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Okay, I know that most of you will dismiss this as a rehash of my previous post " A Blogger's Rant Blog" but this time it's all about stopping on my tracks in terms of writing. I recently started a new blog on Blogger, which focuses about my musings and opinions regarding my home country. I admit that writing on the new platform drains a lot of word power from me to the point that I can no longer post here on Mindsay. Sorry if I had neglected this blog, and I know that I have alienated most of you because my blog begins to plateau and some of you might have interpreted it as a start of my losing interest in here. It's just that there are things that are running through my head and there are priorities I have to consider. I have been unemployed for a year now, and we are in danger of being booted out of our house. I started looking for jobs, online and otherwise but to no avail. If you read my previous post, once again I was scammed out of my carelessness and lack of research. I hope that you would understand my present situation. For now, I hope that you are all still around and I am thankful that there are some who still curious and visited me though some gaps in between postings. Stalled, yes but not out. See you later and more post to come.
Minutes later, the woman collapsed on the floor screaming in pain and began vomiting blood. Employees ignored her, nurses walked past her, a janitor cleaned up around her. No one did anything until police were called to cart her away. They didn’t get far before she went into cardiac arrest and died.
I'd like to think that this incident is one of a kind and that it has never or will never happen to anyone else. Unfortunately, I don't think that's the case. While I hope that people wouldn't be callous enough to ignore a woman collapsed on the floor, vomiting blood, I'm sure that there are many people who get turned away at hospitals. It's tragic.
My brother listened to me and the Jag officer over in Iraq and refused to talk to the invistigation team and command unless he had a lawyer present! It took my brother over 3 months Nov-January to find out from the Military what the three charges were against him. Every time the NCIS (Naval Criminal Invistgation Service -whatever) tried talking to my brother, he wisely lawyered up because even the Jag officer said that is how these corpmen are getting hammered with charges for doing their jobs! They think they are safe talking to the invistagion team and they twist their words to bring charges on them. Anyway during this time, the Skank filed taxes and took all the money! We have no clue where the money went!
During all this the phone calls from the Skank to my parents tappered off and then boom in January she called my parents. Want toknow what that BITCH did to my nephew? My nephew is going to be 2 in June! She has NOT broken him of the bottle, lets him stay up all night, and only feeds him fast food crap. Well she neglected him so bad that my poor little nephew had to have some of his baby teeth pulled and the rest capped due to lack of enamal on his teeth! So my brother is a little less upset that his boy got some of the tax money, it went to pay for his dental care. The other money situation was she was NOT paying the bills, racked up his Star Card (military cerdit card for the commissary) and from what the family has found out for my brother, she is sending money back to WVA and NC to some sort of ATM type bank. So my brother had to hassle with getting money situated, taking her off his account, send her so much money a month, and changed his power of attorney to my mother and myself.
Now lets move on here to end of March, my mother and I have been hunting down various lawyers via phone and email to get him a divorce lawyer because he was going to file divorce when he got back. In March we changed it up to criminal lawyers because of these alligations she is saying against my brother. A week and half before my brother and the Battallion was due home the Skank went to command and added five more alligations against my brother! My parents at this time already decieded to go out for the welcoming party and to see if they could help my brother! Well my brother's Iraqi command was so pist at my brother for refusing to talk to them and NCIS that as soon as my brother's plane hit US territory they informed him, that he would be in the brig until he talked. My brother said fine. Not with out a lawyer. So my brother has been in the brig from the day he got back from Iraqi, serving his country because he used his head and lawyered up! This is command's way of getting even with him!
Luckily we had the Liasion Officer a Major P, working with my parents and he said that there was nothing going to really happen via the Military and my brother is NOT charged with anything and he would be out. Oh and by the way the Skank is under CPS investigation herself! And Bob is still living in my brother's house. There is still a civil restraining order against my brother where he can't see his boy all because the Military choose to believe the Skank initially and is ALLOWING her to fuck other corpman in a Sgt's HOUSE while he was in Iraqi! Even the other Military Spouses turned her in for that! Oh and as soon as my brother's plane hit US territory coming home, the Skank filed divorce. The Military's policy is if that is the case the non military spouse has 30 days to get the fuck off of base! The stupid Skank thought she had longer!
