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Come home ...save some money always sounds good. Its not until that first argument o misunderstanding that you miss taking out your own garbadge, cleaning or walking over your own mess and thank God you have found you own new way home
Well my mom and I don't argue that much...I think we both had our fill of that a while ago. I came home because my life imploded last year and I really had no other place to go. It was never a per-ma-nent thing, however, and as soon as I could afford it I knew I'd be leaving.
...wonder if my kids will think the same about me someday..heh..if i ever have 'em
...wonder if my kids will think the same about me someday..heh..if i ever have 'em
I wonder and think the same thing. I have moved home 2-3 times and as much as I hit myself over the with no other options I knew my parents home was my home and God willing the last time was the last time....lol
Yeah I Know how that feels..I don't ever want to come back...God willing 
congrats that you made it, Warren Calvin! (tee, had to use that!)
Glad you can breathe again, but I know how difficult it is to get on your feet the first few months and have to eat rations!
I wish you all the best and happiness in your new home.
Glad you can breathe again, but I know how difficult it is to get on your feet the first few months and have to eat rations!
I wish you all the best and happiness in your new home.
Gracias 
welcome! if i were closer i would bring you a nice hot meal and a pie!
that'd work..but honestly I don't just eat cup 0 noodles. It is all I have at the house right now, but I eat at work too and we have a stocked kitchen. God has always taken care of me, even in my darkest and stupidest times heh.
Oh, I can certainly agree on that score! The Lord has been there for us when I had to do all kinds of things to make lentils and potatoes, beans and rice interesting!
But even if your larder was full, and you were my new neighbor, I would have still done that thing...
Glad you are coddled by the father, though! So am I, and it is such a good feeling!
But even if your larder was full, and you were my new neighbor, I would have still done that thing...
Glad you are coddled by the father, though! So am I, and it is such a good feeling!
I could go for pie
I like chocolate
I like chocolate
Sounds good; one chocolate pie coming up....
good for you
THanks..although I do need some furniture. All the furniture I had has been stripped out of my life in the last 4 years heh.
I don't ever want to move back home. Even if I'm in the worst debt imaginable. I would much rather live by myself than live at home. There's nothing wrong with home. It's just that, I just didn't want to be there anymore. So, I hear ya man.
well sometimes it is more then just debt; life can crumble on you and you need some place to go to heal. I know some people don't have parents that will let them do that, but my mom did. When I 'came to' as it were, I started wanting to get on with my life again.
Sorry. I guess I didn't relate it correctly. I suppose at one point after I moved I was in pretty bad emotional state. But I realized that much of it was my fault. I never should've opened my mouth. Seems to me that every time I do it gets me in trouble even I never meant any harm. Most of the time, I don't mean anything bad at all. But I seem to catch quite a bit of flak for it. Plus, I'm just not good at relating to people. So sometimes it seems double tough to live on my own when I can barely speak to people without seemingly making a mistake. Makes me wonder if I should be out here or not. Then the other half of me refuses to go back home. I guess I'm just stubborn.
OH don't worry I didn't take any offense at all; just clarifying my position Here is the thing: Just be yourself. At some point you have to stop worrying about what people think, good or ill. In life you are going to piss people off, especially in today's society when just saying the wrong thing puts people in to a hissy fit. And others will disagree with you but that doesn't mean they don't like you; people disagree. Some peoples home life are different then what I grew up with; I know that if I needed to I can go back and live with my mom for a little bit. That isn't the case with everyone, some people need to get out and stay out because going back would cause way to much emotional turmoil.
We are all unique and have our own gifts and weaknesses. The thing to do is highight the gifts while learning how to deal with the weaknesses. This is called maturing and not everyone matures in life.
Here is the thing: Just be yourself. At some point you have to stop worrying about what people think, good or ill. In life you are going to piss people off, especially in today's society when just saying the wrong thing puts people in to a hissy fit. And others will disagree with you but that doesn't mean they don't like you; people disagree. Some peoples home life are different then what I grew up with; I know that if I needed to I can go back and live with my mom for a little bit. That isn't the case with everyone, some people need to get out and stay out because going back would cause way to much emotional turmoil. We are all unique and have our own gifts and weaknesses. The thing to do is highight the gifts while learning how to deal with the weaknesses. This is called maturing and not everyone matures in life.
Oh I know. I'm just very sensitive to it all. I try to avoid talking to most people. I'm not even aware of what gifts I might possess but I know some of my weaknesses. I've worked on my weaknesses and it's helped me here lately. But I'm very careful in how I deal with people now. I used to say stupid stuff because I thought it was what everyone else did. Now I don't. So I deal with it as best I can. I still have a tendency to let things get to me and I worry a lot. It can be stressful.
Truth is, home life for me was alright. I just had goals I wanted to accomplish. But my emotional stress was coming from the job I was in previously. I quit the job almost as soon as I moved out and I was depressed for months after that. I called my mom crying. But I think in the back of my mind, even later on down the road to this point, this day, and any day after this, I refuse to go back home unless there is absolutely no other option. I think I have a bit of pride. lol
Truth is, home life for me was alright. I just had goals I wanted to accomplish. But my emotional stress was coming from the job I was in previously. I quit the job almost as soon as I moved out and I was depressed for months after that. I called my mom crying. But I think in the back of my mind, even later on down the road to this point, this day, and any day after this, I refuse to go back home unless there is absolutely no other option. I think I have a bit of pride. lol
hey that's great you have your own place! i get along so much better with my parents ever since i moved out when i was about 23.
i get along so much better with my parents ever since i moved out when i was about 23. Oh I moved out..originally..when I was sixteen.
Then I moved back in.
Then I moved out.
Then back in.
This time it was totally temporary and only cause my live imploded on me. I am enjoying my own room though heh.
Then I moved back in.
Then I moved out.
Then back in.
This time it was totally temporary and only cause my live imploded on me. I am enjoying my own room though heh.
hehe cool
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