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Update and Misc....
Fuzzy was moved into a room late yesterday.They are monitoring his heart and his kidneys,slowly taking him off oxygen.He is still having diaherria  though. they cant get that under control.Peggy was very tired this morning when I talked with her. She looked it yesterday,but today you hear it in her voice. She has today covered.Hopefully she can get some sleep while her mom takes dialysis, as her aunt will pick her mom up afterwards.Peggy plans to go home and try to sleep a bit. She needs to. I'm concerned about her. She is gonna collaspe if she doesn't rest soon...She will probably get me to help her tomorrow...
James and I went yard sale-ing  this morning. it gives us something to do and we never spend much. Maybe a few dollars. Its our Saturday morning routine! We found Morgan a drum set for xbox today! called and woke him up to ask if he wanted them...just $7.00!!! They put everything at half price after 11 am! They are gonna have a great yard sale by doing this and they were cheap anyway! Orginally the drums were $15.00!  Came with the rock revolution game. I just hope they work! She said they did and they seem to be in great shape! Wont know til Morgan uses them!
Last weekend we went to Hillsville to the huge flea market there. I didnt think it was as crowded as in years past. Because of the recession many didn't travel for it. Even the vendors were down.We still enjoyed it, just getting away for a day was good! Got to see Morgan too, as he popped home for the weekend cause he bought a drum set and had to pick up his glasses that came in.It was hot though last weekend! I was ready to quit at 2, but James insisted we rest a bit then plow on some more! I was wore out! we got there at 9 that morning, and we finally quit about 4:30...still about 3-4 hours left that next day to cover it all. We got to our room about 5 and collasped. I got a shower and saw that I was sunburned! ouch! I put sunscreen on! anyway, we walked over to Sagebrush to eat. we were too beat to drive anywhere. waited an hour to sit, then waited 30 mintues for our food.... Finished at 8 then went back to room and fell into bed! we were asleep by 10! whew! Up at 7 next day and started again! we finished about 10:30...I will never do that again! I cant take the heat anymore. I feel like i'm gonna pass out in it. today while yard sale-ing I felt like it again. I get really weak all of a sudden and feel shaky, and cant get a good breath... I dont know what it is...but it bothers me. Since I turned 46 this year, I feel like my body is deserting me... Perimenopause... Hot flashes, cold,chills, now this with the heat. I get too hot now...Maybe I should get checked out by the doctor. Mood swings too! I can bite someones head off if they cross me at the wrong time of the month now!!!I cant help it either. Family will just have to deal with it!! looks like I've got a ways to go before I'm out. Most of my friends tell me it ends about the time you turn 50ish!! So I'm looking at 4 more years of this!??? Ouch!!!
We went to the West game last night..It was really wierd with Ariana not cheering... Still saw a lot of parents there whose kids graduated with Ariana. Even saw some there home for the weekend from college. Just as 4th quarter started,it starts raining...I look at James and start laughing...we wait a bit, and it starts getting harder, so pack up and leave. passed several others and we said"No need to get wet this year! Not sitting in any rain!" everyone laughed. last year see, it practically rained every football game! and we had to stay then! With Ariana cheering and James head of concessions, there was no leaving. Sat under an umbrella most of the season and learned to deal with getting wet! So, last night was fun to get up and leave with everyone else!! We sat in car and listened to the rest of the game...West won, 28-21...Its a wonder though as many passes as they threw and missed,dropped or whatever...They lost over half the team as most were Sr.'s. last years team was great..
Of course all the parents still there saw James and tried to get him back,or tell him they miss him doing concessions! Some even told him that it went downhill a bit! Oh well! It's time for other parents to step up to the plate and do it!! The new couple that took over the concessions said they didnt really know just how much work it took to keep it up! Ha! We told em!!its like having a second job with no pay! and then no other parents want to help.."Oh I have to see my child play!" what's one night??? oh well, not our concern anymore! we will go to most of the home games I guess. I especially want to see Homecoming... the athletic director gave James a pass for this year, for all the years he put in as head of concessions. Old saying goes, no one appreciates you until you aren't there!
Wow! 2 days at once on here1 I'm on a roll!!
 
