Guys And Girls @ MindSay

Captured in a commando raid on tchmymnd .

 

WHAT IS YOUR FULL NAME?: BaraJohn Husidney McBama…ironic, isn’t it?

NICKNAMES?: They call me Mister Tibbs.

SINGLE OR TAKEN?: Discarded.

BIRTHDAY?: Dwight D. Eisenhower’s.

ZODIAC SIGN?: £

AGE?: 44

HAIR?: Brown.

WHERE DO YOU LIVE?: La La Land.

WHAT COLOR UNDERWEAR ARE YOU WEARING RIGHT NOW?: Didn’t you read the first sentence? I said I was on a commando raid.

WHAT ARE YOU DOING RIGHT NOW?: This survey.

WHAT WAS THE LAST THING YOU DID?: The previous question.

WHAT IS RIGHT NEXT TO YOU: My hydrogen bomb.

WHO WAS THE LAST PERSON YOU ATE OUT WITH?: Myself.

IF U WERE A TOY, WHAT WOULD YOU BE?: A broken yo-yo.

WHERE WOULD YOU WANT TO GO ON YOUR HONEYMOON?: I’m thinking the asylum.

WHO WOULD YOU WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH?: The only one who’d put up with me--myself.

HOWS THE WEATHER RIGHT NOW?: It isn’t snowing.

LAST PERSON YOU SPOKE TO ON THE PHONE?: Some woman.

LAST PERSON WHO TEXT YOU: Dick Cheney.

LAST PERSON YOU TEXT: George W. Bush, to complain that his Vice President keeps texting me.

 

DO YOU LIKE THE PERSON WHO SENT THIS TO YOU?: Nobody sent it to me.

WHAT DO YOU THINK A TOBLERONE IS?: I think it’s a candy bar.

WHAT RU WEARING RIGHT NOW?: I have no idea what Ru is wearing.

DO YOU WEAR CONTACTS?: No.

WHO DO CONSIDER YOUR CLOSEST/BESTEST FRIEND?: cardigan is easily the best friend I’ve ever had that I haven’t married.

WHAT WAS THE BEST ADVICE EVER GIVEN TO YOU?: Expect nothing, and you will never be disappointed.

DO U OWN A VEHICLE?: I imagine that U-Haul owns several.

HAVE YOU EVER WON A SPECIAL AWARD?: No…just commonplace, mundane awards.

WHAT ARE YOUR FUTURE PLANS?: I’ll probably drop dead eventually.

FAVORITE FOOD?: Pizza.

FAVORITE FILM: This stuff on the monitor screen…I think it’s nicotine film.

LAST FILM YOU SAW AT CINEMA?: Harry Potter And The Prisoner Of Whateverthehellitwas. Yeah, it’s been awhile.

FAVE BOYS COLOGNE: I don’t usually sniff boys.

FAVE GIRLS PERFUME: I don’t care.

DO YOU LIKE TO DANCE?: Only if nobody can see me.

ARE YOU TOO SHY TO ASK ANYONE OUT?: It just takes me a few years to work up to it.

IF YOU COULD CHANGE YOUR NAME TO ANTHING, WHAT WOULD IT BE?: Nucking Futz. Then I’d be Nucking Futz…but you already knew that.

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN LOVE?: Yes, I’m afraid I have.

WHAT IS THE MOST STUPID THING YOU HAVE EVER DONE?: Being in love was right up there.

 

DO YOU LIKE SCARY OR HAPPY MOVIES?: I’m pretty neutral on movies in general.

CHRISTMAS OR EASTER?: Arbor Day.

LUST OR LOVE?: Lust hurts less.

KISSES OR HUGS?: M&Ms.

IF YOU COULD CHANGE ONE THING, WHAT WOULD IT BE?: The French would have put up a better fight against the Prussians in 1870.

WHAT COLOR ARE YOUR PAJAMAS: No pajamas.

WHAT COLOR'S YOUR TOOTHBRUSH?: Blue.

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THIS QUIZ?: I wonder who exactly wastes their time writing these things.

DO U WANT UR FRIENDS TO WRITE BACK?: Ur has been defunct for several thousand years now.

WHO IS THE MOST LIKELY TO RESPOND?: I dunno.

