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Another news item this morning about one of the women of disputed age from the polygamist camp giving birth.... her child taken into state custody. Why? What is the point here? Were these children being abused to the point where a child would be taken from its mother upon birth while the issue is resolved? This woman carried the baby for nine months- is she a criminal by virtue of her age and residence? I am confused.
Happy Mother's Day, eh?
We can fairly acknowledge that governmental agencies, such as child support divisions and services for children and families, will convey to us that they "do not" own the right to designate protective care or guardianship. To a certain degree they are correct. Government agencies cannot designate "legal custody." Only a Judge in the Court of Law has that authority. However, governmental agencies do designate "administrative custody."
Whenever a government agency or the welfare system provides services to a family with a child, the agency is acknowledging that the applicant parent (95% single mother households) is in possession of the child 50.1% of the time, which means primary custody. However, because the governmental agencies’ policy on fraud is seldom challenged or investigated, there is no positive proof if the child is actually in the residence of the applicant parents.
Due to the fact that government agencies, child support divisions and welfare services have the right to designate "administrative custody," this causes the mother or father of the child to race to the welfare office, the agency waits to see which parent will get its foot in the door and claim the child first. The parent who won the race in claiming the child is the parent who receives, not only assistance (money, food, housing et cetera) but at the same time, the agency will, immediately, "protect the applicant." Why? Because if the government, welfare/child support divisions and services were to discover that the applicant committed fraud (lying about the child living with her/him 50.1% of the time) the spotlight would show how either badly the agency mishandles verifying whether the applicant is truthful or not when she/he provided required information in the written declaration made under oath.
The primary message that moves forcefully through these paternity acknowledgment programs is responsibility. Although, in reality, these programs promote "selective responsibility," since the programs’ major concern is on child support only, while ignoring data information. This is inadvertently saying to fathers that they are merely considered financial contributors.
Just follow the money also applies to paternity acknowledgments. The Federal government is aware that the State child support enforcement programs need money to control the functioning of a process. The government helps to bring about the process by funding the state child support enforcement programs, and of course, only after determining how much child support is collected in each State.
These excessively abusive, morally offensive tactics (against fathers) has motivated most states to increase their child support collections so that the state enforcement programs can depend on with full trust on meeting the requirements for additional monies from Uncle Sam.
If we leave this matter strictly in the hands of the government and state agencies, it is certain that they will discover ways to gain financially from child support collections. (This is called, The Float.)
For quite some time now, States have worked to the fullest extent possible to transmit the continuous progression of all child support monies into their baskets. In their view, this is the most proof positive way of keeping efficient accounting and disbursement of payments in place. The truth is that the State holds on to the interest from the child support payments that linger in the bank for more than 30 days. In Oregon, the state collects approximately 25 million dollars in child support a month. Go figure, the interest from this amount. By far, this is not "chump change." (www.dnadiagnosticscenter.com)
I am editing this letter so you all don't see to many names and addresses! So bear with me on some of the text!
October 4, 2007
Family Court
In Regards: My Brother and nephew
To Whom It May Concern:
My name is JSB. I am "brother's" younger sister. I have known my brother, , since 1977, the year I was born. Wand I have always had a strong relationship; be it arguing like two siblings do or even talking and confiding in each other as adult friends. My brother is six years older then myself and has always been one of the few people I not only look up to, but view as a stable person in today’s out of whack world. We have kept in contact while he was in the Navy and I was in high school and college. We have kept in contact while he was in the Marines. W is not only supportive of myself, but of my entire family. He is not afraid to tell you what he thinks even if you disagree with it. You may not like hearing his advice or opinions but they are always worth taking a second look over.
When I married at the age of 21 with a new baby and recently finding out I was pregnant again, my brother was there; right along with our sister and parents. My brother is one of the few people I have no questions about leaving my children with. Even when they were newborns! He knew how to change a diaper, calm a child down, and realized that even sometimes they needed to just cry it out. This actually says a lot about my brother because I will NOT leave my children alone for any amount of time with my in-laws even though they are the grandparents to my children. I trust Wwith my 8 year old daughter and my 7 year old son when ever he is home. He allows my husband and I some valuable free time by cooking us supper, playing with the kids, helping us clean up when we am running errands and by just taking his niece and nephew down to the grandparents (our parents) house to just visit. One of the times my brother, W, was home on leave stands out to not only myself but our entire extended family that lives in the area is of the time my husband and W were at our house hanging out like brother-in-laws do and I was out grocery shopping. On my way home, I received a call from my brother telling me to turn around and meet my husband at the After Hours Clinic because while my husband and brother were rounding up the toys to put away, my children decided to stick beads up their noses. My husband didn’t even think twice about leaving our then 4 year old daughter home with my brother while he brought our 3 year old son up to have the bead taken out of his nose!
