Dan @ MindSay

Hey Guys! So. Band was last night. Football team sucks. We lost 30 to 12.

Um, but Mohawk only has 15-20 poeple in their band, so we blew them out of the water, even though our show was only rehearsed 3 times this last week.

We were really pushing it, but we pulled it off.

It could have been way worse.

SO.

Nichole- You are so strong: D.

Your niece should be very glad to have you as and aunt to watch out for her.

Best wishes.

 

Dan was over last night.

My dad said he could barely sleep because of the snore fest that was going on in the living room.

Dan snores, and so do I.

Umm, what else.

Got up this morning. Dan made coffee. : D

Then I was at fairgrounds at 8 for workday.

Um. Have to be back there by 4 for 4-H to decorate barn, so I am just doing laundry and such. Just trying to get ready for the week : D

 

So. I think I might nap after I fold a few baskets of clothes.

Ciao,

Mariah.

Hey Kids!

Our Laptop is back... FINALLY!

I think I finally have a plan too for like, my life.

I am going to go to college for biology or chemistry, and also education.

Wahaha!

I think I will be a high school bio/chem teacher.

I want to go to Montana for college too...

My Uncle John Lives out there.

So, when they kick you out of the dorms, I will have somewhere to go.

I just want to go away...I mean, I love being with my family and will miss everyone here, but I really want to have that one big going away when you can do whatever you want.

And if I am a teacher, I won't have to live in the city.

That is what I do not want to do.

I want to live near a small town, in a HUGE brick house. With lots of trees, and a pond and horses, like my house now.

 : D
And the way I look at it, my parents have no money put away whatso ever, so I can pretty much do whatever, I mean, within reason, that I want because  I will be in debt anyway.

 

And, this may sound stupid, but I actually like Dan enough to consider him in the future...

But who knows!

 

SO.

Things with Dan and I have been going well.

Yay.

My Birthday is on the 24th.

YAY!
I'll be 17.

Wacha.

I need to fill out all the applications for college.

Ciao,

Mariah

: D

 

 

6/14/08 - EARLY MORNING MAIL FROM JACOBY

From: d j Reply-To: vaaspman@yahoo.com
To: exposer@37.com
Cc: wayneorrell@wayneorrell.com
Subject: Re: reply
Date: Sat 06/14/08 05:28 AM

Good morning. Yes, you are stalking me. Anything I post on the Internet ends up on your website, and it is not your property. Please remove it immediately. If you are concerned about the vulnerable public, you will accept my offer to have this matter brought to litigation. You have my name and number. Please send me your contact information so that we can get the process started. If this is not amenable to you, I suggest you stop taking the law into your own hands. I deal with 45,000 people a day online, and none of this is new to me. Thanks. I look forward to hearing from you.
Dan Jacoby
804-389-0636

6/12/08 - MAIL FROM JACOBY!

From: d j <vaaspman@yahoo.com> To: exposer@37.com Cc: wayneorrell@wayneorrell.com, legal@clearblogs.com, rafael@summit-advisors.com Subject: Dan Jacoby Date: Sun 06/08/08 09:28 AM Attachments Name Type Save View Part 1 text/plain Save Part 2 text/html Save

Good afternoon. Please remove any and all reference to me from your web pages. I also ask that you quit stalking me and posting everything you find about me on your site. I do not know you, and you do not know me, which makes the things you write about me extremely reckless and damaging. The police have already notified Ms. Usher to discontinue this nonsense, and before further action against both you and Ms.Usher is required I would appreciate your cooperation. If you would rather I pursue this matter in another way, please forward me your contact information so that I may begin the process. Thank you for your prompt attention to this matter. Dan Jacoby 804.389.0636 Midlothian, Virginia Material in question is available for your review at: http://clearblogs.com/theexposer/67558/DAN%20JACOBY%20-%20PREYING%20ON%20THE%20VULNERABLE%20IN%20RECOVERY!.html ~~~~~~~~~~~

TO: vaaspman@yahoo.com
RE: reply

No one is stalking you. We post information on predators like yourself to protect the vulnerable public.

We received this legally verified information from EOPC - including back up from four (4) completely independent sources.

You have our contact information.

Unless you are able to show hard evidence, not just your "words", that none of this is true - our legal advisors has assured us we have no reason to remove it. The truth is not actionable under the law.

