Kinky Sex @ MindSay

According to Dr. Laura, if your husband cheats, you share the blame because you've pushed away "perfectly good men by not treating them with the love and kindness and respect and attention they need."  These are her words on the Today Show during her interview with Meredith Vierra while discussing the Spitzer scandal.

 

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/03/11/dr-laura-blames-spitzer_n_90994.html

 

My take on the Spitzer scandal is this: A lot of times, powerful men get to where they are by being risk takers. Enron's Jeff Skilling was known to enjoy wild vacations where he engaged in extreme sports. The type of cheating Spitzer engaged in was high risk because he enjoyed prostitutes. He didn't cheat with a mistress (as far as we know) because that would have required some sort of a relationship. He had sex with prostitutes because it was illicit, dangerous  and he didn't have to become emotionally involved with the women.  He objectified them and paid for their services. The end.  It was kinky, non-committal sex.  This had more to do with him being freaky than it had to do with his wife not giving him what he needed.  Considering the fact that Dr. Laura was the other woman to the man she now calls her husband, I can see why she needs to believe her absurd theory.  Not to worry though, what goes around comes around.

I wanted to say hi to everyone.

I hope joy gets rid of her viruses and gets back on line, don't tell her but i miss her blogs.

i was blogging to let everyone know about Saturday night .... like everyone has been holding their breath ....LOL

sex with betty was fun and interesting, that girl is always wanting to try a new way or dome kinky twist (yea i love her for it). Then i get home and damn if hubby wasn't feeling frisky. I am getting too old for this. I think he got tongue cramps from trying to ... well not in an open blog. so i slept extra good saturday night.

hubby and i did some more rearranging and cleaning sunday.

 

i don't know where the suggested tags come from but i decided i would start clicking all of them for now on ... LOL

 

i hope everyone had a decent weekend. any good sex???

hugs to patchesmom and to becky :)

 

oh btw, GUN don't take things so personal :)

bi bi for now

I know i posted this a couple of days ago, but I was thinking about it and realized that I made some mistakes, so now i'm re-posting it incase anyone did read it...and if you all missed it, you can post it on your blogs now!

