So... I prefer fat guys, right? A guy must be fat in order for me to find them attractive. Simple enough.
I finally find someone who I can feel sexual attraction towards, and he treats me like shit. Which is odd because I treat him very very well, and to sound incredibly shallow, I'm probably the most attractive woman who's ever dated him. So how come I have to deal with being insulted all of the time?
He knows he insults me all of the time, but says he doesn't realize it. And although he says that he knows he does, he does nothing to prevent it. Sure, after I'm sobbing, he apologizes, realizing what he's said. But then the next time I see him, he pulls that shit all over again.
The things he insults me about are irrational. Essentially calling me worthless because I don't have a job. (I'm 18, he's 21. This is my last summer before college, I don't want responsibilities.) And of course he says that's no excuse because he had a job when he was my age. But then again, he also went to a community college that he never even got a degree from. I excelled in all of my academic opportunities previous to my graduation, and he just barely passed.
He talks about how everyone who smokes weed should be shot. But, he smokes it himself sometimes. And not to mention whenever we're at parties he drinks the most. And alcohol is much worse than weed. Alcohol kills people, weed doesn't. Alcohol is addictive, weed isn't. But he doesn't listen to reason, ever.

I mean he always says that he is very lucky to be with me, but considering how he treats me, his actions say otherwise. And I am just about ready to snap.
 
   

 


 
 
redwoodpecker on
Re: I'm confused.
I thought every girl liked fat dicks?

Speaking as a guy, or even as a person, the better you treat a person in a relationship, the more likely they are to treat you poorly or take advantage of you.  There is always one person who's a doormat and one who's the boot, and even if it's a minor gap at first it tends to widen as the relationship progresses.  In short it's a power struggle, and if you're not the butch, than you're the bitch.  I can say I relate because while I'm the butch during sex, I'm definitely the bitch everywhere else, and I've found it's easier to be walter mittyish and avoid as much as possible anything that will set her off, which is most anything.

If you don't like it, you either have to leave him, or start treating him like shit.  I guarantee if you treat him worse, if you show him you don't care about him and could care less if he leaved he will probably immediately start treating you better.  And if not and he's going to be a dick either way, at least you can be a bitch too.  And if he was mentally handicapped and left you, you'd be better off, so it's a win win situation.

If only I were fat and single.  The downside of that of course is that as I got fatter, my sex drive would be diminished, than what would be the point of having a sexy doll such as yourself in the first place?  I'd just have a hot girlfriend, a fat ass, and a limp dick, not fun.
xFloggingMaryx on
Re: I'm confused.
That certainly makes sense. Although I have been in relationship's where both parties treat each other with respect. I was just in a relationship like that; but he is going to the other side of the country in about two months. So it was torture to stay with him knowing that he was leaving in September.
And the guy I'm with now, knows that I'm going to college in September (although I'm not leaving the area). And there is no way I'm going to be in a relationship in my freshman year of college. So the end is counting down anyway, he knows I have no fear if he leaves me, because I'm leaving him in September.
He is just irrational and crazy. Whenever he insults me to the point of tears, his excuse is because he is 'retarded and doesn't realize it', but obviously that's no excuse.

Either way, when he fucks up completely and I'm done dealing with it. It will certainly be his loss.

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redwoodpecker on
Re: I'm confused.
Well, too it makes sense that he would keep emotionally distant if you're leaving.  What would be the point of falling in love with someone if you know for sure they'll leave you and break your heart? 

I know equal relationships exist, and I hope someday to either discover an intelligent, rational woman who shares my sexual proclivities and other interests while maintaining an equal relationship of love and respect.  Either that or I'll buy a giant breasted japanese anime sex bot.  Whichever comes first.  I'm betting on the sex bot.
xFloggingMaryx on
Re: I'm confused.
Haha yeah I so totally just figuratively pee'd my pants. 

 
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