 
   
 

Eating Crow but Willing To Do It!
What would you as a parent do if one of your children were constantly harassed for every little thing they did via the same gender kids as they were at their school and in an after school sport?

You would probably do what I did.  I called and talked to the coach about it.  A coach who is a teenager who sees nothing wrong with harassing of one of his players by the other players.  A kid whose parents taught him right from wrong and who is NOT that bad of a coach even if his assistant coach is lax in his coaching of the kids.  The coach agreed with me that it is wrong and the older kids on the team are a big problem and he will take care of it.

And that is exactly what I did.  I called and talked to the coach about it.  I even made sure to disappear for tonight's practice of my son's.  I hung out at my daughter's practice.  The coach addressed the issue during my son's practice and even the last bit of the practice I watched went relatively well.  

I have no problem getting after my boy for not paying attention and I have no problem getting after the other boys.  Especially the ones that are harassing not only my son but other players.  I didn't get after anyone tonight but my boy for screwing with one of the light poles.  

Again things were going good, then the end of practice hit.  And the same two kids started in on Coltin.  Now Colt is gangly and very uncorridanated at the moment and I am letting a lot of things go that other parents wouldn't and other parents like myself would say he has to learn to deal with.  Which he does.  Always through life there are people that will harasse you just because you are you.  I teach my kids that.

I watched and watched as my son literally curled (no I am not kidding you-on the ground sitting and curling into himself and telling the boys to leave him alone!) into himself as the boys were harassing him.  Part of it was his own fault for not listening to the coach but not the harassing part.  Now the main coach was finishing the drill and the second coach was standing there with a thumb up  his ass and NOT paying attention to the boys.  

I did a parent no no.  I blew.  Instead of waiting till the end of practice and letting the coach know what I think of those particular boys.  I made a scene (I am good at those).  The coach started yelling so therefore I started raising my voice even more.  I point blank told him to get the kids undercontrol or I would start calling parents and making his life a living hell.  The coach informed me that harassing is apart of sports and Coltin needs to learn to deal with it.  And I said you know I have played sports and we were NEVER allowed to harass our own teammates to the point they were wanting to quit!  When he said that I blew even further and named two of the kids names and told him to get the bratty kids undercontrol.  

I shouldn't have done that.  Thus the parent no no.  Not what I said but when I said it and making a general judgement on all the boys.

Well one of the kids I named, their mom was there.  She is an ex class mate of my sisters and thinks her shit doesn't stink and she married into a family that thinks the same way.  She informed me Colt was the issue here and he is jsut as bratty.  She didn't know what to do when I said yes he is and you haven't been at practices, I have and I get right after him.  Since the coaches WON'T get after ANY of the boys.  

Well the coach had the boys come over and apologize to Coltin while we were walking to leave and I went walking over to the mom since she was walking over all pissy to the field.  I attempted to stop and talk to her about her bratty little son and how he is just fine when he isn't around the other bratty kid.  She had the never to tell me that I should let Coltin handle this type of harassment himself and defend himself with hitting.  I pointed out to her also as she was storming away that we were NEVER allowed to behave the way these kids are on the field.  She ignored me.

I talked to Coltin about what happened, my parents, my hubby, and a friend.  They all agreed that I was in the wrong for not waiting for practice to end because it would have upset the kids who weren't being bratty.  But I was right for saying what I did about the two bratty kids and the harassement of my son.  

