Mother Daughter Time @ MindSay

Here are some pictures from a mommy / daughter outing we had at the tea house today.  We had a nice time.



Dance buddies!



Say "cheese" girls!



My book buddy Ms. Gee.  We pass nothing but the juiciest novels to each other. :P



Mommy / daughter outings are so much fun!



Everybody say "TEA"!



14 weeks pregnant and counting. . .



The kiddo is pretty good with a camera isn't she?



Here's a picture I took at the beginning of the month.  It was the kiddo's birthday.



The kiddo and me.



My skinny husband and the kiddo.  He lost 45 pounds!

well let me start by saying congrats to everyone who had a good valentines day. mine was ok, got to spend time with my daughter. but other than that nothing big. Found out my daughter might have a respitory infection. and yeah she hasnt slept all day....i figured something out yesterday....for a little over the next year my love life is going to suck...well reason being is i hhave only about two months til i gt activated to active duty and then i will be on active duty til march 2010. and most of that being me overseas. so yeah no love life for me for the next year. i mean i could go out and try to find someone but i dont want to put someone through the hardship of me not being here for long periods of time again. last time things didnt work out it made a big dent in the relationship and her and i grew apart while i was gone. but anyways enough about sad stuff just tought i would share my findings. well hope everyne has a good day....

 

Paul

Today I got to spend time with my FAVORITE mother and father: my own! We had a good old time chatting for about 4 hours. It was nice to be able to just lounge around and not rush about getting anywhere. The time went by extremely slowly, which was an advantage since I haven't gotten to do that in a while. I didn't get to see my sister for very long, though, since she and her boyfriend showed up as I was getting into my truck to drop my son off to his other grandmother. I got myself to Wendys and got some food so I wouldn't fall asleep on the ride back home.

LOL! Apparently I "hurt her feelings" by not talking to her yesterday, and today she isn't talking to me either. Wow, I hurt her feelings? Yeah, I suppose being called a fucking asshole, being accused of trying to kill your own mother, having your own mother tell her she hates you, and having your own mother lie to the cops about you is supposed to be perfectly okay. I can't believe her.

She talks to my dad, and acts all perfectly fine, calm, and happy with him. With me? She avoids looking at me, she avoids being in my line of sight, she shuts her mouth. Because apparently I have hurt her feelings. She hasn't apologized yet, and I suspect she never will. I guess it's fair to assume, then, that I will not talk to her for a long time.

My dad asked me why I'm not talking to her when she's happy. It's because she admitted to him that she remembers all of the nasty things she said to me that night yet she doesn't seem to think that it was wrong. She doesn't think it was wrong to make me so sick I was up until 5 in the morning, going from bed to bathroom feeling nauseous, because I was worried. She doesn't think it was wrong to tell me she hated me, even though she was drunk, and to try and convince a cop that I was "killing" her when all I had done was try to help her after she passed out on the kitchen floor.

Well, I don't think that's how a mother should be. I don't think being drunk is an excuse to avoid an apology or at least to avoid saying you were wrong. I don't think being drunk is an excuse to treat your daughter like she's the one to blame after you've sobered up. And you know what? I don't think I'm going to talk to her until she at least grasps the basic concept of why I'm not speaking to her.

My dear dear mother woke me up at 7.30 in the mañana to play me the mañanitas... then she was crying for a few minutes telling me that she wishes me the best in life and in love and that she's so happy that i've found someone that respects me and loves me dearly... the last time my mother was telling me something of this sort, was a few years ago when she was having severe medical issues...

then my gianna called me, oh how i miss her so much!!! I got a surprising e-mail from one of my sisters, she hasn't spoken to me since January of this year, and she refuses to speak to me when we see each other... it was pretty heart-warming, so yeah...

my daddy hasn't called me, so i'm a tad bit sad. but i go home tomorrow, so i'll see him then... aww i can't wait to see my daddy :D!!!! i love my daddy soooooooo much...

yay, it's my 21st b-day!!! now, where's the first place to get my free shots???