Are we having fun yet?
by
Jan Watts
December 1, 2000

Most of my life, I have been told that Christians are boring and have too many rules. Our atheist friends would love to tell us that we never have fun. I beg to differ. It's a matter of opinion.

Do Christians really have more fun? More fun than who? The little boy next door playing in his sand box or the little girl playing with her Barbie doll?

Let's compare apples with apples. Is the average adult Christian having more fun than his neighbor who doesn't believe in a heavenly Father and a savior?

Is the Christian teenager having less fun than his friends who are having premarital sex and getting AIDS? Is the teenager that abstains from sex having less fun than the teenage girl who gets pregnant at 15?

Let me ask you this. What fun are we really missing? Are we missing getting drunk at a party and throwing up? Are we missing driving home drunk after a night in a bar and risking being stopped by the police and losing our driver's license? Or better yet, do we miss having a car accident and maiming or killing an innocent child?

What are Christians really giving up? If you go by the 10 Commandments, we are giving up the things that cause unhappiness in the lives of most people. We are giving up adultery, murder, lying, stealing, cheating and disrespecting our parents. We also give up using our creator's name in vain and having idols. Another thing we give up is working 7 days a week because we set aside a day of worship. Since the God of Abraham designed us, he must know that we need to rest every 7th day for our health sake.

If we don't commit adultery, our spouses aren't caused undue heartache and grief. We can keep the vows we made on our wedding day and not cause undue suffering for our children caused by divorce.

If we respect our parents, we don't cause them unhappiness. If we don't lie, then we won't forget the truth. If we don't steal, then our neighbors can trust us and we spare ourselves imprisonment.

There is one more benefit of being a Christian and believing in a savior. It's called eternity. Where do you want to spend your eternity? There are only two choices, heaven or hell.

I don't think anything can replace the joy I feel when I am in the presence of my creator. There is no artificial high created by man than can give you the high you feel when your heavenly Father holds you in is arms.

So let me ask you again, do Christians have more fun? Are we having fun yet? I think so.


Copyright 2000  Jan Watts

 
   

 


 
 
oktoberfest on
Re: Are we having fun yet??
Interesting.

However -- I think it must be said that there are many who hold to a moral code -- one which advocates living a healthy lifestyle for oneself as well as for one's interpersonal relationships -- who would not identify as being "Christian."


premierejan on
Re: Are we having fun yet??
I like the term believer myself.

The name Chrisitan lumps a lot of people together that are on totally different levels and beliefs.

First time I've heard from you. What does your healthy lifestyle entail?

oktoberfest on
Re: Are we having fun yet??
I, too, prefer the term "believer."  Whether one believes in a singular God, a Trinity, an entity known as Allah or Vishnu, or even a series of spirit guides shows some form of belief -- one can be seen as a believer.

I also believe that a "believer" can also be one who believes in the sanctity of morality and ethics from a humanist approach. Being civil and respectful to each other for the sake of being civil and respectful, not because it is mandated through a spiritual power. They engage in charitable acts because it's simply their belief that it is the way to propogate the world correctly.

As for me? I identify as Jewish - mostly because my parents raised me Jewish. But it has less to do with a belief in God as it does a belief in a community standard.  I don't pretend that I'm even close to perfect in following every single law and custom of the Jewish community, but I do my best.

My healthy lifestyle entails being a good guy to my family and friends, as well as to people in general. I don't eat as well as I should or go to the gym nearly enough, but I strive to do better.

premierejan on
Re: Are we having fun yet??
Do you try to eat Kosher?  I don't eat pork or seafood.

oktoberfest on
Re: Are we having fun yet??
Yes. I follow most of the laws of Kashrut. Which go far beyond not eating pork and seafood. It also involves separation between milk and meat, using different dishes and utensils for dairy and meat products, eating meat which has gone through the proper slaughter and preparation - overseen by an authority of Jewish supervision, etc.

As I said, I'm not perfect in everything I do with it, but I try.

premierejan on
Re: Are we having fun yet??
I worked for a Jewish man for 5 years, I hadn't started eating differently then but I was very careful not to eat a ham sandwich in the office and offend him.

I went to a church that last 7 years that kept the feasts and ate Biblically.

I don't worry about meat and milk because I don't drink milk and I eat very little red meat. Mostly chicken, turkey and fish.

Not eating seafood is a major deal for me because I spent 25 years in the New Orleans/Mississippi coast area. You could literally watch the shrimp boats coming in.

oktoberfest on
Re: Are we having fun yet??
Interesting... 

I don't ever get offended by people eating unkosher food in front of me. After all - it's my custom, not theirs.

Now if you got into my face from sundown Wednesday to sundown Thursday and shoved ANY food in my face which you were eating, then I might get a bit irritated. But that's mostly just the "being hungry during the fast of Yom Kippur" thing.

premierejan on
Re: Are we having fun yet??
LOL  :o)

Thanks for reminding me that's this Wed.

whispertales on
Re: Are we having fun yet??
You make the assumption that Christians are actually obeying these rules, and that non-believers are not. 
premierejan on
Re: Are we having fun yet??
Sorry it comes out that way. I like to use the term believer.

Christian is a used way too loosely because there are so many different beliefs and levels of committment.


 
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