With so many places to blog, and create profiles now days, I have done some thinking.  So many people use the internet to express themseleves...myself included.  Is it safe?  There is so much bad press reguarding the internet now days.  With life moving so fast for so many of us-we use the internet to make friends and often times romantic relationships.  My question is, are these connections true connections?  How much do you choose to let people know about you; we all know people can turn on you in an instant, and the internet is no different.  People read our blogs, do they learn the true you?  I hope so, as nothing can replace the face-to-face connections.  Alas, I have forgotten my exact goal of this entry, so I will end now...maybe I will pick this up at a later date.
 
   

 


 
 
rraspberry on
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In some instances they might be true connections. But I still think that it's important to meet face to face in order to really make it a true connection. In my case I've met most of my fellow bloggers and that helped deepen the friendships.
nissala22 on
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it can be to an extent but like Red said, face to face is where its at. now who is behind this particular entry? cuz I dont remember talking bout it indepth yesterday. lol. when you have a blog  you have it so you can express your thoughts, your ideas and you feelings for that day or that week. its nice to be able to express yourself and share your thoughts with others, you never know when something you write in your blog may help someone else get thru something or give them the motivation to change a current situation. you may never know how many people you touch or how many people cant stand you becuz of your positive attitude. Personally, I dont listen to critics at least I dont take everything they say to heart. ok, I'm gonna stop now b4 this becomes an entry. lol.
wishing1129 on
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yeah I get ya Red is actually behind this entry....its bc of one of her entrys that I had commented on...I dont remember the title...btw you will love my status if we catch each other online today..LOL 
nissala22 on
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did I mention that u need help? lol. anyways. I figured that when I read her entry today and the one from the other day.  
whispertales on
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Is it safe?  Is it real?  Do people see the real you?

My experience:  http://whispertales.mindsay.com/?entry=85
wishing1129 on
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Thank you-I believe I have read that entry before, maybe not...I guess my point was that so many people want to be accepted that they turn to the online communities and then end up being someone they are not. 
whispertales on
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I think that's a possibility.  Some people so desperately want attention or acceptance that they'll do nearly anything to get it.  Online communities like Mindsay and MySpace make it very easy to create a personna to accomplish that end. 

 

It's generally pretty easy to determine if someone is being authentic.  In ten years of these interactions, I've never been fooled.  Sometimes I'll continue interacting with someone despite knowing that they're lying...and eventually they either come clean or go away.

wishing1129 on
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I agree  
jarella on
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Hi, I just now saw this post. Guess it's not too late to comment...even if it is I am gonna anyway

 

It's not just blogs ya know. Gamers have been doing that sort of thing for ages. And there are all those dating sites now too. I haven't really done anything with the dating sites...other than emails so I can't say really...lots of folks seem to find their "true love" on those...they do have to actually meet them though. As for me..I have met two folks I knew from games...both of those have sort of faded out...I still email one of them...thier kids are growing and they got busy with other stuff and so did I. So sometimes it's not real I guess. One of my best friends is a guy I met in Asherons Call and have never met in real life...He lives on the other side of the country and I will probably never meet him...I expect we know more about each other than many of the folks in real life know about us though...from what I have seen of friendships online...whether they become real depends a lot on the type of interactions...most of the folks that I know of who had connections online that were more than just friendly..didn't stay friends..not online or off. Those that didn't get into the cyber sort of stuff tend to stay friends..if only in email. There may be a difference with gamers though...they tend to go to gamer parties and conventions...and lots of groups tend to stay toghether for years even in different games...like the Cult of Feh or the Runeguard from AC...both groups were multi game guilds...and they still exist after 6 or more years.

 

Not sure what my point was.

wishing1129 on
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I have experienced the same with several of my online friends...you just get caught up in life,  so it becomes hard to keep up with everyone...much like high school isn't it?  I must say sorry to you as well, I haven't been to your blog much, and I keep saying I'll get to that, so know that I will...read the past few entrys of mine and you will understand why I have been absent some.   By the way, no reply is late in my books, so don't worry.
DotCom101 on
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I Wanted to drop by and again say what a great blog you do create.

Dotcom

 


 
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