onlineIn June 2007, our friends at EOPC re-ran the story of GRIDNEY/ aka YIDWITHLID - (please go read because this online predator's a piece of work aside from being a great education on how they ALL work.)
A year ago EOPC told us one of this online predator's victims was STILL being victimized by him (he called it "a falling out" ha ha ha) yet again and she wrote a blog with all the information on it called THE STUMBLING BLOCK. Its well worth a read because you can really see her devastation and emotional turmoil. Every victim could relate to her honesty!
Now readers -- compare this to the childish, rageful actions of someone you have told the truth about. Let's break it down; see how it compares.
1. "YOU STARTED IT!"... Even if You Didn't
GRIDNEY/ Yidwithlid wants this victim to control the internet and take down all posts about him - she tried. EOPC said no, we said no. Mostly because this victim (there was more than one) was not the INITIATOR of the exposes! But he's going to continue to give her a public beat down because beating up on defenseless people makes him feel like a big man.
She reports that she begged an MSN support site to remove her posts (the MSN Site REFUSED) about him when that site owner (femfree@yahoo.com) told her HE WAS SURFING HER NICKNAME AND COMING THERE TO READ EVERYTHING SHE WROTE!
Yet he's mad? Incredible!
This horse's behind names her and blames her for everything but global warming. He even says talking to her would "not be productive for either of them"... translation: she scares the crap out of me because she knows more about me than my wife & friends. So I have to smear her to keep my false personna intact!
Have you realized cyberpaths and predators smear & blame the person who probably scares them the most?
yidwithlid also committed copyright infringment against our old sites and EOPC. We had written to Blogger.com about it - so in response, this bully saids he's making a bunch of new hate sites about his victim. To RETALIATE FOR THE TRUTH BEING OUT THERE!
Why? Because he thinks: She is us. EOPC told us he thinks she is them too!
He's scared of her because she's that OMNIPOTENT? This is so funny because this victim does nothing for either us or EOPC. Nor was she the person who initiated his exposures.
But of course, anyone who exposes the almighty YIDWITHLID must be only her, right? (they all think they're almighty, don't they? Like Ed Hicks who tells everyone the wives he committed bigamy & fraud on set HIM up... LOL!)
This even after she asked everyone to stop bothering him. Unfortunately - can't control everyone now, can you?
Gridney/ Yidwithlid is also furious that we Linked to his website! Well, if he truly believes he's done nothing wrong & that HE is the victim - he should be glad for the free publicity!
CHECK OUT WHAT GRIDNEY/ Yidwithlid says to what apparently is one of his victim's friends on his hate blog about his victim:
Are you telling me that Elizabeth posted my picture on the internet including MSN newsgroups as NYC******.
Barbara signed the letter to the Rabbi At aish?
GRIDNEY/ YidwithLid TRULY IS CRAZY!
We have copies of what is on his victim's site:
the person at AISH he is talking about? The victim named ELIZABETH?
- She initially wrote this Rabbi at AISH
- GAVE the Rabbi this Barbara's email
- Barbara RESPONDED to the Rabbi's inquiry email about him.
Not initiated. RESPONDED.
GRIDNEY/ YIDWITHLID, like all cyberpaths - sees only what makes him look like the victim.
So Mr. GRIDNEY/ YIDWITHLID - Tell us - what were your victims supposed to do?: LIE & COVER MORE FOR YOU? ACT LIKE IT DIDN'T AFTER YOU DESTROYED TWO WOMEN? ACT AS COLD & UNCARING ABOUT WHAT YOU'D DONE TO THEM AS YOU?
Remember readers: To a cyberpath you are nothing but a hologram or an object, not a real person and certainly not entitled to feelings! You're there only to make them feel good. Like the porn babes so many of them are addicted to, their victims are supposed to GO AWAY with just a click. Cyberpaths look at you as a FREEBIE. They believe they owe you NOTHING. But you aren't nothing - you are SOMEONE!
(Reminder, that MSN group was a VICTIMS SUPPORT GROUP - so YIDWITHLID's just admitted HE'S a stalker!.
And that particular MSN support group? His picture is there - BUT HIS NAME IS NOT! So unless he has even MORE victims who might recognize him (he probably does) - he's angry over NOTHING!)
None of his targets EVER used that nickname he rants about on MSN. MSN however, knows he was SURFING and stalking his victims from board to board! Monitoring their every word and emotional pain. What a GREAT GUY!! (click here for more)
Try to keep this straight: This predator admits surfing a SUPPORT group. For one of his victims. When she was out of her mind with emotional pain, fear and trauma because of WHAT HE DID TO HER & other women (including his wife)?
