Pa @ MindSay 
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We recently picked up a load in Columbia, PA which is where the pen is pointing on the map.
We saw this mural in the middle of the town.
It's a little hard to tell from the picture but the mural is painted on the side of a 2 story building. We took the picture out of the side window of the truck.
My Exact Description
I'm 35 yrs. of age/ born on 09/24/1972,/SWM/5'9"/I weigh in at 255 LB/Short blk. hr. - Army Ranger-styled crew cut/Clean-shaven/Big brn. eyes/wear size 13 boots/dress casually/Have lightly tanned skin/Wear glasses, with black frames/I have roundish facial features.
I normally get around with a silver "Mongoose-Blackcombe" silver, dual suspension mountain bike & bike trailer in tow, to pull my groceries, or just plain old bike tools, when I go out riding. I'm well known around my town, & plan on going on some long-distance bike trips for the summer time. That's my transportation. Why? Becuz' I'm not as blessed as you are, with the funds to afford an automobile. That's the answer that you get. It must be a drag to have to pay for gas every week through the nose! It's worth gett'n caught in the pour'n rain for me, or in a major thunderstorm. Lol. 
I love doggies! -- I used to have a huge cuddly basset houndypooie named 'Huckleberry.' I love him so. He was the saddest thing in the whole wide world, & someday I'll surely get another one. I like animals as a whole, but ... I LOVE bassets & bloodhoundies above the rest. (o) - bow-wow! LOL
My Personality
Many people have told me that I have a very good sense of humor, & that I'm very easy to get along with. I love to make people laugh, & People generally like to have me around. I'm very polite, & I respect a woman's feelings. As long as my feelings are respected in return, then I'm satisfied, & content. I'll accept nothing less than that, OK? I'm NOT juss settling for anyone.
OK; I'm not 'perfect.' - No more perfect than you. Lol -- I am still a human being, still just as failable as you are with all your imperfections. We're ALL imperfect, & we ALL sin, on occaision. I'm not perfect, but I am a very nice person, I've been told that I have a very big heart.
I'm not abusive, & I'm not a lying backstabbing snake. Telling the truth is not easy for me, as I've suffered alot of rejection in my life, but ... I do the very best that I can to be as upfront as possible, so that there are no surprises.
My Attributes
*Dependable
*Trustworthy
*Drug & Disease Free I'm Drug & Disease free. I have never had a dependancy issue with controlled substances, but if you did, it's kool. We all have pitfalls. -- I want to ad to that, you not approach me for a relationship IF you are 'coked' up, 'doped' up, or 'alkeed' up. Recover, then contact me. Do not be a snake.
*Monogamous
*Polite
*Emotionally-stable
*I believe in chivalry
*Very clean
**I LOVE bare female feet!**
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I'm sorry; I can't help that. Lol -- It's a major fetish of mine. :oD Please don't let that discourage you from want'n ta' get ta' know me. I have always loved the appearance of this, since I was a teenager, so ... I'm not sure why, but I mean, atleast I'm honest about that.
My Faith: The Following, Is A True Story
In 11/2006, I became 'saved' under the Holy Spirit of God, through Jesus Christ. He's healed my right ankle, emotionally, as well as dental troubles. As soon as I opened up my heart to Jesus privately in my apt., - by admitting to Him that He is real, He let God's Holy Spirit overtake me, & my torments INSTANTLY disappeared.
*My bottom left rear molar healed up by Jesus. - It was missing a filling, & the open cavity was EXTREMELY painful where the dentin was exposed, & it miraculously healed, by Christ.
*The unpleasant torments instantly left my head, & I was in that very instant filled with an overwhelming peace, by God's Holy Spirit, through Christ. As a result, I cancelled all my doctor's appointments.
*The day after I was healed, I received a call from my dad in FL, after over 5 years of a verbally violent relationship. We now have a very good relationship, thanks to the miracle that Jesus did in our relationship.