I called and ate crow to the coach on how I handled the situation.  He isn't happy with how I called him out on how lazy his assistant coach is, that I will NOT allow the harassing of my son.  Unlike other parents, I take after MY parents and will ALWAYS defend my child while pointing out what they could have done different themselves.  This little sixteen year old also didn't know what to think when I said I will eat crow and humble myself to a team of little boys on how I handled the situation.  I will NOT apologize for calling out the two brats, but I will apologize for not talking to the coach after practice, for making a general judgement on all the boys being brats, and admit that adults and parents can all be wrong at times.  I also informed him what the other mother said I should have my son do to defend himself.  And I said I don't play that game.  My kids are taught to NEVER hit first.  And if someone does hit t hem, put em down and do it hard.  Coltin lets a lot of things go thus why he literally curled into himself.  We have told him time and time again that people in general are good people but in crowds they are nasty and to be himself and watch his back.  He isn't the type to go off and hit someone nor is he the type to take on a crowd of boys his age.  He isn't stupid.  The coach wasn't sure what to make of me telling him what the other mother said.  Plus the coach was suprised that I informed him Coltin got his ass chewed for being a poor sport and to start speaking up with out moaning and bitching.  He will learn the sport in time.  

Thus I am eating crow at the next practice and I am willing to do it.  I am not a perfect parent and I reacted the way my own parents use to embarass my sister, brother, & I over injustices done to us in this small podonck town and surrounding towns.  But I am willing to admit my mistakes even if it is to kids.  

What I am NOT willing to do is have my kids beat down, harassed, and treated like shit because they are doing what everyone in this world should do and that is to be themselves.  I will never allow my kids to be victims to anyone especially at the ages they are. No matter if the people trying to victimize them are kids themselves. That is my job to become the person non grata as the parent.  I have no problem pissing off people for speaking the truth.  But I also know there is always a price to pay for speakign the truth and letting my emotions getaway from me.  I eat crow.

My only goal out of this situation even if the parents ask that Coltin be removed from the team is to show these small town people that not everyone thinks their kids are the greatest.  I think my kids are amazing but they aren't perfect because humans are not perfect.  And we as parents are not perfect.  
 
 
 

   
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Blog #99 

Addiction Starting... 

 

 

I refused going to my nana's today.

I'd gotten an e-mail back from Mary about my coursework. I needed to print out copies for her.

I planned to do that on the Monday morning before college.

 

I've spent the whole of today drinking Coca-Cola from the bottle and playing Resident Evil 4.

I ate boiled eggs and pasta for my lunch - taking bites during the loading screens and the FMV.

 

I did something stupid - WASTED THE FREE ROCKET LAUNCHER.

I was aiming it at this beasty thing in the underground and I MISSED.

 

HURRRRLOL...

 

 

I've gotten pretty far - I've rescued Ashley and cleared the village.

I fought the beasty parasite gadge and stole his fake eye.

I LOVE that FMV, I like seeing all the eye juice dripping down Leon's hand. :)

 

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I should have put this in Friday's blog - but I couldn't be arsed.

I was hyper and bored at the same time, so I made myself a PC background.

 

(Bear in mind, it's had to be shrunk to a stupid size to fit on my blog.)

 

 

Unless you have mint eyes - and I do - you won't be able to read that writing. :)

 

"Ashley doubled over in agony, clutching his face, screaming as his eyes were harshly scorched by the brutal sting of the mustard that covered him."

 

"Ashley grimaced, wiping his face indignantly, he shook himself, thick globs of yellow slime falling from his shoulders and dribbling down his chest. Never again would he play roughly with bags of exploding custard."

 

The "Ashley" in question is not the Resident Evil 4 Ashley, or my little buddy Ashleigh - but rather my fictional guitarist from TDW, Ashley Darwin.

 

 

I have this as my background currently.

 
 
   
 

food

There has been a lot of talk in recent months at my church about food. There is even a new section in our weekly handout on nutrition. It typically is posotive and encouraging healthy eating habbits.

The reason for this is obvious to our congregation, Pastor is fighting against the cancer that has invaded his body. It is understandable.

 

I have had a phrase over and over in my heart and head... "The Common Faith".

I will start with this, O.T. said that if one could put a thousand to flight, then two could chase ten thousand; by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word shall be established; you shall not follow the people (just because everyone is doing it). N.T. says that if two agree concerning anything in heaven, it would be done on earth; disciples were sent out by twos, perhaps for the purpose of agreement, as well as safety. Memory fails at the moment to recall other examples, sorry.