Okay so now lets jump to last night, the family is having a big oh laugh over the Skank now, even if my brother still has a CPS hearing on May 8th. The Military did their invistgation of the alligations she leveled against my brother and guess what! My brother is out of the brig but is confined to based till the hearing in May w/ CPS. We found 3 more of the alligations are you ready for this :D My brother walks around naked in his own house (yes he has a 14 year old step daughter) but that is full of shit because A it is his own house B the girl should be in bed late at night when he may do it and C BULLSHIT my brother has stayed with other friends, my parents, and my family and ALWAYS wears shorts when around other people and children! The second of the new three we found out is: My brother forcered the Skank to marry him! Yep two years after they were married she is saying he FORCED her to marry him! And the third is that he was NOT sending her support money! Which that is a major fuck up on her part because A he was having all the bills taken out of his pay check and B the Military was taking money out of his paycheck to give to her ON my brother's request! We don't know what the last two alligations are but we will find out today or in a few days because my brother is leaving tomorrow from base to come home for a bit.
Now what the Skank really screwed up on is she filed false alligations against the Command of a Marine Base! She is stating that they did NOT help her concerning my brother! She is still at my brother's house because of the invistgation that CPS has on her. Oh and Bob her lil fuck daddy, is still in my brother's house near my nephew! The May Hearing involving my brother and CPS, and now the alligations she is throwing out at the Command! Command has done a lot for her and NOT their own corpman,a Sgt in the US Marine Corp. She done fuckeded up! Granted my brother still has to go to this Hearing on May 8th to find out if the State of CA is going to press charges but he NOW has the backing of the US Marine Corp and a Criminal Lawyer who by the way is an EX MARINE! The bitch fucked with the wrong family! She has DHHS/DHS/CPS cases around the country and we as a family recently found out some documents we are having another EX MARINE lawyer in our area working on to find more detailed info of criminal charges. Not to mention we are fairly certain that she was NOT divorced from her second Bastard's daddy when she married my brother.
Needless to say our family is pist! And it is going to be felt through the states because according to both ex marine lawyers, the Military HATES bad press and it looks like once we get this shit taken care of we may have to give one of the News stations (national) a tip on how the Military goes after it's own Warriors and allows allow corpmen to live in another soldier's house with his family ON BASE while he is fighting for them! We may never see my nephew again, but we will make sure that his Skanky mamma has a life full of trouble. And we will do it legally, even though my sister and I would love a few hours alone with the Skank:D
Long Post I am sorry......Look for Part 2 of this Post!
Okay here is the deal I am allowed to talk a little abit about what is going on with my brother and my skank in law. First, my brother is heading home on leave tomorrow! This is great news he really needs to unwind and be around family after months over in Iraq and also dealing with his soon to be ex wife!
Military folks and spouses on Mindsay listen up becuase this could happen to you or to friends of yours. Mindsay folks listen up real good because you probably know Military folks that have had this happen to them or know someone who knows someone that has this happen to them.
Two years ago my brother married his skank much to the family's displeasure. We could see that something about her and her behavior was not right. We didn't tell him not to marry her even though we tried to convience him that he did NOT have to just to gain custody of his son. The Skank is a "Base Bunny" a nicer term for somebody who loves to "f*ck" Military guys. According to her, her two oldest kids have two different daddies both Military. Both allegedly "dead". The Skank and all three kids, her lil Bastards and my nephew lived with my parents for about 6-9 months and caused issues between my brother and our parents. My parents were trying to help and she wouldn't accept the help, as soon as my mother came home from work left all care of my nephew to my mother, accused my dad of being an ass (which we all agree he is) but also tried to tell her that she is 30 some years old and he is 60 some years old and that she was living in our father's house and she would have to be respectful. There is more to that but you don't need all of that story. So Skank and the kids moved down to TX to be with my brother; where my family at the time was also at, in TX. We went to visit my brother and his family and she made the visit unbearable and my brother did say sorry finally over that.
