take care of the child! What right does ANY parent have to bitch about their free time being taken away because their kid is always around! Sorry folks that is apart of life and exactly what I pointed out to my sister. Take a day to be kid free or hell lets do a sister weekend down in Omaha or Lincoln. Hell I am even up for KC or Shy Town myself. The parental units or I should say the female parental unit would consent in taking 4 of her 5 grandkids for a long weekend to give her own girls a break from the kids!
Needless to say my older sister is PIST the FARK OFF at me! But she will get over it. She is starting to already because when I called Doc Mommy up to take a look at a finger of mine she already called whinning to her about what I DARED say to her! And my mom as an RN nurse completely agreed with me about nursing home nurses both LPN/LVN and RNS and reminded my sister about how she is actually taking care of paitents now on top of the paperwork and NOT just hte paper work and relying on CNAs to get her hte info! My mom also told her the same thing I did about the kids. Be lucky you actually watn to spend time with yoru kids and realize that you do sign them up for too much shit. So many people out htere think having kids should be a walk in a park and want to pawn them off on the non custiodal parent and still get that child support or pawn them off on their partner and still expect their partner to do for them after taking care of the kids for hte most part!
I expect a few weeks of not being inturrupt while she is cooling her ass off with me 
I might actually get the costumes done for Halloween now!
