It is amazing to me how out of balance things have become. Just the other day, my baby (pshbum.mindsay.com) and I were driving along, tunes blasting, convertible down ...;) The dj's came on and started bantering about the way we females dress ... like they specifically referred to one, apparently well endowed young woman wearing a tube top and declared that she was asking for gawks and propositions by her dress. This naturally, prompted a chat in our car ... You see, the theme of my life at this point is built upon ... I am only responsible for me; my life, my behavior, my attitudes, but I AM responsible for me. My dress may be provocative (well, not really, but ... for the sake of argument ...), but that is not an invitation to my bed. I may want the attention, but it need not be lewd attention. Are not men also responsible for the exercising of some control???