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It seems that lawmakers do not understand that freedom should include freedom from forced medications for ourselves and our children. The fact that we grant religions the right to do anything, but if not under a religious umbrella, those with strong science-based, philosophical-based or strong-personal belief get no such rights, I think this is unconscionable.
Especially when we are talking about vaccines with their known dangerous side-effects and potential unknown negative effects down the road. Here in New Jersey, home of the drug industry, we have no rights for personal medical savings accounts, no rights to purchase catastrophic health insurance, and no rights to refuse mandatory vaccinations. The drug companies hold the politicians in their financial pockets. People are led to believe in drugs and the exaggerated benefits of medical care and they do; the new religion in America—In Drugs We Trust.
I got off my ass about 11 am yesterday. Took a nice long shower, feed my puppy, romped around with my puppy, cleaned my mudporch (including bleaching out the floor-it's the puppy's kennal at night), unloaded the dishwasher, loaded it back up, did three loads of laundry, and lazed around till the kids got home!
I even made taco's last night! Hubby came walking in when I was cuttin up the lettuce and immeditaly made a smart ass comment about how he will stay outside till I am done using the knife! We ate, watched Enterprise and then after the kids had their daily showers/baths, we, minuse hubby, snapped on my puppy's leash and went for a walk down to my parents house. Up the lane, down the road along the hiway, and paritally through a field due to a pitbull dog of my parent's neighbor's being down near the drive entrance. Talked a bit with the parental units and teased my brother about being an old man because he was still sleeping from his afternoon nap! Then since the neighbor's called the dog back to their house we walked up my parent's lane, across the hiway (teaching the kids to go with traffic) and back up the road. Waved at the neighbor kids who were out whose mom went to school with my brother, back into our drive, stopped and played with my aunties dogs and then walked back down the lane. We walked 1.48 miles total. I figured out since we live in the hallow it is ruffly .6 miles down to my folks place. If we lived at the top of the hill like my auntie it would have been .5 miles.
We got back in time for the light show in the sky! Thundering and Lightening the whole night and when I woke up about 1 am due to still not feeling good it was just down powering! If I would have been feeling better I would have gone outside and played! This morning I was up with hubby because I slept on the couch because I didn't want to wake him up with me constantly getting up. I helped him load up his truck and we decieded to wait on putting the puppy out since we don't have a dog house yet (have to specially build him one) and I am not walking him over to the car ports because they are closer to the other woods, near the start of our drive.
The kids are crabby and want to stay home on their last day of school this week and I won't let them. They want to go outside and play in the storm so I am hoping that it continues storming for them and then again I dont' want my lane all mucked up either and hope it stops. We actually enjoy weather like this in our house because we are storm loving people! We even go outside and watch the skys even when raining and hailing during Tornado warnings!
The radar for today says massive storms are going to be going on all day and the light shows this early in the morning are spectacular! Here is to Tuesday Thunderstorms!
Today is my last day of work for the work week and I had one of those days yesterday........you know one of those days that everything was going on swimingly even though you had issues to deal with the night before? Then *boom* something happens that crawls up your ass and just sits there and picks at ya? Then you think your half way in controlling the emotions of rage and wrath burning in you and you get a call from someone telling you part of the issue you delt with the night before surfaced again and reared it's ugly lil head? And all of a sudden you are in a pure rage and have to get it undercontrol or you might take it out on the wrong ppl?
Yay I had one of those days yesterday. We are having issues w/ the afterschool program and my son. He is being a right lil butt and I will NOT condone his behavor and I don't expect the teachers at program to either, but I also know where his behavor is coming from and understand his lil butt headed behavor. He is getting picked on and harrased in the afterschool program and the teachers and staff are conviently not seeing the harassment of my son. I already crawled up the Principal's ass over this a week ago. And then two days ago, my dad, crawled up my son's actual school teacher's ass because my son was refused to be allowed to go to the restroom and had an accident after he had to defend himself from the same kids who harrass him at project during actual school hours. (See this school doesn't like seeing my dad or mom walk in:D I was one of my parent's hell raisers when I went to this school and even though their is a new high school principal and a new sup from when I went-a few elementry, jr high, and highschool teachers still remain:D-and they know the family backs up each other very well!) My dad took my boy home and kept him home and told the school NOT to contact me that he would let me know due to me being at work. They didn't listen to him! So thus my issue last night-thankfully my boy wasn't too embarassed by what happened and his classmates haven't teased him. I went to the school before work yesterday and had a talk w/ his teacher. She apologized and about dropped her mouth into her coffee when I said you don't apologize to me you apologize to my son and if this shit ever happens again I will have your job! You don't tell a child that they can't go to the bathroom!
