From the beginning of time man has wondered about what lies beyond the doors of death. Fearful of the "unknown" he has reached into his deepest imagination trying to find what lies beyond the boundaries of this life.
Some envision a life reincarnate in another body but with the same spirit or life essence.
Others envision a great deity waiting to judge and condemn you to an eternity of darkness and pain in a lake of fire or an eternity of paradise with no pain or sorrow. Still others see an army of ghosts destined to walk the earth haunting those who remain.
But today I want to pose to you this question: What if there is no "after life" of any kind? What if death is the end, your over and done, kaput, finished, your parking meter expired for good? then what ? What would this mean?
Maybe thoughts of an after life aren't so healthy. Maybe they cause you to procrastinate, to postpone really living this life to it's fullest?
I hear others speaking of how wonderful heavens going to be, and how they can't wait to be with Jesus! But to you I pose this question. If you believe in Jesus and what he taught do you not believe he is with you now? And if your savior and you are one in the spirit isn't your heaven here and now?
And those who are waiting for the "next life " to be perfected as in reincarnation, I say whats a matter with perfecting yourself now? can't you get started in this life to be the best you can be and do the best you can do?
If there is no after life you may be throwing your one and only chance to truly live away on a  a bet or a gamble.
I think you should live this life like it's the only one you have or ever will have. See it as your one chance to get things right, to make your mark, to live and love and experience all life has to offer!
Maybe each second would seem more precious, each kiss, each hug a priceless treasure. Maybe we would walk more slowly, listen more carefully, love more deeply and laugh more often. Maybe we would be slow to anger and quick to love. If a war meant dying forever, never seeing your sons or daughters or family again, maybe then it would not seem so heroic and noble.
My challenge to you is this. For the next week think about your life as being from now till the day you die and nothing beyond that point. Today or tomorrow could be your last day...forever. How do you want to "live " it?
 
   

 


 
 
bahamat on
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Afterlife thoughts can be a way of coping for people who, for one reason or another, feel they cannot enjoy life, but yet must still stay alive. Regardless of reality people do warp their own perspectives to cope, and have to realise, and accept reality, but can only do it as they gain security in their ability to handle a godless life. There shouldn't need to be problems coping in the first place though, but since there are, I wonder if it's almost a good thing that people can shelter from reality, especially if existence is so limited.

If this is it, then I guess only the present can matter, but even that doesn't need to matter, since present becomes past anyway, so even if I didn't enjoy life it wouldn't matter because I couldn't reflect on it - I might as well enjoy it if I can, but I think not at the expense of any impact I can make at making it more easily enjoyable for the next generation - as they are the ones who it matters most to - with all those years of life.
I find some peace in the idea it'd cease to matter... and also that I might not have to burden eternity - because... would you want to? - perhaps, if you can eliminate any feelings like boredom, so that it can be enjoyed, but while still having enjoyable things. Anyway it is good that you encourage people to live their lives to the full Be sure also that you can accept the eventual end of life, and all the good things about it
schencka on
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I agree -- belief in an afterlife is sentimental in nature, maybe even maudlin.
My challenge to you is this. For the next week think about your life as being from now till the day you die and nothing beyond that point.
Too late -- I've been doing this since becoming an atheist in 1996!

However, instead of carpe diem, I find that a philosophy of doing what's right to be better. Although the post above skewers reincarnation instead of "Heaven," I do like the Buddhist concept "right livelihood."
nyourfacegrace on
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I find it interesting mans fear of  fear of dying. I think it is in some cases a fear of living. Living in the now and embracing what the day holds ,whatever it is.
Even I think it would be nice to have another life after this one but I don't count on it.It's funny what  be a "free thinker" will do isn't it? It actually seems to take the fear of the unknown away.
You know heaven is actually another form of "reincarnation". You get a new life and anew body...sounds like reincarnation to me!
bahamat on
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And belief without evidence has no necessary bearing on reality anyway... I consider afterlife to be a 50:50 possibility, I just don't know - so I can't really reach a conclusion till I know more!
nyourfacegrace on
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You know, I'm ok with dying. My body has been donated to science ( that seems to be a thing we freethinkers do) and it's a natural process. I've lived my life fully so I'm at peace. Most everything I've wanted to do I have done. (I want to share some of my adventures here one day). I think there's peace in the thought of eternal rest.
And hey, if I happen to wake up o n the other side...I love surprises!
deterance on
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Can't we just be happy with what we're given even if this is just it?
nyourfacegrace on
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For some life is just to short or to hard...they feel the only just thing the universe  can dish out it a "do over" .Unfortunately, when people believe there is a "do over" they don't try as hard.

 
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