Well, he hasn't paid child support in about two months.  The bill collectors are calling me and have my phone tied up.  What can one do?  I keep writing to stay sane. 

 

I keep looking for ways to make money writing. 

 

I am waiting for the agency ( I interviewed with)  to call me back.  I believe that they will call me after the new year.  I was the only person that interviewed for the job after all!!!  Not too many bilinguals up here and that helps. 

 

The stomach aches are increasing in frequeny and I think it may be the stress.  But seriously, how can you get rid of the stress when you can't pay the bill collectors that are stressing you in the first place. 

 

I still refuse to be defeated.  I will overcome, even if I have to sell everything off on ebay.  This year, I am determined to get out of debt and become self sufficient.  By all means necessary.  Whether I have to do a million surverys, work two jobs or sell everything on ebay....I will do it.

 

So, what are you determined to change in this new year 2006? 

 

 
   

 


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doot on
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Good for you.  Ebay.  I want to learn to sell on Ebay.
supermom2005 on
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My friend used to sell on ebay.  She used to sell items from  her home, like a flea market or garage sale.  She would make several hundred dollars a month.  What exactly did she sell?  She would tell her husband (who collected moives) that anything that she found with dust on it , would go on ebay.  She sold his movies (VHS and DVD), books, her son's clothing (that he outgrew) and toys he had lost interest in.  It was lucrative for her as a part time income.  Now, my sisters boss (he's a lawyer), his wife is a bargain hunter and is always on the look out for sales on Prada, Versace, etc.  She buys things on clearance and then sells them for a profit on ebay.  He tells my sister that she does this and makes a few thousand dollars a month.  (Well, excuse us?!)  His sister also does this and makes a few thousand a month.  Well, if you figure out how much a full time job brings home at a moderate $11.50 an hr, 40 hours a week, 52 weeks a year, you get.....$1840.00 a month.  From that you need to subtract gas, child care, lunch, and apparel you need to purchase that is appropriate for your job.  Trust me, the ebay route is much better! 
doot on
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Absolutely.  I know I could make money -- I just have to figure it out and do it.  I've read so many accounts of people making lots of money -- even quitting their full time jobs!
kingzjewel on
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just watch out for the IRS cuz they have now decided to crack down on ebayers.
mrsminer on
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I so very love eBay.  I bought my wedding dress on eBay from a jaded bride for $50.00.

 

As for the bill collectors...you have the right to tell them to stop calling you. You can explain that you are aware of the debt, however you need to make arrangements before you can do anything.  You should only have to tell them once.  If not, next time one calls, ask to speak with a supervisor (I used to be in collections for Wells Fargo).

 

I am determined to change my organization, or lack thereof.  I am very organized at work and with juggling my hobbies, but at home?  Ugh.  My house has certainly seen better days!

 

Best

 

 

mrsminer on
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Ahem...like I was saying befor eI was rudely interuppted by a wandering thumb....

Best of luck to you in 2006!!

Take care,

MrsM

supermom2005 on
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You too. And remember what I said FINISH THE RACE!!!!  You can do it!

 

Enjoy your New Years with your hubby, kids, family and friends!!!!!!!!!

supermom2005 on
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Thanks for the info.  I will try to use it, if I answer the phone that is....
mrsminer on
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 Yeah you gotta be sick of hearing them call first, or it won't work....LOL
kingzjewel on
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our financial status and living conditions.
revcathian on
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Keep the faith, dear supermom. I'm sorry for your tummy aches. I get them when I'm stressed, too, but only you know if you should see a doc for that. I know, it means money to go to the doctor. I know. Catch 22. But you are worth it. I repeat, you are worth it. I will keep you in my prayers, along with my other mindsay friends who are also struggling at this time of year. Remember, His eye is on the sparrow, and He's watching over you. Psalm 139.
supermom2005 on
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Thanks for the prayers.  Prayers are priceless and can do so much more than anything else. 

   I got yelled at by my sisters and Mom.  They want me to see a doc and I will...next week.  The kids were off from school and it would have been difiicult with the baby.  My tribe wouldn't have fit in the waiting room. 

By the way, that is one of my favorite songs.   Thanks for the words of encouragement.  I can always count on you for edification. 

Happy New Year!!!!

hosking on
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Money for my own writing would be nice to see.
supermom2005 on
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Me too!!!


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