When my husband and I returned from a trip to the After Hours Clinic and ER Room for a bead removal from the nose, my house was completely cleaned up, all my animals feed and watered, my daughter bathed, feed, dressed for bed and was having a grand time with her Uncle playing with her dolls and watching a Disney Princess movie!
My brother, W, is very loyal to his family, even after finding out that his wife didn’t appreciate the way he was family orientated or that we were family orientated and told W to take care of his wife and children. That we will ALWAYS be here for his family and blood is thicker than water. My husband, children and I even drove down to visit W and his family when we all lived in Texas at the same time and was again impressed with the responsibility, dedication, love and loyalty he had towards his own family. W was going to Military School full time, partaking in his round of duty for the military, coming home and cleaning up, taking care of, and playing with his kids. Even on the days he was dead tired and had the children thrust at him so his wife could have down time. I have heard many times from my brother’s mouth and his wife’s mouth that W was the more patient of the two when dealing with my nephew W H (nephew) and that W H is a daddy’s boy. Mrs. W also bragged to me over the phone many times that her older son, was very much a daddy’s boy also and got very upset that my brother was gone during the day: when Mrs. W would consent to being on the phone with me for more then 5 minutes and not complaining of one of her two older children constantly being sick and my brother hounding her to take them to the doctor because she never would.
I miss my nephew very much and could not understand why Mrs. W, who claims to be very family orientated, constantly got upset over any of our family both immediate and extended in the area tried to be friendly or helpful. If the CA Family Court System would consent to give my brother full custody or even joint custody with primary care of my nephewW H and he moved back to the home area of Nebraska with my nephew, W would have full family support of not only our parents, our sister, and myself but of some of our extended family members. W H would be surrounded by not only the love and protection of his very devoted father but of his parental family. W would also be willing to let Mrs. W's family see W H as long as they could prove that they would not try overriding his parenting skills; simply because W himself is very family orientated.
Even during this very difficult time that my brother is going through, he has been a source of support for me over the phone when I am nagging about my own husband being on the road to support our family. W constantly reminds me that my husband loves me, comes off of the road and helps to take care of the kids and the house. That I also can easily go visit our parents and our sister to get out of the house and to cut not only my husband some slack but myself.
Lovingly and Sincerely Submitted
Me, His Sister
Nenner Nenner Nenner the first half of my brother's drama is officially at an end. Okay technicality one more court date but that is only a matter of getting some things dropped. Pull up a chair, your cigs, and something to drink folks! I can finally talk about what the hell is going on with my Brother and the Skank!
Okay for those who are just now reading my blog let me give a bit of a back story. Two and half years ago my brother knocked up a woman that he swore he loved. The family knew the only reason he married the skank was because of the baby, he wouldn't listen to us. Well the Skank as I fondly refer to her had problems with DHS in NC because she doesn't take care of her teenage daughter or her young son. Who by the way both have varying medical problems. Daughter has a form of thyroid desease and her son has autism (which the docs and dhs in NC are like us believe mamma brought on to theboy). After my nephew was born, the skank was NOT allowed to be anywhere near my nephew for two weeks because she was fucked in the head the docs said. It took my brother to reason with DHS to not take her two other kids from her and get her able to be left alone with my nephew. Then when my brother got stationed down in TX right before my family moved to TX, the Skank and all the kids went to live with my parents. She gave my paernts hell. Spent all my brother's money, made his life hell, and our lives hell. My mom and dad finally put their foot up her ass and let my brother know what she was doing. She just picked up and moved her and the kdis down to TX to be with my brother. Wouldn't let my brother and see me or my family at Thanksgiving time. And went out of her way to piss me the fuck off with her shitty behavoir towards me and my family when we visited her. All the while talking shit about the entire family and trying to get my brother to break all ties with his family because she has no blood ties to her own family because they are as fucked up as she is! Then my brother got stationed out in CA for a month before he was shipped over to Iraqi. Now listen up this is where it gets interesting!