And then:
HE's the angry one who wants his victims to JUST FORGET IT so he can lie, never apologize, smear them and continue duping his family & friends?
UNREAL
2. The Predator's Boundless Sense of Entitlement
How CRUEL can one Yid be? And he just wants his victims to FORGET about the trauma like it never happened? They are 'nutjobs' for having feelings and not being complicit with his untruthful version of things?
BALLSY, aren't these jerks!
GRIDNEY/ YIDWITHLID victimizes one innocent woman, slanders her, lies to her and when she figures his scheme out & that he's been using & abusing her for 2 years (the abuse sent her to the hospital more than once!!) -- he: GOES TO ONLINE SUPPORT GROUPS, FINDS & READS EVERYTHING THIS POOR TRAUMATIZED VICTIM IS VENTING ABOUT (WHAT HE PURPOSELY DID TO HER & HER FAMILY) AND LOOKING FOR SUPPORT ABOUT!
Be warned -- is yours doing this to YOU?
As a victim: you are 'out of your mind' looking for help and they are cyberstalking you reading EVERY WORD YOU ARE SAYING?
Gridney/Yidwithlid went so far as to post on one site (it was since removed because of the slanderous nature of the whole post by the site owners; who confirmed as much to The Exposer) :
"she tried to get me listen. No way bitch!"
So, Gridney/ Yidwithlid has proved he's a nasty bully. He doesn't even want to hear that Target #1 tried to do what he wanted. This liar had said prior to that, that he "didn't have time for hate." Now he's confirmed he's not just a bully - he's a pathological liar. He certainly made time for hate, when his Target #1 made time to attempt to make peace. (says alot about these cyberpaths, don't it?)
Gridney/ YidwithLid has gone so far as to accuse his target of being a PREDATOR (can you say PROJECTION?) and says she purposely put him on a porn aggregator (uh... Gridney/ Yid? Those are AUTOMATIC AGGREGATORS that troll the net for specific words... NO one PUTS you on one of those! You can't even JOIN one) Guess ole' Gridney/ Yidwithlid does an awful lot of ego surfing, huh?
GRIDNEY /YidwithLid even says the relationship was "her fault too" and she "played his game" with him. He neglects to mention that this victim genuinely cared for him while he LIED to her & had a hidden , destructive and malicious agenda towards her. (Don't they all?)
Is this starting to remind anyone of elementary school?
5. "I am the Victim Here"
His victim's site has a post which GRIDNEY/ Yidwithlid put on his own blog which whitewashes what he did. He never talks about his addiction to hookers, porn, phone sex, cybersex babes, etc. And twists what happened to make his victims look bad. "Mr. Innocent" paints himself as the victim. (playing victim is part of the profile of a sociopathic person)
6. Half-Baked Accountability
This narcissist even created a new profile on TECHNORATI (click here) to keep the hits to his hate site comin'!!! He removed his post of twisted reality from his blog and went right back to business as usual. Did we forget to mention he has NEVER taken down the hate site. hmmm.....
Like all emotional predators/ cheaters & womanizers - he targets the most vulnerable person for everything - even when she has clear, hard evidence what she did and didn't do.
Don't make a cyberpath THINK about what they've done!! Goodness no! They are beyond reproach.
No "I'm Sorry", no attempt to speak to his victims (got PLENTY of lame excuses not to) - just rage. He tells his victims to MOVE ON or GET OVER IT because he has. (of course he has -- LOL, why apologize for destroying someone's life) (classic pathological trait - no empathy or remorse for anyone but himself and the people he needs [family] to keep up the facade)
By the way, "moved on" is predator paramoralizing for "shut up about the truth so I can go back to banging whores and picking up vulnerable women online."
Let's look at Gridney/ YidwithLid's version of "moving on" - here's a message we would guess is for his victim.
Like many exposed cyberpaths - Gridney/Yidwithlid says we are "hurting his wonderful wife." No one was comparing his wife to his victims - EXCEPT HIM! His victims are good people. His wife is probably a good person. Only predators make those comparisons to attempt to further tear down the credibility of the victims!
