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I say, go ahead. Just go the casual route & ask to hang out or whatever. I mean, what's the worse that'll happen? She'll say no? Big deal. & you'll never know until you give it a shot ... Good luck on whatever you decide to do.
her saying no could be BAAD. I'm already unconfident unlesss it's online and her saying no could shoot my confidence to pieces.
Yes, but it's a part of being an adult. rejection is part of the process of growing up. Just because she says no, if she does, doesn't mean the world's gonna be ending any second after that. It just means to move on; she probably wasn't the right one anyway & it saved u from wasting your time.
That's a very good point.
's the worst that can happen? She says no? Go for it.
Her saying no would probably shoot my last pieces of confidence to even smaller virtually non-existent pieces.
I know ALL about problems of confidence my good man. I suffer from them badly.
But I have realised, after a long time being too timid to do what needs to be done, that all my abysmal self-confidence is doing is holding me back.
Weekend after next I am heading to a party. I went to this bloke's NYE party last year and met a wonderful young lady there. I did nothing on NYE and might have pissed away an opportunity. If she's there next weekend I'm very likely to ask her to dinner. If she says no, then I'll pick myself up and find another target.
Go, take the chance if the chance is there to be taken, and remember that nobody else's oppinion of you means shit, you are who you've gotta be, and you've gotta do what you've gotta do.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do
Great words. If that was said in you're blog i would vote for it. So encouraging. Thank you very much. It makes me less nervous now.
I agree with the people above me.
Go for Gold!
And i agree with my comments above me. No=bullet to the brain of confidence.
go for it.
but be casual.
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