exposer@37.com
~~~~~~~~~~

From: vaaspman@yahoo.com To: exposer@37.com Subject: Yahoo! Auto Response Date: Fri 06/13/08 06:39 AM

Attachments Name Type Save View Message text/plain Save

This account is no longer active. Please use the contact form on my main website or my telephone number to get in touch. Have a great day!  ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 

RIIIIGGGHHTTTT -- we are going to HIS website so he can track our proxy servers or call him so he can get someone's cell phone number and harrass. Nice try.

He's even taken down that Yahoo address. Wonder if he's trying to scrub some web-caches as we speak? He did forward it to his "legal team" and Clearblogs.com

Sounds a LOT like this predator (they are all so alike, huh?)

This site is perfectly legal and operating within the same parameters as our sister site http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com. We have their legally verified information and this site, like EOPC - is to protect the public from people like this.

More about Mr. FREEDOM OF SPEECH -- except about him.

BTW we also have all the hits of your friend, a manager at one of the forums where you troll for your latest victims... you know -- the one from Nebraska -- PM'ing you and emailing you every single thing EOPC has sent to the other managers on that forum. She might think she's giving you a head's up, but she's WRONG. We have NO AGENDA other than protecting other vulnerable women from you & educating the public. However, you DO have an agenda -- and we know what it is.

4/1/ 2008: BTW - Mr. IP #96.228.55.69 -- spending over 23 hours on this site isn't a great way to spend your time but, all online predators & sociopathic types spend more time on their "image" than anything else!! We've had other women come forward because of this story -- and we are getting them in touch with the appropriate authorities!

And using any verbiage, images, copies of anything from this site is a violation of our copyright and legally enforceable.

***Before you write to the owners of Clearblogs.com we suggest you read over the BLOGGERS RIGHTS at www.eff.org - The Exposer***

ONE OF HIS VICTIMS TELLS HER STORY:

This dung-beetle hangs around support forums looking for vulnerable women coming off prescription drugs.

He scans blogs looking for an "in" then pounces with his "look how cool but 'sensitive' I am" routine and proceeds to suck trusting women into his filthy pit of lies and deceit. He lives with his wife, even though he tells people he is "waiting for his divorce to be finalised".

He pleads poverty and takes what he can from good hearted women when all the time he's driving around in his fancy Dodge Viper.

He's a dirty, narcissistic bottom-dweller, who, when his victims wake up to the the snake that he is, turns on and denigrates them in a most disgusting manner. He lives on the energy of women and drama under the pretence of love and devotion. He fits the profile of the narcissistic cyberpath perfectly.

Sometimes I wonder if he even took a prescription med. His taper seems to have lasted for years. I think he stumbled across these kind of sites after doing this "stuff" on different forums. I see him on other boards now acting like an angel and taking everyone in, and it makes my stomach turn. I know for a fact he's smearing me like he did about other women to me.

He is "supposedly" in the throes of withdrawal from medication himself. I don't know to this day how far this is true. I do know there've been plenty of "feigned" hospital visits. I wouldn't put anything past him.

I was warned by other women back in the day that he was a sexual predator, but refused to listen. I was "in love" and he always used to tell me that the other women were just jealous and were "crazy, nut-job, slutty tramps".

Of course I believed him, because I was in the height of w/d and he was always "my poor baby who nobody understood but me".

He was booted from the forum where I met him and transferred his attention to other "like" forums looking for "prey".

There's one woman in particular who hangs on his every word and I swear she'd take a "bullet" for him. If only she knew his "real" opinion of her. If you're reading this, contact me and I'll show you. I'm sure you are very well aware of who I am.

This filth scans the members list and singles out women that catch his predatory eye then watches until you're posting that you're really having a hard time and voila! He will play on the memory of a loved one who has passed away to get you to think of him the way you thought of them. He'll then try to replace them in your heart and mind and "be there" for you. He'll open you up and lead you along but the truth is you're not the only one but the pills blind you and he doesn't break contact for long enough to give you a chance to think or to come up for air.

That is until you outwear your usefullness, like I did. That's when he gets nasty and turns it all back onto you. I have proof of everything I've written here and much, much more, so if he wants to challenge me, then he should BRING IT ON!!!! He's warned me that he'll sully my good character should I expose him for what he is, but let him try. He can't hurt ME.
He's probably reading this now. Dan, You can't dispute the TRUTH! I hope this brings you as much stress and heartache as you've brought me. You deserve every last bit of it, and THEN some!!!! .

His usernames are:
"Dan"
"VaAspman"
"ViperDan"
Danazepam
JacobyD

He's also used bogus usernames such as "carolfilms" and "trailmix" (they're the ones that I know of) and even wrote to me as a the carolfilms character using sexual innuendo. That's how he gets his kicks, you see.

I also heard a while back that he persuaded a very vulnerable female who was an ex heroin addict to perform lurid sex acts on the webcam. He denied it and blamed someone else. I still don't know the whole truth but I wonder and I'm ashamed to say I believed him. Yeah, I have proof of this too, and (in his own words) the name of the man he blamed and other things he accused him of.

He's a filthy, stinking beast and I have to expose him for what he is. My conscience will not let me do otherwise. I can't let him do this to any other women and I feel like I should exonerate those I didn't believe when they tried to warn me. I also "googled" him with his username "VaAspMan" last year and found him registered on "sexforums". He freaked that I had the "audacity" to do that. (An innocent person wouldn't CARE!!)

He asked me over and over to perform lurid sex acts on a webcam and when I refused he'd freak and say that if I loved him I would do it to "make him happy". I put all this down to his "illness" but realise now that he really is the lying predator I was told that he was.

He just thinks he's "superior" to everyone else, and others(especially women) are beneath him. Some of the things he's said about females he acts friendly with now have been despicable. Heck, even some guys, too. He acts all pally with them, but he calls them awful names. They'd get the shock of their lives if they knew what he really thinks of them. I have proof of all that, too. Women should beware and stay away from this low-life. He's an emotional leech that'll suck you dry and think nothing of it.

In reflection, I wonder what I ever saw in him. I usually like a guy with "hair". He never would remove that cap. lol

I want to just add that I have a private blog which I started last
year when I first found his full details on the sexforums link when I googled him. I'm a good person and have prayed long and hard before I decided to do this. It's not a "knee-jerk" reaction and I am NOT a "woman scorned" as he told me he will portray me as if I ever came forward with all this. I have no doubt he'll try to damage me in an attempt to make himself "look" good and to "save face" amongst his "fans". For me, this is the difference between right and wrong, and doing the "right thing" has always, ALWAYS been extrememly important to me. I honestly believe that evil only prospers for so long and good
will always win out. This man "raped" my soul and deserves to be shown for exactly what he is. A sick, twisted monster. I just thank God I've been blessed with a conscience.

If this piece of filth was even "half" a man he'd get down on his
knees and ask God and me for forgiveness. In the very least he'd give me back my money. I won't hold my breath, though. He has the morals of a flea on a rat.

He can do his damndest to make me look bad. I really couldn't care less. If I can save even ONE WOMAN from going through
the HELL that I'M GOING THOUGH, it'll be worth all his filthy
mud-slinging.
~~~~~~~~~

