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What defines a sporting champion?
In my mind a sporting champion is not defined solely by their results. It is easy to distinguish the champion who wins the title or gold medal - they are in the news for all to see. Not all that win are true champions - it is what they do with that win - their response that can define it. Do they win gracefully, do they win with courage and are they consistent in their response - either to win consistently or to also lose with grace and courage.

The champion that does not win the game or the race is less easy to see. This sporting champion gives their full 100% each and every time in competition and training; leaves their heart on the field, does whatever it takes to win and then is able to accept defeat. The defeat does not come through lack of application. In sport only one can win first place, but all can still win - it is the term of 'winning' that can be redefined.

You see, it can be tempting to view a loss as a failure. That the sole criteria for success is based on coming away with a win - without seeing what is actually achieved in the performance. A champion mindset is able to see the result in perspective, and take a loss as a learning experience - learn what needs to be done next to continue on to further success. The more you fail, the more you will succeed.

A champion never loses as long as he/she continues to learn and grow and become the best that he/she can be. Start acting like a champion and the results will follow.
 
 
   
 

I don't care anymore
I just don't care anymore.

No one else does. People don't get it, I don't even get it I suppose. I have three people you could call friends, and I tried talking to all of them( I have to call them because they wouldn't be caught dead calling me), they just blame me or change the subject.

I tried reaching out and I was turned down. Can't say I didn't try.

One of them says I'm just not trying hard enough. How can he say that? I have been trying my ass off. So he says maybe I've been trying the same thing over. Well I have been trying a list of different things. I just don't have social skills, I was made fun of all my life, I was and am the loner. He just says to try harder and I say I've given up. He said that's the problem, you just give up. It goes on like that until he says he doesn't know what to do, that I just shoot down everything he says. I say, now you get it. When you try so hard and so much and get shot down every time, you get worn out and you feel like quitting. Eventually after so much failure you begin to not care anymore.
 
 
 

   
Powerless Hero by Niagargoyle
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Artist's Comments

As much as I hate to admit it, I screw up a lot. I've given up on asking for help and clarification on stuff because I usually just end up annoying people. I get the "you should know better" speech, and I really hate dealing with it. It's especially bad because I usually end up getting told to trust my own judgement, wherein I almost unfailingly screw up. I should probably stop whining before Spider-Man kicks the crap out of me, though. I can't even be angsty without getting into trouble.
 
 
 
 
Okay, just note that Niagargoyle (the artist) is not me and that those were his words. I haven't really been able to come up with a good way to demonstrate that besides just telling you here.
 
Yup. I sympathize. Empathise actually.
 
 
   
 

Where's My Tragic Event?
Gerard Way was once held at gun point when he was a kid. When he's depressed, he looks back to that event to keep him going, to keep him pushing forward. Now I'm asking, where the fuck is my fucking tragic event to keep me going? Don't I deserve one?

I'm hitting rock bottom. I just took some Esgic to make me sleep so I won't have to deal with all of this shit that I'm going through. It's all starting over. This isn't the first time that I've abused prescription medications.

I've dropped out of school, I have like two god damn friends... I don't have shit going for me. I just want someone to help me get better. I want my grandmother back from the dead. I want to stop hurting. I want to stop being so god damn angry and upset inside. I don't even own a god damn license or fucking car. I can't escape this house.

I JUST CAN'T FUCKING ESCAPE.
 
 
 

   
Euros Accepted" signs pop up in New York City
Euros Accepted" signs pop up in New York City
Wed Feb 6, 2008 4:09pm EST
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NEW YORK (Reuters) - In the latest example that the U.S. dollar just ain't what it used to be, some shops in New York City have begun accepting euros and other foreign currency as payment for merchandise.

"We had decided that money is money and we'll take it and just do the exchange whenever we can with our bank," Robert Chu, owner of East Village Wines, told Reuters television.

The increasingly weak U.S. dollar, once considered the king among currencies, has brought waves of European tourists to New York with money to burn and looking to take advantage of hugely favorable exchange rates.

"We didn't realize we would take so much in and there were that many people traveling or having euros to bring in. But some days, you'd be surprised at how many euros you get," Chu said.

"Now we have to get familiar with other currencies and the (British) pound and the Canadian dollars we take," he said.

While shops in many U.S. towns on the Canadian border have long accepted Canadian currency and some stores on the Texas-Mexico border take pesos, the acceptance of foreign money in Manhattan was unheard of until recently.

Not far from Chu's downtown wine emporium, Billy Leroy of Billy's Antiques & Props said the vast numbers of Europeans shopping in the neighborhood got him thinking, "My God, I should take euros in at the store."

Leroy doesn't even bother to exchange them.

"I'm happy if I take in 200 euros, because what I do is keep them," he said. "So when I go back to Paris, I don't have to go through the nightmare of going to an exchange place."

(Reporting by Angela Moore, writing by Bill Berkrot; Editing by Doina Chiacu)

 
 
   
 

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