I wonder, if women ruled the world ( every country ruled by women) would  there be war? Would the economy be better? Would education be better? Would it be any different all all or more of the same? Would it be worse?
I know I hate war and violence but in a mans world it seems to have become necessary. Would women be more likely to talk, work it out over a latte? Women like to talk more than men. would we be better negotiators?
Are most women better economizers since they  are usually in charge of the families budget?
What are your thoughts? Would women make better world leaders?
 
   

 


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saikotikgunman on
Re: If women ruled the world
Experience leads me to believe that we'd have the same problems we do now. Women are human, and thus subject to the same vices and virtues that men are. Since power attracts only a certain personality type, even if the female gender averages less aggressive than the male gender, the most ambitious and bold, thus aggressive, women would be the ones who rise to power.
nyourfacegrace on
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I'm sure your right there. the political world is "cut throat" to say the least.
But keeping that in mind the same would hold true for men.But I didn't feel Jimmy carter was all that bold or aggressive and yet he managed to win a term.
I hope I live long enough to see a woman in the white house. it will be interesting.
saikotikgunman on
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Jimmy Carter is one of history's odd quirks, and there's a reason he didn't make two.
nyourfacegrace on
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Yes, men of peace don't make it far do they.Usually , they get shot as with Lincoln and King.
saikotikgunman on
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Lincoln was a dirty Republican bastard in bed with war profiteers. He's a prototypical George Bush, and the first president to completely destroy the right of habeas corpus.
nyourfacegrace on
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I will bow to you on this one until I have time to study. Honestly,I am no student of Lincoln but you have sparked my curiosity to learn more!
namastelaoshi on
I've been sparked too.
"Lincoln was a dirty Republican bastard in bed with war profiteers."

 

Damn! Who knew? I do not know when or if I will find the time to research this but my curiosity has been piqued by a respected source.

omgwtf on
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Depends.

 

Female gender, too, has their Bush-whacked equivalent, as well as quite balanced gals to offer.

 

Let's see...Femmes like you and I, who have a Roseanne way of dealing with children and annoying would-be-helpful-if-they-had-a-brain counsel...great at budgeting, juggling many tasks and drama llama incidents at once, lack of sleep and a very "show me the evidence so I can study and decide for myself" & "Fuck politically correct, if it needs to be said and it's true, just say it or stfu." ...Hmmm..we'd do well. We're not all about money or power, keeping up with the joneses, though it would be a bitch for the poor guy left to trying to stick us into dresses..every day..for 4 years? Ha! It'd be the pressed slacks pantsuits of men for me before I'd be chiffonned and floofed of my own decision,lol! Us, Roseanne, that 80 year old tiny gal who beat the guy with a bat (woo, granny!) and....ah fuck....hmmm.... .

 

Then we got us some would be down home gals if they weren't above mid-class, never had to budget a damn thing before really, but would handle doing it with pure math skill and a plethora of nice diplomas and degrees to make her stand out as a very educated & personable woman - Hillary, Michelle, Oprah, and hundreds more....

 

And then there's the poor lost souls who, upon escaping the 3rd ward dubbed the "whacko wing" of the hospital decide they're president material cause they can see the White House in a snow globe from the back of their rubber room.  Sadly, there's a huge fricking lot of the dingbats, hussies, and outright scary bitches - *PALIN* <--- she's obvious, so I wrote her as such..I think she's their mascot...?  Let's see..oh, there's gotta be alot....

 

Shit. Now all I can think of is Russian leader looking over the fence toward Alaska thinking "I could hit her right between her eyes from here - bye bye neighbor! That's backyard protective diplomacy right there, I'd offer him cookies if he'd just get it over with - he can even say, " I saw a rabid wolf, foaming at the mouth and just plain nuts, and was trying and planning to attack the White House in 4 years - so I shot it to protect you.." in defense - why not, it'd be true - and man, I'd  SO  love Russia then

 

So group one would have some fighting but not war - tight itemized budget, laws that are unlawful and illogical get thrown out..a simplistic, get everybody on the same page, I don't want your drama and no, you can't keep sponging money off me damnit! Philosophy.

 

Group two would fit in better, better at fundraising, can schmooze the corporate big-wigs, and still hug their kids and kiss them goodnight - and be societally trained enough to be able to handle indescretions like a bj under the podium with a tint of grace....Very nice...

 

The last...well holy fuck! 'Nuff said - I'm wondering if wolves can be trained to fly helicopters and fire laser trained gun rounds at such targets as this crowd...

 

I nominate Roseanne.

nyourfacegrace on
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I would make a horrible president I am afraid in many ways. Oh sure, I would be for complete human rights but I would also be for complete separation of church and state. I would be totally partisan and anti war military would be for defense only . I would impose a flat tax with no refunds, legalize pot and prostitution, I would work on relations with Canada and Mexico ,repeal don't ask don't tell, universal health care, make right to die with dignity legal,and no tax exempt churches. Sex offenders , murders and rapist would get life without parole, prisoners would work 6 days a week to pay back society whether in county or federal prisons.
Thats just a start of what I would want to do and it would piss a bunch of people off. I'm sure someone would shoot me because the only gun control I would pass would be on offenders (those committing a crime with a gun...automatic life)or illegals (only law abiding citizens should be able firearms in this country and they should be in plain sight not concealed.
I nominate Gretchen!
saikotikgunman on
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Hey, I'd support many of those policies!
omgwtf on
Re: If women ruled the world
I keep telling her she needs to train some hopeful to think for the majority who give a shit, or run herself - wouldn't her plans just be *exactly* what we need?

