be there to listen to her if she's depressed. i've had cutting problems too..and if you list out my probles they are far more worse than hers. and for the cutting problem,you get a thick wrist band kind of thing thats made of rubber. ask her to wear that. she cant cut even if she wants to..trust me i use it..and it helps. and people like us (your friend and me) need peole who will listen to them. be there for them. and i think your doing a great job in that!
eek that is not a good position to be in. I hope she does get help. THe first step is realizing she needs help from an outside source and not to take it on all by herself.
Your a good friend.