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After that last post, him and i tried to be friends. Although it hurt me like crazy knowing that he is with someone else I tried to hold it in and keep the friendship.
His gf found out about me and gave him the ultimatum of losing her or me. He chose to lose me.
We stopped talking on the 8th of May and havent spoken since.
He did poke me a few times on facebook but i just removed them.
Yesterday he msg me on msn "hey sally* =[". I just ignored it.
I have became stronger than before, i must admit.
I remember that night when he called me to tell me what his gf said to him when he came over to her house. He cried when i said that i respect what she said and that i am more than happy to let go of our friendship in order for him to keep his relationship.
He can't keep having the best of both worlds and I really wish that he becomes a better person for his gf.
I hope that he will find his morals, goals, religion again. I've prayed every night for him to be a better person...even if that means that he's out of my life forever. I can't bear it knowing what he's become and what he is capable of. I wish that he could just remember how he had felt, how his mother had felt and what they went through when his father cheated on them. Please be a better person, Dai.
I remember that night I'd asked him why he was crying...he said that he doesnt know and that the person who should be crying is me. If he doesnt know why he's crying than he is not worth my tears. Having said that I did cry that night. Max* called me and comfort me for hours. I dont think i would've done it without Max*
But now the problem is that Max* is starting to like me. I'm not ready for a relationship and I dont want to.
Dai is now just a fragment of my memory. Soon he will fade with everything else...
There are no more pain...only memories...
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Can I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back?
If you’re wondering, “Can I get my ex girlfriend back?” then the breakup probably wasn’t so devastating that you think the relationship can’t be saved. You’ll have to hope she feels the same way. If any hurt was caused during the split that you should apologize for, now’s the time to say you’re sorry. Being sorry and sincerely showing it is a good first step.
Can I get my ex girlfriend back by showing my sensitive side? Well, there’s no guarantee you’ll get back together, but the odds tilt more and more in your favor when you do things right. Show her how much you miss her, and how sorry you are. Just pay attention to what she does. If your gestures of sorrow only make her angry—she throws away the roses or something dramatic like that, for example—change your tactics until you find that something she responds to.
If flowers or cards frustrate her, for example, maybe that’s because it’s easy to pick up the phone and order flowers or buy a card someone else wrote. Try putting yourself in her shoes and try to figure out something more appealing. Buy a blank card and write your own verse in it. It doesn’t have to rhyme, in fact it’s better if it doesn’t. Try to honestly express how you feel. Or pick flowers and present her with a bouquet you put together yourself.
A common complaint among women is that men aren’t thoughtful. Were you thoughtful during the relationship? Now you might be wondering, can I get my ex girlfriend back by being thoughtful? Not necessarily, but it’s one more step toward your goal of getting her back. Every positive thing stacks up, making it easier and easier for her to come back to you. Don’t expect things to happen right away, though.
If you spent your relationship rarely doing thoughtful things, or you only did them in the beginning, she’ll probably doubt the things you do now. Just be patient, and keep up your efforts. Don’t appear frustrated or angry. Do the thoughtful things because it feels good to make her happy, not because you’re working toward a goal.
Can I get my ex girlfriend back by dating other women?
If it’s been a long time since the breakup, and you’re still working on being thoughtful, a casual date seems harmless and may make her wish she was your date, but go too far and it could backfire.
Can I get my ex girlfriend back if she has a boyfriend?
The odds are against it, but if you can show her that she’ll be happier with you than the new boyfriend you’ll have a good chance. Being thoughtful will go a long way toward showing her that. Even if it seems hopeless, don’t give up.
If it appears she’s moved on, still send her a card you wrote just wishing her a great week. But don’t look as if you have any expectations. Your thoughtfulness might really impress her.
One other thing my friend, the points made above, are only just one step in the equation of getting your true love back. The important thing is to have a step by step plan that will lead you in your heartfelt pursuit.
Frankly, that's what I did when my true love dumped me. I followed a plan authored by T 'Dub' Jackson. When my cause was almost hopeless and I was dieing inside, it hauled me up by my bootstraps and helped me get my life's love back.
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Well, it does if you're a 7 year old boy :)
My son on Wed. said when he got home that he didn't feel well, was tired and wasn't really hungry. He slept from 3:30 til 8pm, ate a little and played for about 20 minutes and went back to bed. No fever, nothing. Throat looked great, not even a cough. He sneezed - but it was a sneeze, nothing more.
Thursday he wakes up happy and energetic - I checked for fever and looked at his tonsils and all was well. Heck, he even played the Wii for a bit before school. Came home still happy and healthy, but has a reddish hue to his chin...like he had fallen asleep on the bus again with his head rested on the seat in front of him, his backpack or his hands. Still, everything was just fine.
Friday he was a bit pinkish, like a heat rash. Tonsils, fever, all signs absent. I told him I'd call the school about the rash thing, it looked like allergic hives but they weren't itching, and they were few...more like a bugbite or two. He ate breakfast and was hyper and silly, all was well.
About 40 minutes go by, the nurse calls to tell me he has to be picked up because he's running a very low fever, 100.3 - but she said too, there was nothing else with the fever..just warm. She said his tonsils looked great, and he felt just fine, but school policy is for anything over 99.0 goes home. We got him and he was fine. The post before this about the 2 1/2 hour walk all over the area? That's the day. We got back and he had a light pink sunburn 'tan line' where his shirt was. No fever, he was normal til he left to his dad's for the weekend.
I got a call last night, a rather angry one wanting to know *why* I didn't tell his dad sooner about his strep infection. Said his fever was 101.4, and his tonsils looked horrendous - spots, swollen almost shut, and the works. He said he saw this within 2 hours of having him home. I'd checked him just 3 hours before! There were
*no *signs! In any case, my son looks like a human tomato - he has scarlet fever due to an almost week old strain of strep.
Now, this means the very day that he said "I had a big lunch so I'm not hungry, we played outside and had PE there too, so I'm tired". I asked about his red chin a few days past, he said he'd kept falling in the grass while learning football. (He's allergic to grass, gets the same exact looking rash.) And those things are supposed to make me freak out and demand a trip to the ER, or the doctor which would require $75 *and* that my ex take a day off for it, and my son miss school. Always told I over-react, I opted to wait for symptoms showing something..anything. Apparently, I wasn't too smart. A trip to the doctor revealed a severe infection that had been there for about a week? Now I feel like a neglectful mom, I should have known. I'm empathic, how did I miss this?
So the end tale is that my son is still at his dad's, happy that the antibiotics taste more like bubblegum and less like metallic sardines. His dad only buys the big giant plastic tub of ice cream usually, but when my boy is sick, he gets to choose his own. For my son, this means his favorite, frozen yogurt. This is his 7th time having scarlet fever alongside strep in the last 2 years. It's the 4th time in one year. He has picked his favorite cold treat every time. Does he care he's sick? Nope. Is he complaining? Not at all. But you know what?
I asked him what he thought of all this and his reply just made me laugh. He looks like a human strawberry and can't hardly swallow, but his sum of everything was:
"I don't mind it really - the medicine's way less nasty than last time, and besides-Scarlet fever frozen yogurt kicks butt !"
Next time I get sick, I think I'll start at traditional something for myself , just a little silver lining that when summed up with feeling lousy , still comes out on top. Well, here's to hoping that tomatos and cherries remain your foods and not your complexions!
Lilli
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