He also says he and his wife have "WORKED IT OUT". Wouldn't you just LOVE to hear the bullcrap he told his wife about these normal, vulnerable women HE preyed on and sent to the hospital?? Not the prostitutes - the NORMAL ones. (probably the same bull he was saying about his wife to these women... since he follows the classic predator pattern)
7. Copyright Infringement (Playing Stupid, but...)
YID asserts because he was part of the chats published on EOPC that he owns the copyright. He did own part of the copyright to the chat only - but not our or EOPC's comments or commentary on the chats (which are wall to wall lies & manipulation on his part).
Cyberpaths HATE when you have verifiable evidence on them! (And often they give you that evidence THEMSELVES because they believe they will never get caught! -- WRONG)
He can't revoke the copyright either because it was published a couple years ago originally by EOPC and they extended their copyright to us - and the permission of only one of the chatters or emailers is necessary - and EOPC got that.
In fact: The Exposer did a little checking and back in March 2007, Sammy (yidwithlid's pseudonym) posted this on someone else's blog (along with some other thin-skinned sarcasm):
Posted by: Sammy Benoit | Mar 16, 2007 5:01:07 AM
A copyright may be embedded into a bitmap or jpeg file with software on a Mac or PC. Also, there are several companies that can officially help copyright images so that it is documented.
If these two things are done, and a quiet agreement is made with whomever uses it, it should be pretty easy to please everyone, and misuse of it would be easy to spot and stop. Well, hopefully.
So he does know about copyrights! Well, well, well.
We filed on him with IC3.gov and ChillingEffects.org.
What did we get for filing? Nastiness - and childish emails like these:
To: cyberpaths@gmail.com
Date: Sun, 24 Jun 2007 16:33:58 EDT
Subject: Re: http://stumblingtchatzkahs.blogspot.com http://stumblingtchatzkahs.blogspot.com/2007/06/XXX-XXX-makes-threat.html __________________
From: Yidwithlid@aol.com
To: exposer@37.com
Received-On: 06/26/07 5:54 PM
Subject: Re: Remove Content Please
NO
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From Yidwithlid@aol.com by mo-m22.mx.aol.com for exposer@37.com Tue, 26 Jun 2007 20:54:21 -0400 (EDT) Yidwithlid@aol.com X-Eon-Dm: dm08 Date: 06/26/07 1:54 PM
From: Yidwithlid@aol.com
To: exposer@37.com
Received-On: 06/26/07 5:54 PM
Re: Remove Content Please
No
But thanks for asking
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From: Yidwithlid@aol.com
To: exposer@37.com
Cc: support@blogger.com
Received-On: 06/28/07 3:47 PM
Re: http://stumblingtchatzkahs.blogspot.com
cool two emails from you today thank you so much.. If you are publishing stuff that I wrote..then who gave you the copywite...I didnt. and I didnt write them say so take off all references to me and I will take down my site
By the way Are you enjoying the Nut job convention [victim's name]?
Tonight I am going to open up three new stumling tchatches sites.
***************
These immature emails bring to mind this quote:
Innocence seldom utters outraged shrieks. Guilt does.
~ Whittaker Chambers
8. This is MY Club, You Aren't Allowed
Gridney/ Yidwithlid says he supposedly has VERY LITTLE CONTROL over a blogging aggregator to which both he & his Target 1 belong. (He says she's "following him"... LOL)
We read on her blog she was hacked May 2007. She won't tell us who did it - but we think we know. Gridney/ Yidwithlid says he has no idea what is going on & is outraged he and his cyber posse are even suspected! This victim of his? Never said his name or that she suspected him. Sounds like GUILT, Yid!
And... hmmm, he should be more careful what he HIMSELF puts on the net. The Exposer actually checks!!
GRIDNEY/ YidwithLid's got lots of blogs out there. Sounds like self-admitted narcissist Sam Vaknin. Can't get enough of themselves so they fill up the net with their rhetoric. Also creates a wider net for them to lure more innocents in to their web.
This one's from yidwithlid.typepad.com January 2007:
"January 21, 2007
New Peoples Choice Category: Most abusive of system
From two different sides of the world we wondered ....Who was crapping on our posts and yours. We had our lists of suspects but couldn't prove who was giving the bad grades ten at a time ...and how they were working sooooooo fast. Still have no clear proof. We do have some suspects . We googled the posts of one and noticed that there was one who would put up 8-9 posts one day, get them up over a hundred points take them down and repost the same articles the next day.
Then Sherlock Bagel Blogger found the a gun that was smoking even more. He put it in a much nicer way than me:
The awards known as the People's Choice awards seem to be finishing a lot quicker than most people expected.