WHO IS THE LEAST LIKELY TO RESPOND?: I dunno.

FAVE PART OF THE OPPOSITE SEX?: Breasts.

WORST FEELING IN THE WORLD: Being kicked in the crotch is right up there.

WHATS THE FIRST THING YOU THINK OF WHEN YOU WAKE UP?: Usually, the bathroom.

ROLLER COASTER, SCARY OR WICKED??: You tell me, since I won’t be riding it.

HOW MANY TIMES DO YOU LET THE PHONE RING BEFORE YOU ANSWER IT?: Leave a message; maybe I’ll call back.

IF YOU COULD MEET ONE PERSON, DEAD OR ALIVE, WHO WOULD IT BE?: Osama bin Laden, preferably dead.

IF YOU COULD HAVE ANY JOB IN THE WORLD WHAT WOULD IT BE: PennDOT employee--one of the four guys who watch the fifth guy actually work.

IS THE GLASS HALF EMPTY OR HALF FULL?: About three-quarters empty.

WHATS YOUR FAVE NUMBER?: Jenny’s à 867-5309.


ON GIRLS FOR GUYS TO FILL OUT (for guys only) [Rich’s edit: or gay girls]

THONG OR KNICKERS: What are we, British? Silky nylon panties.

LONG OR SHORT HAIR: Long, though I’m flexible.

TALL OR SHORT: I don’t care.

 

BREASTS OR BUM?: Breasts…but let me state for the record that their existence is not my fault!

BRAINS OR BEAUTY?: Brains. If I like her I’ll find the beauty, no matter what she may look like.

ON GUYS FOR GIRLS TO FILL OUT (for girls only) [Rich’s edit: or gay guys]

BIKINIS, BOXERS, REGULAR WHITE UNDIES:

LONG OR SHORT HAIR:

TALL OR SHORT MEN:

ABS OR BUTT:

BRAINS OR BRAWN:

it seems like everywhere i look, there are underage girls involved with older guys.

and i don't mean on TV and in movies, i mean in my life.

guys Over 18, involved with girls around 15 years old.

 

it's just not right.

it's beyond not right.

it's ILLEGAL.

 

find girls your own age, you freaks.

it's disgusting.

Wednesday nights, I'm helping with our church's kids' program. Last night, after the kids were gone, a few of us girls were hanging out, having a chat.

There are three of us who are in this particular age-bracket/life situation who help at Awana. There are a number of other women, but they're moms.

Anyway, the discussion got to be about guys at some point. Specifically, the three of us are Christian women, and the concept of dating guys who aren't Christians, dating guys who are, dating in general, you get the idea.

Kelly's in an interesting place. We know that, on paper, the ideal situation is that you don't date someone who doesn't share your faith. But, as far as her own life experiences go, she's dated a number of guys who were self-proclaimed Christians, and they were jerks. She's found that, for some reason, the guys that treat her best are the ones who grow up in a home with strong values, possibly one Christian parent, and don't know where they are with God.

I can't apply this one on my own. Kelly's okay with the concept of dating just to date, and it seems to work for her. I haven't found (and maybe I don't want to) the ability to date without wanting it to progress to something greater. I regard said state as the goal of relationships, and when it's become clear that this relationship isn't going to make it there, then I end that relationship. Or it just falls apart on its own.

The three of us seem to be pretty solidly agreed that we're not interested in marrying anyone who hasn't surrendered to Christ. Not saying that it doesn't work - anyone can cite a couple they know that has made it work - but saying that it's not what we want.

But what do we want? Because Kelly's definitely not the first girl I've talked to who's become disgusted with the way Christian guys treat her, and started dating other guys, finding them to be a lot more caring and considerate. A number of us honestly want to be married (a lot of us are, "Someday's," wanting to wait 'til after college or something similar), but when we know better than to marry nonbelievers, and there's so many clods who call themselves Christians, what options do we have?

Brings me to Rachel's approach. Rachel's taking a serious leave from dating. She doesn't see the point of dating anyone who doesn't follow Christ (as she puts it, "You know it's going to end, you're just setting yourself up for getting your heart broken."), but she has yet to encounter a Christian that she feels God's guiding her towards. She also believes that when you have a character that's earnestly seeking God and serving him, he'll shape you into someone amazing, and have someone amazing in mind for you.