from meangirl20 

1. ARE YOU A BOY OR GIRL? i've gots a vagina
2. ARE YOU A VIRGIN? no
3. DO YOU LIKE SEX? when i want it
4. HOW MANY PARTNERS HAVE YOU HAD? sex: 5, fooled around with (including people i've had sex with): 10
5. DO YOU BELIEVE IN SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE? no, but if you've already fucked that up like me, you might as well have some fun
6. DO YOU REGRET HAVING SEX? i regret losing my virginity, but i don't regret sex with the last four guys i've done it with
7. WAS SEX WHAT YOU THOUGH THE FIRST TIME YOU DID IT? well, for the most part, he couldn't keep it up, so no
8. WHAT AGE WERE YOU? when i lost my virginity? 16
9. HAVE YOU EVER DONE A LAPDANCE FOR YOUR LOVER? hehe, yeah
10. HAVE YOU STRIPPED FOR HIM OR HER? duh
11. DO CANDLES GET YOU IN THE MOOD? depends on the candle and if there's other lighting
12. DO YOU KNOW WHAT A NYMPHO IS? do you?
13. ARE YOU ONE? maybe
14. WHAT IS IT? you
15. HAVE YOU EVER HAD MUSIC ON WHILE HAVING SEX? just the first time, actually
16. WHAT IS YOUR FAVE POSITION? doggy style, although J's showed me the hidden wonders of having the guy on top
17. LEAST? haven't done enough to know
18. WHAT POSITION WOULD YOU LIKE TO TRY THAT YOU HAVENT? too many to name, but lets start with any of the ones that AREN'T: 1-4, 8, 10, 11, 16, 18-20, 22, 24, 25, 27, 30-32, 36, 41, 42, 43 (anal variation), 45, 46, 52 (anal variation). Notice how most are oral (the two collums on the left) or anal (the one collum on the right and the ones mentioned above) sex positions.
19. ARE YOU KINKY? so i've been told
20. WHY OR WHY NOT? cuz i tied a boy to my bed post, cut his stomach, and then started flogging him.
21. DO YOU HANDCUFFS? excuse me? do i use them? yes, on my boy toys. ;)
22. DO YOU LIKE BONDAGE? did i not mention tying a guy to my bed post in Santa Clara?
23. WOULD YOU RATHER BE IN CONTROL OR THE OTHER PERSON? I think that's pretty obvious now.
24. HAVE YOU EVER GIVEN HEAD? let's go back to the poster
25. HAVE YOU RECEIVED ORAL? see #24
26. WHAT PLACES HAVE YOU HAD SEX? my bed in Santa Clara, my bedroom floor in SC, ex's shower (SC house), my ex's two beds (SC and Sunnyvale), ex's other bathroom (SC), love seat at my house, my bed here in my dorm, hot tub/sauna place in Arcata, & the passanger seat of my new guy's car.
27. ARE THEIR ANY PLACES YOU'D LIKE TO HAVE SEX IN OR AT? yes. yes there are.
28. WOULD YOU HAVE SEX IN PUBLIC? *cough-hot tub place-cough*
29. WHY OR WHY NOT? cUz ItS sO rIsKy, LIke, OmG!
30. WOULD U HAVE AN ORGY? sure
31. WHAT DO YOU THINK OF FUCK BUDDIES? they're great if they're not assholes
32. DO YOU HAVE PROTECTED OR UNPROTECTED SEX? protected
33. DO YOU HAVE ANY STD'S? not that i know of
34. WHAT FOOD MAKES YOU THINK OF SEX? avacados and chocolate
35. DO YOU HAVE A LOVER NOW? define "lover"
36. WHAT DOES THIS PERSON LOOK LIKE? well, if to you a lover can also be a fuck buddy that you have no strings attatched casual sex with, then i think he's fucking cute and he's like the only good looking guy i've had sex with, but the assholes that were spreading rumors about me in December used to call him "Gerb" in August and September cuz they thought he looked like a gerbil. :(
37. WHAT MAKES THEM ATTRACTIVE TO YOU? well, before we started fucking, his eyes, his body his face, his hair, his sense of humor, (he's a bit of a flirt, or at least he is with me anyway, lol. :P) his smile, his personality, (he's one of the sweetest guys you'll ever know), and now that we are fucking i can add his taste in music, cock and his sinfully orgasmic, incredible skill to that list. :D he is the sex god.
38. DO THEY HAVE ANY FLAWS? everyone has flaws. i just don't know him well enough to know his specifically. we have some differences in our interests, but that doesn't neccessarily make them flaws.
39. HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN WITH THIS PERSON? well, we've seen each other three times now, starting on February 7th. That was one hell of a late birthday present, believe you me. holy shit.
40. WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO WEAR FOR YOUR LOVER? stuff that comes off easily and quickly.
41. HAVE YOU EVER SPENT THE NIGHT AT HIS/HER PLACE? i wished until i found out who is room mate was yesterday. (which is how i know it was him that they were calling "Gerb" and stuff)
42. HAS HE/SHE EVER SPENT THE NIGHT AT YOURS? see above answer
43. HAVE YOU EVER HAD ANAL SEX? poster
44. DID YOU LIKE IT? i wouldn't have kept doing it if i didn't.
45. WHY OR WHY NOT? cuz it feels really good and can be one of the most intimate things of one's life.
46. DO YOU LIKE PORNOS? depends on the porno
47. WHAT IS YOUR FAVE? guy on guy or lesbian S&M
48. DO YOU OWN ANY PORNO MAGAZINES? nope
49. IS BIGGER BETTER? not neccessarily
50. DESCRIBE YOUR IDEAL LOVER? romantic, kind, sweet, caring, creative, smart, and funny, with an interesting personality. someone i can talk to and share a lot of common interests with. somone who'll support me and help me through my disorder rather than getting mad that it exits and giving up on me because of it. someone i can open up to and tell anything and they'll never judge or understand that i was a screwed up kid in the past and i've changed a lot. someone i can be my self with, no matter how geeky or girly. someone who's not afraid to open up and talk about their emotions, histories, and sexuality as well as experiment and try new things, sexual and not. (is it obvious yet why i can never have another relationship again for the rest of my life? or atleast why i'll never ever be able to have a successful one?)
