Good for you Tweaty...We change the world one person at a time...

Sometimes....we need to see what we dislike in order to learn what we want in life...We observe life and choose our paths.

If all of them are silverspoon kids, I wouldn't be so surprised like this. I mean rich people always get used to take, not to give. I'm sure that some of those executives were in the "lower class" years ago before they climbed upon those social stairs. I don't understand why they don't understand how people have to struggle like they once used to and not even think about trying to to help.

 

Do not forget where you come from--I told myself that day and everyday.

If your mentors are gimme gimme gimme, I deserve it people.....then you are going to be filled with hate and angst and anger...even self loathing....

 

It is always best to be wise enough to train children....love, kindness, giving, mercy, forgiveness, courtesy...ten commandments....the way of love and wisdom..

Even the Bible says..."Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is grown, he shall not depart from it"....Wise are the parents that give a child that gift...because even though arrogance seeps in with wealth...somehow it does even ever so slightly...at least with wisdom and training, we have the gifts to bring us back to wisdom and love and respect for other human beings...

This is wisdom...This is beauty....This is what I would strive for as well...

To remain balanced, centred, loving and wise...even with wealth and all of the worldly gifts...to remain close to God...for when we die....it all leaves us except the good we have done.

You have great wisdom Tweaty...I see it in you and that is a part of what I admire about you.

Don't you think we're the same color or we can't understand each other? Believe it or not, some friends in a flesh cannot relate with what I talk to you here.

 

I dont' know if I'm wise or how much wise I am. Lots of things happened to me as years passing by. Lucky for me those things help me to see how important to try to be a better person. As kindness is rare in the world today, I feel like I need to give it away as much as I could. I don't believe we have to be selfish just to survive. Some people are afraid to get hurt if they're kind to the others and the those ones take advantage on them. I'm afraid of that, too. But I also think if some one have to be hurt, let it be me.  

Sweetie...Just as you have learned from living...you will learn from living...

(isn't that a profound statement) I mean.....being kind will teach you that you don't have to be afraid...for the ones that hurt you or leave you....should..

I believe that God does want fullness of life for his creation and unless we learn to have faith, to trust, to give love, we will never come into the fullness of our humanity...With that in mind, we must still not give everything to those who have proven to be wolves..

Kindness is rare in some parts of the world....but in certain areas, it is growing by leaps and bounds...I think for the most part, people aspire to grow in kindness...

Over the years, we have both grown as human beings...Blessed life...Blessed God....My flesh friends....(lol,,I know somewhere you do have flesh too)

(sounds funny..flesh friends) anyway....I don't tell them anything about relationships here....they would never never understand, nor do I want them too...I am private...and you and I share ................something unique...Yes...we are the same colour...just something unique...don't understand it....don't have to anymore.

 

I have always seen the best in you...that's it..

As I have grown to know you ............and the colours of your life, personality, etc....etc...many etceteras......I have always seen the best in you..like....I knew you from the inside out.

Wow, I like it "Knew you from inside out". Maybe because we don't know how we look like at first and that remove some boundaries. That let you get to know people from what they do (talk), not from how they look. You know, right straight to the inside. The cover doesn't matter.

 

Not many "fleshy friends" know I am such a sensitive person because the "outside" of me is like...a tough girl or even rough...I'm not sorry about that. It's...just irritating...I don't think I feel like explaining myself to everyone. I dont' have to.

 

Maybe you're the only one that knows me inside out, birdie. Becasue I've never talked to anyone like I talk to you. Talk through the heart of mine to the heart of yours...

You are right..Speaking here removes some boundaries...We see with our hearts and we explore our thoughts and we find out about each other and ourselves....Speaking from the heart is a good thing Tweaty..

I do it in my real life...when I meet someone that I really feel like sharing with...

You and I have a history....and........it is heart to heart..

I am glad that you can talk to me....with your heart.

Keep sharing your heart with me..

I treasure your friendship.

 

You never need to explain yourself....but sometimes we need to expose ourselves, only when we feel safe...See...I know you feel safe here with me....as safe as possible..

A beautiful heart like yours...........should be known...

but only if it's comfortable and if you have the opportunity and vehicle to do it..

otherwise...I shall be the only lucky heart to know you.

You're right about feeling safe. Yeah, we can share the best when we feel safe. That's when we're not afraid to get hurt because we the other side is gonna take good care of our hearts.

 

Yeah, I wish I can find more opportunities to feel more safe and trust and expose myself...

Trust takes time doesn't it? Sometimes it is instant...I think in that case, it is love at first sight...but that's rare..I trust more when I was younger... I find as time goes by, I trust less...Does that say something about me or the people around me?.

Good hearts I trust...When I love, I trust.

 

 

It says you've learned something. It's like you know your heart has a price and you're not giving it away to the one who doesn't deserve it.

 

Love at first sight would be nice if it happened both sides. If it's not, well...it would be sad.

 

Yes, trust takes time. Mostly. I think I have a pretty good hunch about people. Sometimes I look at a person and I know right away if he's naughty or nice. There are some guys in my office that I would never ever stay with him working overtime at night because I don't feel safe with that person.

 

Some guy just have a "protection aura". You can feel that he or she's so protective. Just like that guy. Just Benjamin. lol. Seems I was drawn to this kind of aura.  

I understand what you mean...The aura is goodness...like a spiritual goodness that can be trusted..and it permeates some people...I find that with Godly people, it shows in their eyes, their faces, there is no denying it and I trust them....Sometimes, I think the Holy Spirit speaks through them..This is a Christian belief so....you may not understand me...but...the countenance is different...like a innocense...childlike...Can you tell that I am drawn to that kind of childlike innocense...Hello my friend....You have it...but then....I feel close..I feel love...so ...........you're just good to me...like I feel as though you would protect me...and of course....I would always protect you.