Beach @ MindSay

More colors have emerged in the wedding ceremony, though white is the traditonal color for the informal wedding dresses, more and more brides begin to realize that not all of them are suitable for pure white because of the skin,etc.. Shade of white is progressively popular with the brides. Don't know the difference between stark, egg shell and candlelight?Don’t know what shade of white you can choose? Our guide will help you get your whites.
Off-white. Stark white. Bright white. And what the heck is eggshell? Choosing a shade of white for your inexpensive wedding gown has become almost as difficult as choosing the discount wedding gown itself. Here's everything you need to know to get the right white.
The Shades
Don't even think about hitting the plus size wedding dress shops without a crash course in hue review:
The Selection
The key to finding your shade? Knowing your skin tone.
If your skin is fair, you'll look best in yellow-ivories summer wedding dresses. You should probably steer clear of stark white, though -- it may wash you out.
If your skin is medium with pink undertones, opt for creamier colors.
If your skin is medium with yellow undertones, try diamond white or champagne.
If your skin is dark, lucky you -- most shades of white will complement your skin. If you have yellow or olive undertones, though, stay away from yellow-ivory short wedding dresses. Try stark white or rum pink.
Only a few listed above but enough for you to choose. Choosing the right white and get the perfect performance.

More and more new couples never want to make their wedding day more luxurious, compared with that, they would rather save money for house or journey. So the groom may choose a normal suit instead of renting a formal one. As the case, the bride always gets puzzled that whether she needs to choose a cheap wedding dress as well.
Your groom’s choice cannot be yours. The key factor is the rest of your wedding. If the rest takes a formal style, you can definitely wear a designer wedding gowns, either. When you go on with your wedding gowns, just follow your heart to choose your cheap wedding gowns. You can also do the same to your bridesmaids. Discount bridesmaid dresses also needs to match with your wedding. Tea-length cocktail dresses -- which are all the rage for maids -- are perfect choice.
All in all, only if you make yourself comfortable and beautiful, that will be a nice wedding gown for you!

In summer, outdoor wedding progressively become a fashion for many brides. Maybe there emerged a problem that someone wants to wear cheap wedding dresses for the outdoor wedding ceremony, but they are afraid whether are the casual wedding dresses suitable for the outdoor environment. How to decide?
Do not worry about that that is your wedding which could depend on your own desire. As long as your informal wedding gowns doesn't feature heavy, sparkly appliqués and a huge train, it will be fine for an outdoor summer wedding. You might not want to go for high-sheen satin, which might suggest evening more than daytime, but if it's a simple, unadorned, strapless satin modest wedding dress we're talking about, you'll probably be fine. With a little recommendation, maybe silk fabric will make you more comfortable in the hot summer.

Up to now, more and more couples have the same problem that whether they shall wear their beach wedding gown at both wedding receptions? That is definitely OK. Your spent much on the casual wedding dresses, you surely have the right to wear it twice. Or y ou can order another informal bridal gown to wear at the receptions. No matter which way you will go through, make yourself be comfortable. Just believe that you will be the most beautiful one in the party.

well, again I haven't written in awhile...
After I last wrote, we were getting ready to go see my mom in Jacksonville,NC where she is in a nursing home...That morning we got up to a flooded basement...so, we had to stay,, called insurance, and plumber...Both came out that day and next day...with the insurance check we got we made an extra house payment..God works in mysterious ways! now we are only one month behind...but they continue to not want to help us..just this week we were again denied for the loan mod...they told us as long as we were behind and in the hole each month we would never qualify!! What??makes no sense...we were told that was why people like us could qualify for it..job loss, behind on payments,etc...That's what Obama said!!  its so frustrating!! Our second mortgage co. gave us a loan mod in 2 days!!! and we were behind with them too!! what's up with that??  who do you contact to find out if your mortgage co is jerking you around??/ they have to report to someone do they not?? sigh----
Good news is I got a job yesterday...Its part time like I wanted, no nights and no weekends..and only about 3-4 hrs a day, but every bit helps..I'm on Emergency unemployment now and my understanding is that that runs out in Oct... so we are still fighting to save our house as it stands now... oh and our first mortgage told us we needed to pare our bills down since we are in the hole every month..ok, well, we went to a credit manager and He told us there was no where to cut back!! we are paying only what we have to right now-utilities,insurance,gas,food,stuff like that that you cant pare back.. other good news, my husband  and my daughter got some help to be able to go to Doctor and get meds now...Ours is no cost to go to Doctor and daughter has to pay $5 each visit.Husband is diabetic, so he got his meds for free and my daughter is on a couple of meds that are free now too..that is a big help there..and our past doctor bills were covered and paid also which was almost at $1000.00.....now just owe the dentist $500.00...dont know when that will get paid...as no extra money at all. And here in NC taxes went up!! are they trying to kill us??? Our property taxes we owe this year are almost $2000.00!!!!! and sales taxes went up too... and now Duke Energy is wanting to raise its cost??? great...people are struggling..what do they want?our blood??? Christmas this year will be bleak..I just basically want my family together.. still trying to figure that out..with property taxes due right in Jan. that kills us..Christmas isnt about getting anyway..its about Christ and his birth.. we love each other and have fun as a family..that's what matters..The Black Friday list has already come out...those that have $ to spend-have at it...we don't.... yesterday in the mail we get 3 different letters from the county ..we owe $5 per cat we now have ..taxes on our animals!! I thought we came to America to flee Taxes on everything !! and for Religious freedom!!  good grief... tax this, raise this, what next???
have I said enough??? No wonder I was depressed earlier this week...
I was going to leave for the beach today with 3 good friends. they were going to take care of me so I could go.yesterday evening we get a call from one of them, my really good friend(I call her my Sis!) and her Dad was in ICU.. She had to call 911 earlier as he fell twice...so weak.... he had been sick all week but thought he was getting better... he was so dehydrated that they had to use a force bag to get the fluids in him. he took 4 bags I think..anyway, the rest of us told her we were not leaving her behind to go on to the beach..She wanted us to go on..can you believe that??She is so unselfish..I told her to shut up!! we were staying to be with her and the beach would still be there whenever...She couldn't help it that her dad got so ill...they weren't even sure he'd pull through last night! and she wanted us to go on.. No way!!my husband and I went over to hospital after she called and stayed. we took her to get something to eat. she went to be with her mom last night. her mom is diabetic and confined to the house..She has to be carried several times a week to receive dialysis. And she needs constant care..my friend is an only child so everything falls on her. She is a wife, and mother to two teens herself and works.. talk about having a full plate.. she does..
anyway I talked to her about 9 this morning and her dad stablizied during the night. they want to move him into a room out of ICU and regulate his meds. he lost so much weight...Will find out more later this afternoon..

my daughter started College in late August and she has adjusted well. Its our local community college, but she is doing great!! She has already aced a couple of tests! next fall she will transfer to UNCC. She has a new "Boy friend" lol says she doesn't want to be involved with anyone right now and they are just friends. I like him he is very nice.
Son has new girlfriend this year at Appalachian. he loves his apartment and having his own room!
I'm glad they are both settling in well.
well gotta run for now..maybe I will post again before another month rolls by! or two!