One of the few that I have solidly memorized:
Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
-Proverbs 31:30

Rachel is one of the few women my age that I look up to. She's strong in her character, strong in her faith, works with kids, serves God, opens her home and her arms to anyone who needs them, but she's real. She can tell you when she's tired, when it's been a rough day - she doesn't try to be perfect, she acknowledges that she's human.

Where do I stand?

Between the last breakup and all the ambiguity that started happening with a friend, I was asked out by five guys. Three of them I put serious consideration into, weighing each matter individually. On a case-by-case basis, I don't regret the way any of them turned out - after I declined, later events revealed that we really weren't right for each other. This is good, except that it WAS a case-by-case basis. There was no universal rule I could learn from this (except maybe to seriously weigh every relationship opportunity) to apply to future endeavors.

I think all I can do, if a guy has told me that he's a Christian, is ask him whether that means he's given his life over to Christ. It's not a guarantee against the kinds of abuse that go on in relationships, but if he's approaching his relationships in a manner trying to please God, and if he can see me through God's eyes...it's a start.

so, i had a HUGE fight with my bff.

normally i'm not the kind of person who has any kind of fights or shouting or temper and all..but god knows what came upon me today.it was all for a very stupid reason. <isnt that a TAD bit CLICHED?> so, we're officially not talking.

boy, does it suck to have a guy as your best friend, boys and their stupid ego's.which happen to be the size of texas. he WONT say sorry. no matter what. so, asusual i have to make the first move and talk to him

guys normally say that girls are complicated but i think the tables have turned.

guys are VERY complicated. and boy does it suck.

wish me luck that this stupid fight is over...he's having one of his "phases" (idiot. but a cute idiot)

x.o.x.o.x

Working at Champions was pretty cool...Everyone is so freaken nice!!!

School started last week, i came up to get some stuff then headed down to mexico for the weekend...

My cousin got married, so that was a good time... I was quite proud of myself, cause I wore a pink dress with some black accessories. It always amuses me how every time I go to mexico, the guys just go "ga-ga" when they see me. i'm not the bomb-diggity, but their mentality is quite funny. I.e. I danced with a guy at a XV, and within the next week, he was calling my mom to ask permission to date me!!! And all i did was dance ONE SONG with him!!! The guys think that once a girl says hi to you, she wants you. Another friend ran away with her boyfriend, and they live 7 feet away from each other... That's another thing I don't understand. These girls run away, just cause they wanna have sex!!! Our town is so little, so everyone knows each others business. Well once they run away, the guys just have all the sex with them, and if the girls suck at it, they tell them they don't want them and for the girls to go back home. Most of the time, the girls aren't really taken back by their families, so the guys have to put up with them. The guys eventually cross the border, and find some sluts over here, while they leave the girl in mexico.

So i have this cousin, she's really pretty. She got the whole porcelain skin, small waist line, and she graduated from high school (which is big in my town). While in high school, she got with her professor, who is also an attorney, and they got engaged. She was strict up the ass with him, he had to quit teaching in my town, cause she didn't want any of her classmates flirting with him. Her wedding date was scheduled for Last October! Turns out, the guy had her an apt in the city, fully furnished, just waiting to be moved in. Well this dumb broad went with her sisters & aunts and CLEANED OUT THE WHOLE APT!!! Then my aunt went to the chapel and told everyone that my cousin was not going to marry him! So now my cousin lost her job, she was his secretary, and is he SUING HER!!! This is big news, so she made it into the newspaper!!! She sold some of the stuff, and pocketed the money. And now she has another boyfriend!!! Ever since my 2 cousins were murdered, her brothers, their family has been mentally unstable. Now they are convinced that my mothers sister killed one of them, by HAND!!!

My daddy and Tata were fixing my sisters brakes, and they needed some stuff. The brake fluid was behind a gated shack, so i jumped the fence and bruised my leg!!! It doesn't hurt, but it does look ugly!!! I have 2 black bruises the size of half dollars on the outside of my knee.

I'm hoping to have many adventures this year, in school and in life... I have a year and a half left til I graduate.  I gotta start looking into Grad schools. Blah, when is it all going to end???