 

The point is that in OT as well as NT, the rules still apply. The strength of faith is multiplied exponentially with the number of souls added. So, why do I hear preachers speak of a weak church? Why do I hear preachers and people so fearful of the stuff of this world? Why do we who call ourselves Christian submit to the fear of the laws and rules of this life? Yes, we are to submit to mans authority, because God Himself set up the order of government, but why do we fear? Sure, we should mind the food we eat... I will not purposely drink poison or handle snakes. But I believe that if the situation arose, I could do it and not be harmed, just as Daniel and the lions, or the four men in the furnace.

 

There is an entire culture based on eating healthy foods, reading labels before drinking a beverage, commercials on TV cautioning to eat certain things if you want specific results... And it invades the church.

 

Did not Jesus Himself say not to worry about what to eat or drink? He said that we could not make ourselves taller or keep our hair from going gray- you won't be stronger, you won't live longer.

 

Apostle Paul said several times that we should not be offended at what some eat and what others don't eat. He also cautioned that in the last days perilous times would come when people would order you not to eat certain foods. (He was not speaking of chemically formulated foods and beverages, like nutrition bars or energy drinks, or sodas.) It was created by God and is fit to be recieved, he said.

 

My point is not so much the food issue. Eat what you want to. Don't eat what you don't want to. But leaning on science and saying that eating this will make you better, and eating that will make you sick, detracts from the pure faith. That goes in many different directions as well.

The saying is "once an addict, always an addict". "Jailhouse Christian, he'll go right back to his old ways as soon as he gets out". They believe that people are beyond help, and that even God can't help with certain types of people.

But that is a lie that even the church at large has believed. And so, instead of the common faith being one of pure faith that trusts God for everything, we trust in our own ability to keep ourselves healthy, safe, secure. Perhaps it is because we don't believe our treasure is in heaven? Or perhaps we think "Thy kingdom come" means that I have to defend Gods kingdom and temple, but we do it in our strength.

We submit to policy rather than grace and faith that believes. We submit to dietary rules, rather than believe what Jesus said. We submit to fear and keep people out, because it could lead to bad publicity, and it could cause our insurance to drop us. It could cause the congregation to split... Let it split, if the reason is fear of torment and faithlessness toward Christ to do what He said He would do.

 

I get e-mails telling me not to eat certain foods, drink certain drinks... Forget the food and drink killing me. I work in construction. I drive on I85. I live on the West side. I don't own a gun for personal protection, because I don't want to kill someone, which is what I would do if someone broke into my home or hurt any of my family, indeed, I would empty the clip and reload.( And, I have wanted a weapon for a long time, but know myself too well... so I have little choice but to trust God to protect us.)

 

Stop spreading fear. Don't feed the doubt. When you want to send nutritional information, or some forward about criminal activity, don't send it to me. You can keep your fear-mongering to yourself. Maybe you should pray and ask the Lord if you should send that next fwd... specially if you say you are Christian.

And that goes for "green" as well. Sure, do your best to preserve the earth God formed, but we are not the savior of the planet. God will send fire down from Heaven and purify this place... Revelation says plagues will come, some of them are environmental disasters. But in the end, for those who believe, all is well. Even the martyrs have a special place at the Lords alter.

 

Stop spreading fear. Start spreading faith.

 
 
 

   
and so it goes
I am starving and I havent eaten one thing yet. Why? I am lazy and tired. I have to go to Baltimore on Saturday, pack boxes today and tomorrow. I have church on Sunday and I am supposed to move next weekend. The weekend after that, we are going to be in New York for 2 or 3 days and I don't know what after or in between. I am not complaining. I am just explaining why ... and I am like ... buggin on the inside but paralyzed on the outside. I am trying to catch up on the work I am supposed to be doing online. I am trying... trying trying trying... I always get into these super busy fits and then it all boils down to ... peace. I can't wait for the peaceful part LOL
 
 
   
 

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