Work went great, I have been wondering why Randy's highschool friend hasn't been real chatty w/ me anymore until Randy and I found out that he owns a bar in the town that Randy's dad lives in.......thus he is up Randy's dad's ass and fuck-in law and I HATE each other. Him because I expect him to be a father to his son and a grandfather to my kids and stop catering to Randy's ex wife and I won't let him any where near my kids or my house now. Me because of hte same reasons and the fact his 6'5" ass needs an adjustment on priorites concerning family and I am more than happy to give it to him. Anyway it seems T has been talking to Fuck-in law about me and of course yet again I am the bad guy. Blew it off fuck T and fuck the Fuck-in! Well I get my ass chewed at work yesterday before coming home. Started out hostile and then when I defended myself to my manger she backed down and listened to me! Company policy states you can't wear t-shirts with ribbed rounded collars. Many women including myself wear the v-neck non ribbed tshirts and we all know that we can dress those babies up and look professional! Someone bitched about my purple shirt w/ my black and neon purple/pink skirt and black heels! My manager only talked to the managers, did some training (taught it), and to us at the bay yesterday. Interesteningly enough T was one of the managers constantly over at our bay and constantly eyeballing me. I have no proof but I think T is the one that bitched.
THE GAMES HAVE BEGUN! And this time I told Randy we are playing cause we no longer have any responsiblity towards the girls (his from the ex) And his daddy has no clue what he is up against playing the game with me 
Randy's dad tried getting Randy to see his girls this weekend behind my back and his ex wife's back, Randy's daddy keeps forgetting Randy tells me pretty much everything because he learned I usually find out EVERYTHING anyway:D So Randy's ex got an email last night to her work concerning Randy's father and how he was trying to go behind her's and her husband's back on trying to get Randy to see the girls. And Randy and I thought she should be aware of Randy's dad's behavor on breaking the agreement and the legal documentation on not seeing the girls unless it happens to be by "chance" due to no longer having parental rights!
Then I popped Randy's work email and told him what to write to T. Being nice nice and askign if any new bars/restaurants are in the area to take me out for my Dirty Thirty bday. And when is their 20th reunion and such. If T wants to be an ass to me I have no qualms on using his ass outside of work. I won't have contact with him at work unless it is work related now and if he tries to talk to me concerning Randy or outside of work things I will tell him sorry can't talk to you about that. If he gets to be nicey nice w/ Randy then we will play along and get as much info and dirt as we can so I can provide it to Randy's ex wife to fuck over Randy's dad. You don't fuck with my family and think your going to get away with it:D Randy's dad is never going to learn and I am going to have fun stressing the big man out and letting him rot like he did my hubby and my kids:D
So that should have completed my day right! Wrong! We had another incident w/ my son at Project (afterschool program). He has been acting up with the teachers and staff w/ project and that WILL NOT BE ALLOWED! But he is acting up because he is being harassed so I got to deal with this yet again when I got home. He is grounded from project Monday and Tuesday of this next week and going to go straight home to grandma where she is going to put his lil ass to work. I called and left a 3 phone call message on the directors answering machine letting her know we will not condone his behavior but she best get the harrasment of my son undercontrol and just becuase he is a white kid in an all indian school better not be the reason why she is not taking care of this and to talk to my daughter and have her point out another child who has been trying to help her to control the harassment of my son by older boys. Because if she doesn't control the teasing and harrasment this is one white mamma that will and I can very easily call down the road to another child's parents who also gets harrassed right along w/ his siblings because *gasp* they are 3/4 black and only a 1/4 indian! And their mamma went to school w/ my brother. J is half black and half indian and got her ass teased in school because of her race. My brother constantly laid guys flat for calling her names. She lived across the pasture from us. Well J married herself a nice looking big black guy, L. They have 5 children and they have had to deal w/ race harassment right along. I call L & J up or even walk down the road to their house and have a chit chat w/ them concerning the harassment of our children because of their skin color, this school district isn't going to know what to do because we can and will have a lawsuite on their asses:D
We will see what response my hubby gets because they call during the time I am on the phones:D Randy is livid even though Coltin did get his ass in trouble over what he did, like I said we won't condone disrespect toward adults and elders by our children!
So yay I had one of those days yesterday and I am feeling it today w/ the tension in my neck and shoulders. A headache, and not giving a rat's ass who pisses me off today at work:D Everyone is going to be free game!