*My right ankle was diseased; I had a medical condition called "Effusion" in the joint, within the ankle. -- It instantly healed up, & when no other Dr. helped me because I had no insurance to cover an operation, JESUS CHRIST HEALED my ankle, when the world turned it's back on me. Praise the Lord!! -- That's what really happened!
At this point in time, I'm a 'prayer worrior' in the Christian faith.
!PLEASE Pay Attention To This Next Few Paragraphs!
The life I lead goes like this: I witness to people around my town & tell others of the miracles that Jesus did for me. No, I'm not a pastor, but I do minister to people around the town from time to time of Jesus & who He is. In return, the Lord sends people my way to help me out with a variety of things from time to time. (Food, little things like that ... etc.) That's what's called living BY FAITH. Through Faith in Jesus Christ we are healed, as what is spoken of, in the New Testament.
(On that note, let me tell you that calling yerself a "Christian" does not mean just going to church just to show others that you attend mass, or a church get-together of some sort. It's about having Jesus Christ in your heart; by admitting to Him that He is the Bread of Life, & The Living water. He Is the ONLY intercessor between us & God the Father.) - I know. I'm a prayer warrior in the Christian faith.
Please do not take me the wrong way here, but I have to put it this way. I am not comfortable discussing my source(s) of income, as it's well ... as the old saying goes: "nunya(!)" (Nunya business.) Please don't concern yerself with that. If you don't like intrusive questions or someone else making you feel like you're infront of the 'inquisition,' don't so it to me.
I had 1 woman call me up needling me to give her an answer as to my source of income. After I told her my source, she flatly rejected me & I hung up on her. I found that situation COMPLETELY unappealing, & obnoxious. I'm not look'n fer dat. If my limited income is all yer gonna concern yerself with, GO AWAY. Yer not my judge. Yer my woman. Don't try to force me to change, cuz I'm not abandonning my faith, OR my way of life. Yer on yer path, I'm on mine, & I am content with mine.
I've had alot of difficulty in finding employment out in the 'world,' & that's quite honestly one of the major reasons what drove me to come to Jesus, to relieve my torments. So, I'm not some walking 'gold mine,' -- or someone for you to ignore & put on the back burner. Yer like that? - Disappear. You want me to be attracted to you? Then come accross to me as an appealing young woman. I'm no yuppie, & I'm not fancy. Don't ask me dumb, fascist questions like: "Why don't you make more money?" or "Why aren't you in a higher income brackett?" That's not something that I find appealing, at all, & I will reject anyone who makes me feel like I'm not worth anything, or their time, based on what I make or don't make.
Music Tastes
I love the 80's techno/disco, & R&B. I love going out to eat, but it gets to be a drag doi'n that alone all the time. I'm sick of it. TV Tastes I'm a Treky, but only the original TV series. Lol
NO-NO's
*I'm not looking for some cheap 'pole' dancer; I'm looking for a Christian woman, who acts & dresses like a lady. -- (In private is something else, but publicly, that's important, as well. You don't have to be a rocket scientist. Just be & act like a lady, please.
*NO Devil worshipers, UNLESS ... you are willing to renounce to evil deceptive works of satan, by opening up your heart to Jesus Christ. Have courage, hon. you'll surely be blessed & rewarded by Him.
*NO married women/Separated women. You atleast have to be honest with me about that.
*NO miserable & self-hating women. IF you're humorless, nasty & inconsiderate of a man's feeln's, GO AWAY. Take that crap elsewhere. I deserve better. -- & I couldn't possibly put that more delicately. Lol
*I will not get yoked with some "Athiest," "Agnostic," or general unbeliever.
*IF you have a deadly disease., please be kind enough to tell me. (AIDS/Ebola/Hep./HPV I need to know.) I appreciate it. :o)
My Appropriate Match
SWF, meaning: Unmarried, or Single, or Widowed. NOT SEPARATED/NOT MARRIED! 23-35 years of age / 150-200LB / 5'-6'6" -- I would prefer that you would be at least 6' tall, but if not, it's alright/ Any color hair / Any color eyes / You must have excellent hygein -- & I would like to make very clear that I will not accept anyone who is neglegent of that. Use soap, & be clean, please.
