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Off to the Yankees-Mariners game (which the Yankees are going to WIN tonight)!!!!


Jealousssss :-P









(so keep the blood in your head...and get your feet on the ground...<3)
 
 
   
 

What Turns on a Woman in a Relationship???

I almost asked what turns a woman on in a marriage but the couple that got me askign this question aren't married so I worded it this way!

 

A couple friend of mine are going on a 2 year relationship and are having issues.  Granted they both brought 2 kids from previous marriages.  Both of the marriages were bad in their own ways, ex spouses selfish lil assholes.  And granted one of the ex spouses is dead now but the effects of that marriage still linger.  They also had a child together.  So that makes a total of 5 kids in one house.  To make matters even more interesting to this relationship is the age difference.  D the woman is not yet 30 and M the guy is yet 43 years old.  D is very vocal and was popular in school and does what she wants and screw who ever doesn't like it.  M is very shy and was not so popular in school and does what ever the strong dominate female that takes precident in his life tells him to do.

 

I won't go into what the issues are because D is having a mutual friend pass on information to me so I am not getting things straight from either horse's mouth.  But I did have this mutual friend of ours pass on a message to D:  "Go right ahead and think and feel what your going to but just remember; your relationship isn't brand new anymore.  Now it is going to take comprimise and work.  You can't be expecting EVERYTHING you ever wanted in a man even though you deserve it.  It doesn't work that way."

 

After our friend passed that on, D is now willing to take a step back and work things out a bit more.  I am glad.  But one of her comments got me to thinking and now I am goign to ask the women in relationships out in Mindsay to answer a lil question!:D 

 

D stated that M isn't turning her on to much any more.  But if she ever walked in the house after work or on a weekend and saw M up in her bathroom working on the bathroom that is currently being remodled that would get her worked up and time for some nookie!  When that was passed on to me, our mutual friend and I bursted out laughing and said isn't that some shit! 

 

So the question is for those women out there in Mindsay in relationships that aren't BRAND NEW anymore what would turn you on seeing your partner do?  See I got to thinking and our mutual friend agreed when I voiced the comment to her...........Randy and I are going on 10 years together and in Febuary 9 years of marriage.  Our mutual friend is going on 12 years together with her friend and 11 years of marriage.  I said you know D has a point about what turns her one now!  I would get all excited if I ever came home from running errands and had dinner not only cooked for me, but dishes done and put away afterwords, Randy to do bath times and put the kids to bed!  Our mutual friend sat there for a minute and said you know if my ol man would give me a call at work and said hey I know you have been stressed out and running here and there for everything, I am taking off of work a few hours early.  You take your time doing what you need to and I'll pick up our daughter and meet our son's bus at home!  I won't cook but I'll order take out and bring it home too boot!

 

What would excite you women out there in relationships that aren't brand new? 

 
 
 

   
We are so c-c-c-c-c-contr...

Rad socks rock.  

 

            Yeah, I am in a weird mood.....I just got a new cd.  Deja Entendu by Brand New.  They are sort of.....arrogant.  But still, they rock.  Fave song????  Dunno.   I have yet to listen to the entire album. 

 

             I have to make a "foil" for english.  It is an aluminum foil doll, figure kind of thing.  It was hilarious....I went to Wal-Mart to get a barbie doll dress to put on it.  That was....kind of....weird. 

 

            I got some books.....Catcher and the rye (which I am reading on my own free will) and this really old collection of short stories.  Gotta love used book stores.  :)  Really, I love ANY book store.  Especially Books-A-Million.  A coffee shop AND a huge bookstore????  Doesnt get much radder than that. 

 

                  Well, I have got to go..........

 
 
   
 

Alone
All on my lonesome again :(

The lads came around for the weekend to see how I was doing and much fun was had. I met New Guy Kirk yesterday who everyone has been going about. I don't see what the big deal is myself, he's not as hunky as was described but he is cool. Even if he does hump The Rasmus (and I must admit I'm starting to like them ¬_¬). Last night's 'house party' was fun; I've now discovered the cure for the common cold: an all night boozer. Srsly. :D

Few things on my mind. I've become newly obsessed with a certain little lady. And I hate it. Hate. So I need to stop thinking about her but that's proving difficult at present time with reminders all around. It might be easy for her to come walking back in here when it suits her, nevermind me or my feelings. Not once has she thought about how this might affect me. Bitch.

I dug out some old CDs today and found a random punk compilation. Can someone explain to me when Brand New became punk? And I was always under the impression Reel Big Fish were ska. Go figure.

Hah, this entry's so vague and random. No one knows what I'm on about ^_^

Alexis
 
 
 

   
Brand New - The Boy Who Blocked His Own Shot
If it makes you less sad
I will die by your hand
I hope you find out what you want
I already know what I am
And if it makes you less sad
We'll start talking again
And you can tell me how vile
I already know that I am


I'll grow old
And start acting my age
I'll be a brand new day
In a life that you hate
A crown of gold

A heart that's harder than stone
And it hurts a whole lot
But it's missed when it's gone


Call me a safe bet
I'm betting I'm not
I'm glad you can forgive
I'm only hoping as time goes
You can forget


If it makes you less sad
I'll move out of the state
You can keep to yourself
I'll keep out of your way

And if it makes you less sad
I'll take your pictures all down
Every picture you paint
I will paint myself out
It's as cold as a tomb
And it's dark in your room
When I sneak to your bed
To pour salt in your wounds
So call it quits
Or get a grip
Say you wanted a solution

You just wanted to be missed

Call me a safe bet
I'm betting I'm not

I'm glad that you can forgive
I'm only hoping as time goes
You can forget
So you can forget
You can forget


You are calm and reposed
Let your beauty unfold
Pale white like the skin
Stretched over your bones
Spring keeps you ever close
You are second hand smoke
You are so fragile and thin
Standing trial for your sins

Holding onto yourself the best you can
You are the smell before the rain
You are the blood in my veins


Call me a safe bet
I'm betting I'm not
I'm glad that you can forgive
I'm only hoping as time goes
You can forget
 
 
   
 

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