Bisexual @ MindSay 
love
the phrase "in their own way"...back-handed compliment or not?
whenever someone says "oh, she's beautiful....in her own way..."
it sort of makes my blood boil. being beautiful is just that, it doesn't matter who or what you are...you just are.
so why cheapen the compliment by adding "in her/his own way"? why not just let it be what it is.
oh, and in packy news....mine is die-die-dying...so i need to purchase a new one.
lately, i've been wanting to purchase a man-go
but thanks you-tube for having me addicted to you and constantly scanning the ftm videos for a "how to make an stp".
oh, and by-the-by an "stp" stands for:
Stand
To
Pee (prosthesis)
it's relatively easy and more cost effective to make one than to purchase a more expensive product. i estimate it costing around $25 to make an STP as opposed to the $65+ for a mango (and the special harness). so let's see how well this goes, shall we? lol.
-kage jonas
1. Homosexuality is completely unnatural.
(like microwave ovens, polyester and erectile dysfunction medication)
2. Homosexual marriage would ruin the sanctity of marriage.
(oh, you mean like the rising divorce rate and polygamy?)
3. Homosexuals would raise gay children.
(because straight parents raise only straight children)
4. Children cannot grow up well-adjusted without a parent of each gender present.
(single parenting is illegal as well)
5. Gay People only impose their sexuality on others.
(and advertising campaigns don't do the same thing?)
6. If Gay Marriage is legalized, it will morally corrupt my children!
(Have another beer and beat your wife some more, I'm sure that won't corrupt them at all)
7. Gay people can't form lasting relationships?
(I know gay couples who have been together longer than my parents...)
8. All gay people get AIDS
(that's just stupid.)
9. Heterosexual marriage has never changed
(women are still property, whites can't marry blacks and divorce is unheard of)
10. Gay marriage is a gateway drug. Soon, people will try to marry their pets.
(yes, because my kitten can sign a marriage license, not to mention having legal standing)
11. Civil unions are exactly the same as heterosexual marriage.
(they are a "separate but equal" clause. the government has been successful with them for ages! blacks and whites don't attend the same schools and cannot marry. it worked fine for them)
12. The Bible says....
(i believe that's the old testament...you know, the same one that says it's okay to have many wives...and that women are property)
-kage jonas
Alarmingly, when people meet me, if they know my gender-status (aka, that i'm a transsexual) they think that gives them some right to ask and/or say certain things. Well, I figured I would be helpful and answer some of those questions for you right here in my blog.
1. Don't be offended when I ask you this...
- Stop right there...it's obviously going to offend me.
2. What is your "real" name?
- Kage. idiot.
3. I know someone who is trans...so I totally get it.
- Yeah, so do I. That doesn't make you an expert, especially if you aren't. Now if you are lending me some support, sure. But don't pretend you know me specifically just because you know another transsexual.
4. How do you have sex?
- With my sex parts, moron.
5. Are you a boy or a girl?
- How flattering. Are you?
6. Do you date straight women or lesbians?
- Hm. what do you think?
7. I've seen "Boys Don't Cry"[or insert movie with a transsexual main character]), I understand what you're going through.
- No, you probably don't.
8. Do you like boys or girls?
- Yes.
9. Are you a top or a bottom?
- We will not be having sex. EVER.
10. Are you a tranny?
- idiot. and don't say "tranny"...it's rude to some of us. (not me, of course)
11. What do transsexuals eat?
- babies. crunchy, human babies.
12. What kind of surgery are you getting to become a man?
- a tonsilectomy. what do you think?
13. How does it feel to be a transsexual?
- fabulous.
14. Where are your boobs?
- I'm a boy. So don't ask this. it's rude.
15. You're going to Hell.
- See you there, shitbag.
16. You are a lesbian, stop pretending to be a man.
- Only after you stop pretending to be a decent human being. Nobody has the right to evaluate me like that...especially not you.
there's more soon, but this is all i could think of.
well, it occurred to me; that alot of my readers, though comfortable with transsexuality, may never have seen it as a main topic/theme/character in a film. so i have taken it upon myself to give you a list of films/documentaries, what have you, to view for more information! Thanks, wikipedia.org!!
(i've also starred the ones i have seen!)
In Film/Documetary
- 100% Human
- 100% Woman
- 20 centimetros
- The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert
- The Adventures of Sebastian Cole
- The Badge
- Beautiful Boxer
- Better than Chocolate ***
- Born in the Wrong Body
- Boy I Am***
- Boys Don't Cry***
- Breakfast on Pluto***
- The Christine Jorgensen Story
- The Crying Game
- Different for Girls
- Dog Day Afternoon
- Dressed to Kill
- Ed Wood
- En Soap
- Flawless
- Flying With One Wing
- Funny Kinda Guy
- Gender Rebels***
- Glen or Glenda?
- Hedwig and the Angry Inch***
- Holiday Heart
- I Want What I Want
- Just Like a Woman
- Kiss of the Spider Woman
- Let Me Die a Woman
- Ma vie en rose
- Myra Breckenridge
- Normal***
- Red Without Blue***
- The Rocky Horror Picture Show***
- Sick Nurses***
- Second Serve
- Soldier's Girl
- Southern Comfort***
- TransAmazon: A Gender Queer Journey
- Transamerica***
- A Transgender Path
- TransGeneration***
- The World According to Garp
- The World's Fastest Indian
- Yellow Hair 2
Television
- All My Children
- Ally McBeal
- America's Next Top Model***
- Big Brother: UK
- Coronation Street
- CSI (episode: "Ch-ch-changes")***
- CSI: Pilot, "Anonymous" and "Identity Crisis"
- Diagnosis Murder***
- Dirty Sexy Money
- The L Word***
- Nip/Tuck
- Number 96
- One Piece
- The Powerpuff Girls***
- Sister Paula
- The Surreal Life***
- There's Something About Miriam***
- TransAmerican Love Story
- Two and a Half Men
- Ugly Betty
So you see, portrayals of transsexuality and transgenderism in the media are getting more and more frequent if nothing else.
go watch!!!
-kage jonas
so another one in the saga of my failed ideas bin.
Transgender Olympics.
It's a good concept, in theory...but it would never get off the ground.
Nobody would take it seriously. Well, most people might not. It would be a fad and then soon die. But i wouldn't want to turn transsexuality into any more of a media circus than it already is (sad, but true, folks).
I thought about how being trans, i could never compete in the Olympic Games (even if i HAD talent like that anymore) and win anything. I would be stripped of any medals i had won, and unceremoniously at that. *sigh*
there should be an Olympic qualification for transmen and transwomen of each sport. since transmen are on T and that's a no-no...maybe they could go by dosage and how far into transition you are in order to come up with class division for each event. and transwomen the same. it's a neat-o idea...but i would never want to see the media shit-storm go all haywire like it does the second anybody who is noticeably outside of the gender binary attempts to make him/her self known to the outside world (i.e.- the pregnant man)...
and speaking of the pregnant man...that's an entirely different story. don't even get me started.
well, off to work! *groan*
-kage jonas
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