NO self-hating, stink-bombs! -- Also, BE yourself. Everyone laughs & everyone cries, even lil ole me.
Please act like a lady when yer with me out in public. Please especially be polite, & remember yer manners. I cannot stand women who are rude & untactful. You can be dirty in private, if you'd like. I do like that. -- I LOVE a strict woman/bossiness in private, but I'm flexible.
I love a woman who has a very gentle touch, & I love when you're a good masseur. (Did I spell that right? Lol) I love when yer a great kisser, & when yer kind-hearted.
Do you have any fetishes? Please tell me. I do care about your feelings, ya know. May I message your cute lil' bare footsies? ;o)
*You will offer me a very good personality, a good sense of humor, a pleasant attitude, & your time, as well as a relationship, not just online, but IN PERSON. NOTHING LESS will suffice. I'm not seeking a purely fantasy internet relationship. That's too stupid. Don't expect me to be interested in you if yer not gonna be will'n ta offer me a complete relationship. BE REALISTIC!
You MUST Be Emotionally-stable
Respectfully speak'n, I'm not a qualified psychiatrist, & cannot have you over at my pad in the midst of your nervous breakdown! -- Make sure you're in yer right mind. Silliness like joking around is all kool, but looneyines - like sporadic sobbing fits & the nervous breakdown thing ain't happen'n with me anymore, with anyone else. It's too stressful, & too much upon me to deal with that, hon. I'm sorry. Be stable. IF yer taking meds, it's your responsiblility to remember to take them as prescribed. NOT mine. Remember them if you come over to my place, or wherever. It's been an issue with some of my partners in the past, so ... I'm just let'n ya know, OK?
My Location & Yours
**I am only accepting responses from those of you who live within 200 miles of my zipcode here in Lancaster, PA, of: 17602. You MUST be a citizen of the USA. You must live here in the USA, & be a LEGAL citizen of the USA, if you are interested in a relationship with me. NO exceptions, & NO baloney! IF you are here in this country, on a "temporary VISA," GO AWAY.** DO NOT WASTE MY TIME with phone-baloney nonsense.
Be well, be safe, & may GOD be with you.
have sex while stoned
anyway, back to happy stuff...its funny because i have a new room mate now and i'm like never home because i've been with albert this whole time, but when cyn comes back i want to give them some alone time, especially because i'm on my period and i'm not really interested in sex right now, so i can sleep by myself and organize my room and such at home and hang out with them during the day for a while, and then when school starts i know i won't be here NEARLY as much cuz if i was then the three of us, or at least me and albert, would never get anything done. i remember when i was over here during finals, all the two of us would do is flirt and stuff, lol :P
speaking of sex... we didn't last night, but i think like three of the past six nights we've spent with each other alone we've gotten stoned and had sex. that's not the only reason we got stoned, but we'd still be stoned when we were going to bed and then we'd have sex before we went to sleep. it makes me feel so much closer to him emotionally, like i just get lost in him. its almost like i forget that he's there entirely, and then i remember. it makes for a really intense emotional experience, but its not like we need to be stoned to feel that, either. we've been having sex in the mornings, too, when we've woken up, and its still awesome and its still beautiful and its just...i mean, shit, SEX MEANS SOMETHING!! for the first time in my life, SEX MEANS SOMETHING!! it took 8 guys for me to experience it, but i'm so glad that i am now. i feel like i really know what the meaning of making love is now and i can feel it when we do it, i really can. (yeah yeah, hippy emotional bullshit, get over it.) not only that, but this is the most sex i've ever had in my life. after we first had sex we did it everyday for 5 days in a row, the most i'd ever done, and then we skipped a day, had sex again, skipped another day and then i got a UTI (urinary tract infection.) we didn't have sex for about 10 days after that because i needed the infection to go away and we seperated for the break, but after him and cyn picked me up from santa clara n we went to his parents' house in fresno, (actually its in kingsberg, but fresno's the closest big city to that), i promised i'd be quiet and we had sex then, and we've had sex at least once a day everyday since then up to yesterday because my period started. i mean, i do get really horny during my period, but there's two reasons i choose not to have sex during my period:
1) my flows are usually pretty heavy, and since i'm usually really wet during sex anyway, the two together basically over-lube my vagina so i don't really feel anything. the guys usually seem to be able to pick up enough friction to enjoy it anyway, but i barely can, and i especially can't if we're using a condom because just about all of those come already lubed, too.
