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Honoring Life Changes
Honoring Life Changes
The Wisdom Of Fear
Anything worth doing will always have some fear attached to it. For example, having a baby, getting married, changing careers-all of these life changes can bring up deep fears. It helps to remember that this type of fear is good. It is your way of questioning whether you really want the new life these changes will bring. It is also a potent reminder that releasing and grieving the past is a necessary part of moving into the new.

Fear has a way of throwing us off balance, making us feel uncertain and insecure, but it is not meant to discourage us. Its purpose is to notify us that we are at the edge of our comfort zone, poised in between the old life and a new one. Whenever we face our fear, we overcome an inner obstacle and move into new and life-enhancing territory, both inside and out. The more we learn to respect and even welcome fear, the more we will be able to hear its wisdom, wisdom that will let us know that the time has come to move forward, or not. While comfort with fear is a contradiction in terms, we can learn to honor our fear, recognizing its arrival, listening to its intelligence, and respecting it as a harbinger of transformation. Indeed, it informs us that the change we are contemplating is significant, enabling us to approach it with the proper reverence.

You might wish to converse with your fear, plumbing its depths for a greater understanding of the change you are making. You could do this by sitting quietly in meditation and listening or by journaling. Writing down whatever comes up-your worries, your sadness, your excitement, your hopes-is a great way to learn about yourself through the vehicle of fear and to remember that fear almost always comes alongside anything worth doing in your life
 
 
   
 

How Are You Going To Die?

Lots of security around today. Not many smiling faces. I can see how the residents get to the point of saying, "When will it ever end?"

 

Perhaps you've seen the pictures of those who were murdered. You can see their faces on Ynet News or at one of the Israeli newspaper sites.

 

For us, again, we are not afraid. On the lookout, yes. Fearful, no. Our lives are in His hands. Our deaths are in His hands. Again, what's most important is not when one dies--it's how one dies. By that, I don't mean the manner of death; rather, I mean in what spiritual condition does one die? I am pressed to ask the questions, "Have I lived a life pleasing to the Lord? Will He be pleased with me as I stand before Him?"

 

Do you remember the last scene in Saving Private Ryan? Ryan wanted to be sure that he'd lived a life worthy of the men who had died to bring him out. They had all died--he had lived because of their sacrifice.

 

To use another example, how would you respond if a fire fighter or police officer had died to save you? What would you do to honor the memory of the person who had died so you could live? Tomorrow morning, his or her spouse and children wake up without a husband, wife, father, mother. You get to wake up, see the sun rise and have a cup of coffee.

 

Jesus died for you. It sounds so trite, almost, doesn't it? But He took the death--the punishment--that you deserved. Death without God forever.

 

What kind of lives should we live to honor the One who was beaten, spat upon, whipped, mocked, stripped, humiliated and crucified for us so we could live forever?  

 
 
 

   
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Be careful with me,
as I lay in your arms.
I am so easily broken,
and you don't know it yet.
As I hide my face,
burrying it into your chest.
You can't see the fear,
the memories in my eyes.
The blue ones you love,
the ones that are flooding.
Spilling countless tears,
onto this cold pillow.
It has no warmth in it,
no comfort like you.
But you still dont know,
the fear that I hide here.
Below the surface,
behind this mask of lies.
This past is killing me,
breaking me apart inside.
Cause I love you,
but this fear is so strong.
It continues to control me,
making me unable to move.
Paralyzed and blank,
you wont see it here.
But I'm so afraid,
not of the past.
Not of what happened,
but afraid of how.
How much I'm falling still,
how much I love you.
How much I need you,
and you still dont see.

 
 
   
 

 
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