A Love Story about REAL PEOPLE

I have seen many couples in my life, some that should be together, some that can't be together, some that wish they were together, some that wish they never had gotten together, some that hope they get together someday, some that always knew they would get together, some that are very unlikely pairings to the outsider, some couples like my ex husbands aunt/uncle who danced at our wedding and everyone just stopped to watch because they just danced so well together that they looked like they had been dancing together forever, but the one that I witnessed on my recent trip to Maryland has left my heart in a state of absolute awe. The couple I am speaking of is Dismh8 & Resable . Considering this is the first time that Kim and I just met them, it was uncanny how we both felt like we were watching a perfectly matched pair in action from the minute we joined them. They compliment each other in so very many ways, it was just so nice being around them. Theirs was not a loud, scream in your face type of love, nor was it a meek and humble type of love. It was solid, beautiful and very self assured. They both have very good conversational skills so it wasn't like one carried the whole show! They had their little private jokes and "ha ha" moments while we were there, but even when you were in the midst of them sharing those, you never felt that uncomfortable uneasiness that one can feel when you are with a couple that seems so much in love. We never felt like we were intruding on their "couple time". We felt like we were a welcome addition to it. Yet the underlying "love" they have for each other was always there. Dev is very much a gentleman in his treatment of Resa (well, all of us girls actually) but most especially with Resa. Always offering his hand, or arm when we were out walking, always looking out for her...just warmed my heart! Resa on the other hand, was not a typical "gushy" female either. She was warm, confident, and loving. A sense of pride over "my guy" yet not territorial the way women can be was so refreshing, it was such a pleasure to be around. We got to hear how they were friends before they started dating (I highly recommend it) and we witnessed the bond they have. There is not a bond any tighter, and they are very secure in their love for each other. I myself have not ever experienced or been in this type of HEALTHY AND LOVING relationship and often times in my life when I have been the 3rd wheel with another couple, I have felt the want/need to steal a little bit of the spotlight/attention for myself and I know I feel jealous and whiney about what I have never had...you know the old "why can't I have someone like that?" This has to be the first time in my entire adult life where I was in the presence of a man who is not only attractive, but attentive, kind, gentlemanly, and just a pleasure to be around (Resa, you know he's a keeper!) and I felt no urge to be anything other than glad that they both welcomed me into their home/world.  It was so fun for both Kim and I to just enjoy watching them love each other...the funny little things they say to each other, the unspoken things they already know about each other, the stolen looks, the way he held her hand, or the sweet and affectionate way he snuggled his head into her shoulder when he was getting tired when we girls were just getting started on the girl talk and chatter.........

I have to say honestly, that if this is what real, healthy love is like, I want some!  However...if I can't have something that is just as real as what Resa and Dev have...then I'd rather be alone! 

Ladies and gentlemen.......This is a real love story!!!  I could go on and on and I actually feel like this blog is not even adequate to describe what they have, it pales in comparison to what Kim and I witnessed!  It was just too incredible and left my heart forever touched!  Thank you two for sharing that with us!