2) since my flows are usually pretty heavy, (they ALWAYS were REALLY heavy before i started the pill), its just really messy to have sex on my period and i really don't feel like cleaning that shit up.
my period started yesterday morning and i hadn't noticed until we'd already had sex once because when i got off of him and took the condom off, i noticed there was some blood on it. its not that i've never bled during sex, but we weren't doing anything hard core (i was on top of him) and whenever i bleed during sex, i usually know it because, well, it hurts. usually not enough to tell the guy to stop, but enough to draw a little bit of blood. this time it didn't hurt at all, so i knew it was probably just my period. i told albert that i thought it had started and we just cuddled in bed naked for a while...which turned into grinding...which turned into some discussion as to whether or not we should have sex again. i really wanted to, but the problem was that even tho my period had just started, i could already feel that i was wet enough that if we used a condom, i'd be lucky if i felt anything. however, if we didn't use a condom, could i trust that albert would be able to pull out before he climaxed?
we layed there and talked about it and why i'm not sure i'm ready to have a guy cum in my vagina yet and such, and ultimately i decided that it was ok to have sex without a condom and if he didn't manage to pull out before cumming that i would be ok with it, but i really really wanted him to try. he said ok, and then we started having sex in the spooning position.
now its time for me to back up a little bit and explain a couple things. first off, albert has a lot of piercings. if i ever get around to posting a picture of him and cyn, you'll see that. the thing is, they're not just in his face. he also has his nipples pierced, two scrotal rings, and yes, albert has a prince albert, or PA. this is the piercing that goes from the underside of the head where the foreskin connects to it and into the urethra and then out, (i'm sure if u do a google image search, u'll see one). so yes, my boyfriend has a ring on the end of his cock that i've had an interesting time getting used to when i give him head. it was kind of annoying at first, but i'm starting to learn how to play with it now and stuff, which is pretty much the reason why he got it in the first place. the thing is, the only time albert and i had had sex with out a condom up to this point was when we did anal for the first time a couple mornings ago, and yeah, i could feel his ring and it kind of hurt. (we showered after that to make sure his piercing was clean and everything.) so secondly, yesterday morning was the first time i had sex with albert without a condom. sure, i am on birth control, but we get condoms from planned parenthood for free and i like the extra caution. i know i wouldn't enjoy sex as much if i was always worried that i was pregnant, and i've been especially worried about it this month because 1) my pills came a week late so i started this new pack a week late and because 2) the antibiotics from my UTI make the pill not work. i figured tho that because my period had now started, but would be ok not to use a condom especially if he pulled out. i know that it's possible for a girl to get pregnant while she's on her period, (and if u didn't know that, yes its true), and i know its possible to get pregnant even using the "pull out method," but i figure that if i use that with the pill then i'm probably ok.
and it was weird.
we actually ended up having sex twice- the first time he jizzed on my back, the second time on my stomach- and i could feel his ring the whole fucking time. i'd never felt it before because i guess the condom just makes it feel like its another part of his cock, but as wet as i was, i could tell what that damn thing was and where it was. and it was really weird. i'm not sure if i like the way it feels or not...it kinda hurt, but it kinda didn't at the same time. i had the same experience with it when we did anal, except then i couldn't feel it as well. i didn't think i'd be able to feel it, i have no idea why, but i just didn't. i told albert all this sometime afterward, and he said that the first time him and cyn had sex without a condom when it was fully healed, they did it doggy style and, "ooooooohhhh did she fall in love with me all over again." XD and yes, we did shower afterwards to clean ourselves up and again to make sure his piercings were all nice and clean. we didn't have sex this morning even tho we did want to cuz i didn't want to make a mess, (we actually did get a little blood on the sheets yesterday :/), and we didn't have enough time to do it in the shower before he had to go to work. he said maybe when he gets back, but we'll see, lol.