Now on to the drama part now that you have some background information. Before my brother left Labor Day weekend of 2006 for Iraq, his family was moved to CA and everything was peachy keen! My brother was buying her things, clearing out her credit, cleared up her DHS/CPS bullshit that followed her from NC where they meet and married. They were talking peacfully with my parents and my sister. I of course was NOT talking to them because my brother KNEW that if I saw her again we would all have words about how piss poor of a mother, wife, and daughter in law she was. Not to mention how she gives women the world over a shitty name. Then my brother left for Iraq. Things were still somewhat okay with my parents and the skank.
As my parents talked to her more and more over the phone and internet, they came to realize that the Skank had another Corpman at her house constantly named Bob. The kids let it out. So my mom asked her who Bob was. According to the Skank, Bob was a close friend that she called cousin. This is how she writes men into her life. They are either brothers, cousins, or uncles. Stupid Bitch didn't realize we aren't stupid and found out she only had a few brothers and my brother served with 2 of them in the Navy and the Marines! So after that the next time my brother called my parents, my mother asked him who Bob was. My brother had no clue. This was in November. So my brother called his skank and his exact question was this: "Who the fuck is Bob and why the fuck is he in my house with my son?"
Next thing we know in December, my brother is calling my parents going the Skank has alledged allegations against my brother while he was over in Iraq. Rape, Domestic Assult, and Sexual Diviation! Needless to say we are all up in arms over this because my brother is Intel. They investigated him and the entire family! Including extended family and my sister's and my husband's family. Were in my extended family they promptly learned that I married into a Military family also. Now Listen Up folks that are in the Military or know someone in the Military this is where it gets interesting!
I was at Busch Gardens the other day, and I saw something that mad me feel a whole mix of emotions. I thought of my past: my childhood, my parents, my interaction with other children, everything in my life which has led up to the person I am today. I don't have to wonder if things could have been different, I know there are millions of ways that life can turn out. I am actually fairly okay with who I am and how I live my life. Some people are not so lucky. Parents always take the blame and often the distraught parent of say, a serial killer or a teen suicide case is left wondering "what did I do wrong?" Sometimes the parents blame themselves, and other times they are attacked by society. Often the blame is unjust, after all people DO make their own choices in the end.
What I saw at Busch Gardens made me wonder though, how much a small thing can destroy a person. My theory may seem silly, yet when I look back on my life and the lives of others, I realize that the small things may very well count the most. People always try to fix and make up for the bigger mistakes, and so the smaller ones slip by and cause the most damage.
The scene was as follows, I was waiting in line for the Sandstorm, there was a group of children from a summer camp in line in front of me. EVERY child except one was wearing a yellow camp shirt. One girl, with a name tag sticker labeled Beebee, was in an orange shirt. The color of ones shirt may seem to be a trivial matter, and still the more I think of Beebee, the more saddened I become.
It was only a shirt. Lets look at all the related issues though. Beebee was alone in her group. When everyone chose partners, Beebee was left to be placed by the teacher-type-person. She could not have been much more than six, and already she is clearly a social outcast. I could see her from my seat on the ride and she looked depressed the entire time. Depressed on a trip to busch gardens!
Why does the color of a shirt matter so much? Well it isn't really just about the shirt you see. Thinking back to childhood, my mother always made me dress in a snow suit when there was no snow. I wear a raincoat when there was no rain, and if I went to a camp with color coded shirts, I'm sure my mom would have messed that up too. I bet the girl knew what color shirt she had to wear. I can hear the arguement now:
"Mom, we're wearing the yellow shirts tomorrow"
"no, I'm sure it's the orange shirts, wear orange..."
or better yet
"mom, where is my yellow shirt, I have to wear that one to camp!"
"oh I forgot to wash it... uh just wear the orange one"
Neglect, I tell you! So it isn't just the fact that her shirt is wrong. Her mother doesn't care enough to pay attention to her life. I'm sure that affects other areas of her life as well. Beebee appears depressed. At the age of six at the most, on a ride at Busch Gardens. Something is wrong with people today.
I think a license should be required to have children. My goodness, a license is required to CUT HAIR or trim finger nails. This country needs to straighten out some priorities.
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