The family backed off of my brother and his skank after the fiasco of our visit in January of 06, telling him to handle his business with us fucked up wife. To everyone's knowledge including my brother's, their marriage was going well, he was forcing the Skank to get medical treatment to all the kids (my nephew has sever sinus problems), and pretty much buying her everything under the sun. Then my brother got deployed to Iraqi and that is when the Skank started pulling her bull shit. At Thanksgiving time, my brother called to talk to his wife and the kids and heard a male voice in his house and one of the kids calling this man "Cousin Bob." He waited on the phone for the Skank to get back on and asked her who that was and she lied to him saying it was her Cousin Bob. Well actually a friend but he is like family. My brother out right accused of her of spreading her legs and she got pist and hung up on him. Next thing the family knows my brother is being told by Military Command not to be contacting his own family and they wouldn't tell him why!
Well the why of it was the Skank got so pist off with my brother because after he accused her of having an affair he sat down and went through finances and realized she wasn't paying the bills and there was no money to be found anywhere! So he cxl his checking account, started a new one, set up all the bills to be paid automatically and was only sending her 300 dollars a month. The military then told my brother, the Skank filed allegations against him and would NOT tell him what the allegations where unless he agreed to talk to them. He listened to us and refused unless he had a Jag lawyer. Which they denied him not once but three fucking times. Finally when NCIS (Naval Criminal Investgation) came to talk to him, he was provided a Jag officer and found out that the Skank alleged he did these things: Raped her, forced her to marry him (they were married for almost 2 year then, masterbated and walked naked in his own house, watched child and beast porn, and was controling of her and her kids.
When my brother came home from Iraqi, after the fact the military sent back 4 men who were going through divorces and other issues and refused my brother to go home early, no charges were pressed but his Commander sent him to 10 days of the brig. KNOWING my parents were out there to see my brother and KNOWING that no charges and no proof was found on any of the Skanks' allegations. The Military even helped the Skank get a civil restraining order against my brother so he couldn't see his son! Next thing we know the Military restrained him to base after they let him out of the brig and continued to let the Skank harasse my brother. By this time the family got him a criminal and divorce lawyer because the Skank filed divorce on my brother while he was still deployed. Which by the way is illegal but CA allowed her to do it because it was filed but as long as the person isn't served till they are home it is okay to CA. Even though Federal law says no it isn't.
This has been going on since April. Just two days ago and one week after what is called a Military Article 32 Hearing to see if charges were deemed necesary towards my brother for a Court Marital we got word that NO CHARGES will be pressed, NO Punishment, NOTHING was ever found to be proven towards the Skanks allegations. The Skank even convienced one of her friends to lie on the stand for her saying she say my brother assult the Skank in get htis ready for it.......A school parking lot! Interestingly enough nobody else saw the assult! The supposible Cousin who was fucking the Skank is coming up on Military Adultury Charges as we speak, and next week my brother goes to court to have the civil restraining order dropped. The only reason it was put on was based off of the Military allegations!
The Skank messed with the wrong mother fucking family! So did the Military:D My parents, my family, my sister's family, and both sides of the family relatives have been busy bombarding three State gov'ts on how the TwentyNine Palms Marine Base is ran and how one Lt. Cornal (sp) fucked over my brother but let up to a dozen other marines get away with hazing, other infractions, and go home to deal with simialr family stiuations. My brother's home state of NE, the state of MI, and the State of CA were all wrote about how the TwentyNine Palms Marine Base caters to the spouses of the Marines instead of the Marines that serve their country. The Skank doesn't realize it yet even though she lost it at the Hearing and started yelling it and other things out and made herself look a fool but she was right.......She is going to not only loose custody of my nephew but her other two lil bastards!
Now that this is taken care of but the divorce and we will keep that Skank in court any which way we can so she fucking looses, we already have her on slander, defermation of charcter, loose of rank and income of my brother, but also on neglect, mental instability, and no financial means to take care of my nephew let alone her other two fucked up kids! My brother according to Military Law can't sue the military for how they helped the Skank, but the family can:D Now the military is trying to tell my brother he will have to redeploy in September and they are bitching because my brother said kiss his ass! Ten to one the divorce won't be final by then and he is going for full custody. My brother is also planning on getting the hell out of the US Marine Corp so he can get full custody of his boy. Again interestinly the military is NOT redeploying the other four to six men they sent home in December of 06 and January of 07 to take care of their divorces. See how TwentyNine Palms is fucked up. I hope that Lt. Col. who fucked over my brother gets knocked down a few ranks and dishonorably discharged because he is the one that allowed the hazing over in Iraqi towards one of our own Corpman by other Corpman! The fucktard got called to the carpet for 3 days over multiple things right before he came down with his NO Charges and NO court marital towards my brother!
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