right now i'm at his apartment because i'm a dumbass and i can't find cyn's spare key that he let me borrow so i can leave and lock the door when i do. when he gets back here he needs to clean the place for cyn anyway, so after that i can go and clean up some shit around my place and then i can come back and hang out here again. i kinda wanna sleep in my own bed tonight, but like i said, i also want to give him and cyn some alone time themselves so maybe i'll wait until tomorrow night to sleep by myself. its not that i don't love him, its just that sometimes u need time to yourself, u know? n hopefully he won't be too mad at me about that key...:/
OK ... so we're baaaaaaaaaaaaaaack! Some pics from Folly Beach on phsbum 's blog. Check em out! (More coming as soon as I can figure out how to get them here.) We were delayed en route home because of serious storms ... arrived home to find a tree down right next door and my pc is partially fried! We know the dsl modem isn't working, so it's been temporarily by-passed. I have rainbow colors on my monitor ... pretty, but ... not-quite-right. Still analyzing the damage, but at least I CAN get online and make this post!
I have to say ... I am REALLY torn. My dearest friends are in SC ... and although I have a few friends here ... and unresolved issues with my brother ... I must find a place where I can teach ... I MUST! It's a matter of income as well as, should I say calling? It's so frustrating to keep bumping into brick walls and closed doors. I KNOW there's an open door someplace ... My student loans that will be coming due unless I continue to take classes, and I sure can't afford it now.
Apparently, serious decisions have become very, very strenuous for me. I second guess myself. I've made enough WRONG choices - I want to make right ones, but fear immobilizes ... and that seems to be where I might be ... caught between the fear of making the WRONG choice and actually making it. I can't see ... I don't know what lies around either bend ... to the left or the right ... so I wait??? Should I stay or should I go??? I'm looking, straining through the mist and fog to SEE ... I must decide soon or wither here in this place.
Sullivan's Island Lighthouse
~ B
It has begun! The US Open has come to town. My header pic is the 9th hole of Oakmont Country CLub, the site of this years US Open, and I live less than 1 mile from the site, but if I try to drive anywhere ... ANYWHERE, I will sit for great lengths of time in my car going no place. There simply is not enough room to contain the influx of humanity (and vehicles) that come along with such an event! MERCY!!!
The building and fussing began in March with traffic steadily climbing both in numbers and in stupidity. The town is an older quaint little one set along the Allegheny River about 20 minutes northeast of the city of Pittsburgh. The tree-lined streets are mostly brick and narrow, with cars always parked on both sides. The thing is ... we have 3 rivers and hundreds of bridges, but there are THOUSANDS of people, press, cars, busses, trucks and GAWKERS, all hoping for a glimpse of Tiger n Company. Then there's those of us who live here ... work here ... and now, sit in traffic here (with the cost of fuel still at $3.00 gal).
Golf has never been one of those "games" - "sports" that I cared much for ... I tried! I even took it in school ... the first time around. I like minature golf, but I don't get the fascination ... purses with plenty of zeros ... and the hype! It certainly is a "rich" sport. That is obvious by the lovely vehicles jamming the streets.
Economically, it will be great for Oakmont, but I technically live in Plum, a neighbor, and Plum will gain virtually nothing but headaches from the event since what little business district Plum has is no where near the Open.
So ... I propose that the next time OCC wants to bring the Open to town, it should be a referendum for us to vote upon! I say ... Bah humbug! (which is why phsbum and I are headed for Charleston, SC on Thursday morning!)
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