51. WOULD YOU HAVE A THREE-SOME? fuck yeah
52. HAVE YOU EVER HAD A THREE-SOME? i wish
53. WHY OR WHY NOT? cuz i'm too fat. with very few exceptions, only really older creepy balding guys with beer bellies or really creepy chauvanistic mexican guys are interested in me. (the sad thing is, i'm not even that big, but it just goes to show how shallow all the guys/girls i've ever met are. it fucking sux. :()
54. DO YOU OWN ANY SEX TOYS? yep
55. HAVE YOU EVER USED ANY IN THE BEDROOM? yes
56. WHAT WAS IT? my vibrator- i mean, "massager"
57. WHAT DID IT DO? went in my pussy and vibrated. it went in and out with some help, too.
58. HAVE YOU EVER HAD SEX ON A WATERBED? not yet ;)
59. DO YOU THINK YOU'D WANT TO? it would be a very interesting experience. it's worth a try.
60. DO YOU PREFER ROUGH SEX OR NICE AND SLOW? usually rough, which makes it awesome when he mixes things up a bit and starts going slow. mood can also be a factor.
61. DO YOU ENJOY WATCHING MOVIES THAT HAVE SEX SCENES IN THEM? if the movie's good.
62. WHAT MOVIES HAVE YOU SEEN WITH SEX SCENES IN THEM? i can't possibly remember them all.
63. IS THERE A SONG THAT MAKES YOU THINK OF SEX? oh yeah baby.
64. HAS YOUR LOVER EVER SAID "I LOVE YOU" WHILE HAVING SEX? considering we're not technically lovers, no.
65. IS YOUR LOVER LOUD OR QUIET DURING SEX? usually loud, but he was kinda quiet last time. i think it was because he was still sick and didn't feel very good. poor guy. :(
66. DOES IT BOTHER YOU IF HE/SHE IS QUIET? FUCK YES!!!!!! i HATE it when boys are quiet!!
67. WHAT IF HE/SHE IS BREATHING HEAVILY, WILL IT STILL BOTHER YOU? not as much, but it's such a huge turn on when i can make a guy moan for me.
68. WHERE DO YOU LIKE TO BE TOUCHED? where do i not like to be touched?
69. DO YOU LIKE TO BE GRABBED ANYWHERE? oh yes
70. WHERE? this is a much simpler answer: no wrists, no arms, no thighs, no ankles, no neck, ass is ok as long as it's during some sort of activity and not done at random, hair is ok if i'm in the mood.
71. DESCRIBE YOUR BEST SEX EXPEREINCE SO FAR? this survey is long enough as it is.
72. LEAST? give me four shots of JD and i'll tell you anything. anymore than that and i still will, but i'll bawl my eyes out the whole time.
73. WHO IS THE SEXIEST FEMALE CELEBRITY? SHAKIRA!!! NO ONE GIVES ME PENIS ENVY LIKE SHE DOES!!!! I'D BEAT OFF TO HER VIDEOS ALL THE FUCKING TIME!!!
74. SEXIEST MALE CELEBRITY? Johnny Depp. :P
75. WHAT ARE YOUR TURN-ONS? pretty much #50, + nice teeth, blue or green eyes, and nice hair.
76. TURN-OFFS? the opposite of the previous question. oh, and overly religious people, not just christians.
77. IS THERE ANYTHING THAT YOU'D WANT TO TRY WITH YOUR LOVER THAT YOU HAVENT? oh yes
78. WOULD YOU RATHER GO SHOPPING OR HAVE SEX? depends on what i'm shopping for and who i'd be having sex with.
79. DO YOU LIKE GETTING HICKEYS? hehe, yeah
80. WHY OR WHY NOT? it feels good at the time, and if they don't show then it's like you and your parnter's special little secret! :P
81. DO YOU KNOW HOW TO GIVE A HICKEY? um, shyeah
82. HOW DO YOU DO IT? DESCRIBE. you find a small place with some looser skin like the neck, chest, side, or stomach, put your mouth on it and you suck.
83. WHATS THE SEXIEST SEX SCENE IN A MOVIE? oooo.....i don't know about the sexiest, but i'd have to say the most beautiful was between Selene and Michael in Underworld: Evolution. (although the other one later on in the movie was kinkily hot, too)
84. WHAT MADE IT SEXY? i liked how they showed her stomach a lot and how they did a side profile of both of their bodies that didn't really reveal anything.
85. HAVE YOU EVER VIDEOTAPED YOU AND YOUR LOVER HAVE SEX? i wish.
86. WHAT ABOUT TAKING PICS TOGETHER WHILE HAVING SEX? i've done it before, but not with this guy
87. WOULD YOU EVER WANT TO DO QUESTIONS 85 AND 86? #85- hell yes, #86- i'd do it again
88. WHY OR WHY NOT? well, #86 was a lot of fun, so why wouldn't #85? and i could post it on a special site
89. DO YOU BELIEVE IN MONOGAMY? if the two are in love, yes
90. WHAT IS IT? when two people engage in sexual and emotional activity with only each other and no one else
91. HAVE YOU EVER GAVE A GUY A HAND JOB? yeah
92. WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE THING TO DO TO A GUY OR GIRL? i LLOOOOVVVVE teasing a guy's cock with my tongue
93. DO YOU LOVE THE PERSON THAT YOU HAVE SEX WITH? when i look back, i don't think i've loved any of the people i've had sex with. not in "that way" anyway
94. DO YOU PREFER YOUR LOVER IN A UNIFORM? depends on the uniform and their gender ;)
95. WHATS THE BEST PART ABOUT HAVING SEX? if he can make me cum. (it's a pleasant surprise. with this new guy, though, its not if, but how many and how he does it! :O!) or that moment when he first gets between my legs and i know he'll penetrate me any second now, but i don't know when.
96. LEAST? when i start getting tired :P
97. DO YOU FANTASIZE ABOUT YOUR LOVER WHEN YOU'RE NOT WITH HIM/HER? oh shit yeah
98. HAVE YOU EVER HAD PHONE SEX? yep
99. WHAT DID YOU THINK OF IT? for the most part, i hate it, but i have enjoyed it with three of the people i've done it with.
100. DESCRIBE ONE OF YOUR SEX DREAMS...? that's hard to say, because usually when i wake up, i just remember having sex with them, and not much else. (the guy is usually on top.)