I was going to hold on to this information until the results of the People's Choice Awards' became known, but I feel that it is not being honest to not divulge what I know.
I've debated with my self, my family and friends, should I or shouldn't I?
I also don't want to be accused of 'bitter lemons'.
I wrote a letter to another blogger and in the course of the letter I presented/made a table, now that I have made the table I feel something is seriously amiss.
I wont say what it is.
I'll leave the plain facts speak for them selves.
I have a PDF of the Google cache of 17th of Jan of the Israel forum's blog_best [rankings] which is now no longer available. [I have a copy and a html back up]
and I have a PDF of the 19 th Jan 2007 Israel forum's blog_best
Thats less than two days apart
What's the main difference? Well check it out you should be able to see it, it occurred over less than two days.
The person is relying on no one seeing anything or saying anything. Well I won't say anything if you don't.
Well here it is in Table form:
Rank 19th Jan Blog Name Votes tally on 17th Jan Rank on 17th Jan Votes tally 19th Jan
Date last activity
Tally count difference
Up or DownPlaces
1 The Last Best Place 5224 1 5503 18th 279 0
2 Freedom's Cost 3676 2 3734 16th 58 0
3 Yid With Lid 5916 3 6066 18th 150 0
4 Samson Blinded 2359 8 3579 18th 1220 +4
5 Daf Notes 3993 4 4199 18th 206 -1
6 Bagel Blogger 4737 5 4949 19th 212 -1
7 The Maggid of Bergenfield 1092 6 1113 16th 21 -1
8 Simply Jews 6818 7 6978 18th 160 -1
9 Baleboosteh 2367 9 2422 18th 55 0
10 JoeSettler 2253 11 2255 17th 2 +1
11 Sarah's View 4317 10 4366 18th 49 -1
12 The Way I See It 3250 12 3279 16th 29 0
13 Divrei Chaim 1385 13 1404 18th 19 0
14 Orthomom 3016 17 3102 18th 86 +3
15 Chayyei Sarah 1592 15 1592 14th 0 0
16 Ask Shifra 1600 16 1616 14th 16 0
17 The Muqata 2078 14 2140 18th 62 -3
18 Slightly Mad 1425 18 1425 14th 0 0
19 Israellycool 4319 19 4440 19th 121 0
20 Lazer Beams 2230 20 2315 18th 85 0
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Here are snapshots of sections of the webpages in question:"
He took 'snapshots'?
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Seems he and this BagelBlogger are into watching who comes and goes from this 'supposedly' unbiased aggregator and 'totally fair' blog voting. CLICK HERE TO LOOK WHO'S AT THE TOPS ON THE AGGREGATOR!!
Bagel Blogger VOTES: 13649
If you click the link to the aggregator? Yid has MORE VOTES THAN ANYONE ELSE - almost DOUBLE! And the top blogger list has numerous bloggers who haven't posted in weeks according to the dates.
Yid and Bagel Blogger are CAREFUL not to make themselves #1 and #2 - there's some rigging going on? - this aggregator apparently a fixed race for FRIENDS or ASSOCIATES OF THESE TWO AND THEIR COHORTS? Looks like they DO have some 'power' and control over this aggregator.
So Target #1? You don't need to tell us who hacked you - we know.
Gridney/ Yidwithlid also takes out his frustrations when he is hacked with more cybersilliness: HERE
9. Rules Don't Apply to ME!
Here's a quote from GRIDNEY (YidwithLid's) on 8/14/07 - on his website:
Let us guess - if someone is exposing YID for the predator, bully and liar he is - they're a terrorizer.
Sure he loves the web's freedom - to prey on trusting women and dispose of them when they become inconvenient with no remorse! (sounds like all of them! blame-shifting and paramoralizing)
But when HE is called out on his predatory & manipulative actions towards the vulnerable women he targets; women who actually CARE about him - he's a victim.
And if you want to prey on, lie to and manipulate vulnerable women and use them as sex toys to be tossed away when you're done - to YidwithLid - That's FREEDOM!
The Exposer knows - FREEDOM isn't FREE. And where's your responsibility, YidwithLid? For what you did to innocent people?
Did we mention cyberpaths are hypocrites?
10. Terrorizing, Dominating & Control by Temper Tantrum
Cyberpaths, Predators and all Pathologicals are like most abusers - its about Control. Particularly the control of the flow of information and truth. Let's take a peak at how this cyberpath does some of it:
GRIDNEY (aka YidWithLid) has his blogs set so:
1. you HAVE to have a Blogger account to comment;
