Minded @ MindSay

Do you know what really grinds my gears? Haha.. no no. Let's start with another title...

Well, I've noticed this being a problem, for a while; not just on mindsay, but other places online, and even in person. People are very judging, and seem to have no faith in the younger generation, having something valid to say, and being taken seriously. Some adults just seem to be completely closed-minded about teenagers, thinking they are all the same. I do not like being stereotyped, like this. I want to be taken for who I am, not how old I am. Just because you're older, doesn't mean you know any more than anyone else, of a younger age. Turning 18, or "becoming an adult", does not guarantee you're wise, nor does it give you the right to judge people younger than you- in fact, no one has the right to judge anyone! No matter what age, gender, sexuality, religion; nothing gives anyone that right, to assume something about someone.

I'm tired of getting replies, where people tell me I'm too young to know something, or understand this, or have a valid opinion on that... I am a firm believer in equality, and this just isn't fair, to judge my intelligence, on age.

Maybe you've met many teens who fit the stereotype, but it is no reason to assume all are like that. Just as I've met a lot of closed-minded christians, I am not going to assume all christians are closed- minded. It just doesn't make sence.

I've thought about not putting my age- or putting it higher-, in hopes of people not judging me, but I guess it just shows me who they are, doesn't it?

Everyone belongs to some group. Have you been stereotyped? Do you think it is fair to judge? Have you seen this happening? Have you done it yourself? What do you think of this? All opinions welcome- but understand I might start a debate with you.

It didn't turn out very well. I told him about it and at first he thought that I wanted to be the Dominant. He didn't like that idea at all. Then I explained to him that I wanted him to be the Dominant. He still wasn't too fond of it. We argued about it for a while and he didn't wanna be very open minded about it. So the result was that he agreed to read and learn a lil more about it before he said no. I hope he chooses to stay open minded. I told him that if he learns about it first, and still doesn't like the idea, then I will drop it and not worry about it n e more. I don't think he is gonna like it too much, but I think apart of him will be intrigued like I am. It all depends on the literature I give him to read. I am gonna go to the sites tonite and show him after my parents go out.

On another note, I had the most horrible nightmare last nite. I woke up crying this morning. I dreamt that me and Joe were at my aunt house with her and her husband and they were all talking about having a four some. Joe really wanted to do it and I was aginst it. So they went in the room to go at it and Joe was trying to convince me to do it. I finally said no that I didn't want to so they all stopped. Well I went some where for a week and when I came back Joe tells me that he fucked my aunt all week. I went crazy and went in the house and beat the shit outta her. I went back outside yelling that it was over between me and him and he was chasing after me yelling that he didn't wanna let me go. I turned around with a knife in my hand and chopped off his balls and dick. Aunt Danette came running out and I ran after her with the knife and as soon as the knife came down on her, I woke up. I was drinched with sweat and I was crying. I guess that dream comes from when me and my dad was convinced he was fucking her.

I guess I should go into a lil more background then that so no one is confused. Me and Joe have been goin out for 4 month this time around. I have known him since I was about 13 and I am 18 now. We went out in January of 2004 and I lived with my Aunt Danette during that time. We went out for 6 monthsand my aunt loved to get inbetween us. If it weren't for her we would have had the greatist relationship, but she kept fucking things up. Well she never wanted me to get a job cuz she wanted me to watch her little ones, but I went and got a job n e ways cuz I wanted to save money. Well she got really pissed and we got into a huge fight and I walked out of her house. It was a very stormy night and I was walking down a pretty busy road to go to my friends house. Well he finally found me and I told him why I did what I did and he said he understood. But the next day he called me and told me he spent 2 hours talking with my aunt and she had said I was talking shit about him and I was cheating on him. Well, he believed it and we broke up. It broke my heart into tiny little pieces cuz he is the only guy I have been in love with. He kept goin over to my aunt house for 2 weeks after I had moved out and thatz why my dad was convinced they were fucking.

But all is good now cuz I got him back 5 days after Christmas and we have been together since. Even when were were broken up, his heart was still with me and mine was with him.

So that is part of the long heart breaking story.