I wrote both of these when I was really horny in March and no, neither of them are about J incase you've been following what's been going on with me lately. They both suck. i'm not kidding, they REALLY, REALLY suck. its not like there's any pretty language or anything like that. they're both straight forward and simple, no beating around the bush...so to speak, hehehe. and also the first one gets pretty dirty, but i've been looking through my poems on here and they're all hella emo, so here's something different. but you've been warned.

 

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Fuck My Brains Out

 

Hey you

I think I want you

So why don't you come

Fuck my brains out?!
Nothing drives me crazier

Than a nerdy boy like you

With a body just like yours.

 

So please

Come fuck my brains out.

I'm tired of my masterbation fantasies

So let's go make this shit real.

 

Hey you

I know you want me

So please let me

Fuck your brains out!
I have never screwed

A guy who has a dick

That's as big as yours.

 

So please

Let me fuck your brains out

I'm told I give really good head

Don't you wanna make this shit real?

 

Yeah let's please make this shit real

 

Its not fair that you've done more than me

Or that you've been with more people than I have

Let me ake my jealousy out on you

Through some kinky fun fantasies

So please cum here

Preferably on my tits

And I can make you lick it off

That's what you get for being straight.

 

I'd be on top every night

Cuz I know that's how you like it

I've never felt lust as strong as this

 

So let's make it real

I think- no, I know I want you

So why don't you come fuck my brains out?

 

Yeah

 

Christ almighty, please make this boy come fuck my brains out!

 

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Dirty Fantasy World

 

All I wanna do

Is lay here and smoke some dope with you

We could have a threesome

Just me, you, and Mary Jane, too

 

But it'll never happen

I'm just a little girl

In a fantasy world

But at least here

Everything is beautiful

And finally I'm at peace

 

All I wanna do

Is fall asleep and dream of you

No sex act is undoable

When I'm enveloped in my sweet REM sleep

 

But they'll never happen

I'm just a little girl

In a fantasy world

With the best sex

We would ever have

And finally I'm at peace

 

All I wanna do

Is tocuh myself with these dirty thoughts of you

So fresh in my mind

I know I could please you if I could have you

 

That's why it'll never happen

Why I'm in a fantasy world

Wanting you more the more

I realize I'll never have you

 

I know it'd be

Worth your while

 

Oh, I wish these things could happen

You'd live inside my little

Kinked out fantasy world

You'd never want to leave

My tight bonds of pleasure

And finally we'd be at peace.

Take the quiz: "What kind of sex should you have?"

Kinky
You like whips, chains..... crazy stuff. You are creative with sex. Keep it going!!!!! I hope you have a partner as kinky as you, otherwise you wont be satisfied.

Take the quiz: "What Is Your Kink?"

SadoMasochism
Pain is your thing. You probably are tattooed or pierced, or enjoy giving tattoos or piercings. You use unusual objects as sex toys. In the bedroom, you're wild and untamed! Your motto is Hurts so good!

Take the quiz: "How Good Are Your Orgasms?"

OH YES!
your orgasms are so hot they could melt a fucking iceberg

so apparently my orgasms are the source of global warming...it's J and Nam's fault for making me cum all those times!