Complete with a photo of this (HAHAHA) "ladykiller"

OOPS - There he is

Wonder if we can get his WIFE to vote for him here?

And check out Mr. "I am So Poor I Use Drug-Recovery Forums to find Vulnerable Women, Play with their heads & ask them for MONEY" who posted this video of himself.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b4_FyzrKZsQ

Just One of the Guitars on the wall behind him? Is worth $6K (u.s. funds).
(he set that video to private once we posted that URL; and now accuses us of STALKING him. )

Isn't he just "Mr. Wonderful"? (more like the charming Mr. SOCIOPATH) Don't try to hold him accountable or he will harrass you and turn it around and call YOU the harrasser!

Thats it! I'm going to the police! Dan is STILL smoking in his room! He leaves his window open, which doesn't take the smoke out, it just pushes it right back in. Then, he forgets to shut it, ever, so our electric bill is through the roof!(Our heat is electric) Don't worry, thats not the only reason its so high, he also leaves all the lights on. He (Dan) took Steve into his room to talk the other day. He said that he saw the note and "thought about not smoking for about a second, but couldn't do it". He says he's going to smoke down the hall at a friends, but I swear I still smell it. Dan says that he was depressed all Summer(we are assuming he meant Spring Break, because he wasn't here over the summer) because the apartment is such a mess. All Steve and I leave out are papers, that really aren't that heavy, he could move them, but, that the kitchen smells, and he always does his dishes in a timely manner. Since when is over a month timely manner?! And maybe the kitchen wouldn't smell if he didn't spill every single thing on the stove top, the counters or the floor, and if he wouldn't let all his food spoil. He buys stuff, doesn't eat it, and just lets it spoil and mold, then we have to throw it away, and I'd bet anything that he thinks we are eating it. Also, I really wanted to keep the floors clean, but I gave up, he tracks in so much crap from his shoes that he never takes off, I can't walk in here without at least socks, I didn't take my shoes off yesterday, which I never do, because I was so grossed out about the floor. But, our papers are what make the apartment messy.  I should have known. Something woke me up at 1, I assume him, because he is the only thing I heard, and I kept smelling weed. Coincidence? Was I mistaken in smelling it? I'll admit I might not have smelled anything, it might have been my imagination, but I have to have a really good imagination for it to have bothered me as much as it did last night.

I think I would DEFINITELY work at a school that would be willing to co-teach with Dan.  I mean, the plan for the last 3 years has been to teach with Mike (and that would be amaaaaazing), but Dan said it today as we were separating, and it absolutely would be a pretty glorious combination.  We play off each other REALLY well.

Maybe we could be the first set of people to triple-teach a classroom?  3 special ed majors??? What what?

A girl can only dream : )

Speaking of getting a job...I should work a little harder on that, and focus less on cleaning up my semi-neat room.  Just a thought.  If only I weren't exHAUSTED right now and looking at my bed with severe longing.... SNAP OUT OF IT, Em.  You're actually NOT on Spring Break (even if the rest of NYU is...).

**I can't stop thinking about how amazing it would be to teach in the same classroom as either of them.  I would go to work the happiest person in America.  These are 2 of the top people I met in my program; two people I would give my life for without hesitation.  'Lucky' does not even describe getting to be around them, learn from them, talk to them, or work with them.  I could do a LOT worse than being around either of them...like winning a million dollars or meeting a boy I could actually date (aka things that are actually pretty damn good).  Though today Dan offered to let me crash with him and Anna if I need to come to NY for a job hunt, and Mike pretty much ALWAYS has that offer for me, so... <33  Being around ANYONE I graduated with, really, would make being a first  year teacher next year so much better.  Having that support system is the difference between surviving the first year, and burning out.