I am back in therapy. I was informed in my last session that i have generalized adjustment disorder. Basically, i have problems coping and adapting to changes. Ok. I can go along with that. Interestingly, and not uncommonly, my parents keep becoming a major topic of conversation in my sessions. My issue with my parents is basically that i feel like they don't care about me and they don't really know who I am. I know it is cry baby-ish to do the whole "you never pay attention to me" thing, but this isn't a matter of "mommy didn't put my drawing on the refridgerator". This is a matter of the fact that when i gave birth to my kids, my parents didn't show up. When i went through my divorce i got no help or support from them, emotional or otherwise. Hell, with my first husband, who was a mean SOB, my mother told me she would never speak to me again if i divorced him and reported him to immigration. I told her that if i didn't report the change in marital status, i could end up in trouble, fined and even imprisioned. She told me she would send me cookies in jail. So when i say they don't care, i actually mean that these people don't give a shit. Now i have tried to hang in there, tried to justify their behaviors, etc....I didn't lose my mind when they didn't even congratulate me when David and i got married. I didn't have a hissy when they didn't call me on thanksgiving. I didn't fall out when they forgot to call me on Christmas. I kept my cool when my father showed up for my first suicide attempt and preached at me for three days and then left--and i haven't seen him or my mother since then, they have no clue what my spiritual beliefs are, and I don't feel at liberty to tell them because anything contrary to what they believe is blasphemy as far as they are concerned..... I didn't come undone when I was homeless and they didn't help me at all..........but now.....this time.....for the second year in a row......
Tonight's blood sugar level was better then this morning's. 167 still high but lots lower then what it was.
Every once in a while I will get an email from my Uncle W. My dad's brother. He is a freaking hoot. Out of my dad's family I will have to say that he is my favorite aunty or uncle. The man took off from his family for 4-6 years right out of highschool and joined the Navy. To get away from my Grandpa. I have said in a previous post that Granddad was a hard ass and did the norm of beating the kids. Well you would figure that with my Uncle being the 1st born son out of the family he would be named after Granddad. He isn't. And after watching his lil brother, my dad, grow up with the Jr name. He is glad! And he made peace way before Grandpa passed away with his dad.
Anyway he was married once. Divorced with no kids. Then his second marriage he married my Auntie A. Auntie A already had 5 kids from a previous marriage. And the ex was no where to be seen around the girls. The boys would go between their house and their dad's house. And eventually stayed at my Uncle's home. Auntie A is also about 12 years older then Uncle W. Uncle managed to talk Auntie A into having 1 more kid......at least one to be his blood alone. Cousin R popped out. Four years older then my sister. It is funny you put us 3 girls together and not just by the faces but by our ASSES you can tell we are related. I don't get my sexy ass just from my mom's side. Even though they do produce some round asses. My dad's side is all about handing us girl's the curves. Our Cousin' N may be the shortest out of us all but she has the titties and ass right along with us!
We heard stories growing up being the youngest out of the family on how Uncle W chased down R's older sisters across pastures in trucks. They broke curfew and thought they would pull fast ones on daddy and mamma. See all of my Aunties kids grew up with Uncle W as their daddy and we all grew up with them as our cousin's. Every single one of those 5 kids; 2 boys and 3 girls calls Uncle their Daddy. Auntie and the kids are orginally from Eastern OK and Western Arkansa..........so you know they can be odd balls. Then you add into it a True Nebraskan Redneck who is considered just odd by his own family.......they are one funny family that we all love to be around!
Uncle W types like he talks. He had childhood Eplipsy and now he has the begin's of Palsy. So sometimes it is very hard to understand what the hell he is talking about.. You add that into our parental family's really bad habit of jumping subjects left and right and then our trait of talkign backwards in time and saying sentences backwards.......we are really hard to understand. Unless your around us for a while. The southern cousin's pick up the northern rezed otu accent when home and around us and us nebraskan cousin's pick up the slight southern accent when around them. Poor Randy has no clue how to interact with that side of the family.
My mom's side is pretty cut and dried. Sports, Hunting, Raunchy Ass Jokes, Booze lots of kids and Stronge Women.
My dad's side you never know which way things are going to turn. Could be sports, not a lot of hunting, raunchy ass jokes, booze, stronge women, asshole men, lots of kids and lots of family fighting with drama and lies thrown in.
It took Randy 6 times reading my uncle's email tonight and he still couldn't understand what he was saying. I broke it down for him. He tried emailing but our email server was down. He also wanted to know how to proncounce our last name and he still isn't sure if he likes it; so I will always be a R surname to him! He bought a stubborn bull a few months past that immeditally got into the neighbor's pasture and he has to go get it. But he would like to go to an Auction (sale is his word) and isn't sure if he will be able to if he has to fight the bull. How is everything our way.
Every once in a while Uncle shows up unannoucned. He does it to my folks and my auntie up in the city all the time. And with my cousin R and her family living 4 hours from us I told Randy don't be suprised if some day Uncle and Auntie don't show up for a fast visit. Or invite us to R's place to see them.
Randy keeps going he will find a state that I don't have family in........I told him good luck. Then he said fine we will move to the UK.........I said good luck.......we have family over there that we just made contact with a few years back. He said fine we will go to Switzerland. I reminded him that my parental granny's family is fromthere and that we have family still there. He finally said fuck that we will move to China then just to get away from your family:)) I said okay I can go visit my cousin K:D Randy threw up his hands in disgust and said he should have never a woman with such a large family on both sides!
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