 

Mom, you need to be less activist and more active in beating your theory into the present administration...at least that way, there's a fighting chance we'd get at least some things that are helpful, overdue, and *make sense.*

 

Wow..did I just say government could make sense? Sorry, I haven't taken my reality pill today...we all know that's a fairy tale!

 

(I do wish someone likeminded would push these things, but in the rest I hope you know I'm joking and not being a bitch..I save that for 'those' people,lol!)

nyourfacegrace on
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Ah sweetie...we can do it together!I call them all the time, write letters, sign petitions but they all have agendas  and special interests.It will take many voices crying out loudly to be heard in Washington or any other government office for that matter.
But here's another thing , most Christians would hate my plan (if I were president) because I would give the GLBT community the equal rights and privileges that they deserve as humans, citizens and tax payers of this country. And most do not believe in a woman's right to chose or the right to die with dignity which I favor. Though I would make free and easy access birth control a top priority to keep the use of abortion to a minimum.Human right's would be the foundation of my platform.
agirlnamedgoo on
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World would definitely be a better place if it were ruled by women!! lol
bahamat on
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Women are no different than men, except for interests, I think (although I could get stuck between a rock and a hard place for thinking that lol). They both live in the same scales of good+bad, love+hate, power hungryness+giving, etc - it's not fair or accurate for society to hold generalised prejudices like "women are nicer" or "men are stronger" as there's almost no pattern, and it can't really be compared anyway because they have different ways of expressing those attributes.

Women do like to talk, but that's casual. Male social bonding over playing snooker or drinking is more just by spending time +support as 'mates'. Both would help develop the casual friendship between national leaders of the same gender. As for professional negociation or financial expertise, that'll depend on direct experience of the individual - there are people in both genders who like talking, leading, maths, finances, etc - even in chem class too it seemed pretty 50:50.
nyourfacegrace on
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I think you and "saikotik"  are right. I think if women held different positions of power they would act the same as men for the most part. I think that because they have been held back and down they have learned to be submissive.
As a women who adores her children and would never send them into harms way, I don't believe a women would be as likely to go to war. We know how hard it is to make and carry them little critters. No that a father doesn't care but they tend to see war as "glory and honor". I see it as "gory and horrible" but unfortunately often necessary.
My son was in the army reserves six years. His dad was proud of him, I thought he was nuts  and always afraid he would die in some war.
It will be interesting to see when the day comes and a woman holds the highest office.I just hope it isn't some religious nut job woman...just as I don't want some religious nut job man in there.
bahamat on
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Mhmm! I hope that gender nolonger is an issue in opportunities or pay or position + they're not held back (and without using "positive discrimination" to achieve equality targets either). I think dominance + submission shouldn't exist at all really - no one person should ever control another. Even though women to some degree still do lack the full perks, women do have have power in other ways that isn't always recognised - like it's often the woman who decides whether or not to go out with someone - they are the judge, and choose between 'applicants' like an employer is when you apply for a job - I wish women could take a more proactive role if they wanted to, and thankfully it's starting to happen a little more. Also because as is if a woman was too shy, that wouldn't stop guys going to them, but if a guy was shy, he can't go up to girls and basically they're screwed. When I favour equality I favour it on all grounds, but there will always be more men 'hunting' because of the sex drive difference.

And yep, I wish more people could care about protecting children like that! You're right that men are more likely to favour glory, or honour, or sacrifice themselves for a cause - almost like how many more suicide bombers are male - and why so many more men seem to want to fight - it's almost like a glorified suicide while still getting the chance to destroy stuff - because destruction for some reason does seem to appeal to men (like stock car/banger racing, even liking dinosaurs because they eat stuff). I don't fully understand it but I think men have a sort of energy they want to use up - an energy that psyches them up, stops them from relaxing, etc, although perhaps to some degree that (and the mother's protectiveness thing) might cross genders. lol to your adaption to glory+honour!

There's been some examples; merkel, thatcher, elizabeth I, victoria (I wouldn't really say queenie now because she doesn't really control the country, come to think of it maybe not victoria either because that was after the monarchy lost the english civil war)
nyourfacegrace on
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Unfortunately is still is.equal pay for equal work hasn't happened yet (or so I've been told by my doctor friend).
And some women still cower down under men. That whole love, honor and "obey" thing.
I know many fundamentalist Christian women who still hold their man as their master..instead of their equal. That whole Proverbs 31:10-31 thing.
bahamat on
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That all has to change I think, the very concept of obedience / dominance should end
As well as the other changes I mentioned I think, so equal really does mean equal
nyourfacegrace on
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Agreed my friend agreed. But how do you change the church? They are a stubborn lot you know...even when it's for their own good.
bahamat on
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Don't lose heart! I think life itself runs against church beliefs - which is why they have to resist what life's telling them + invest energy to be able to maintain those, but eventually they'll run out of willpower and eventually come crashing with force (in my case going too far and believing I was hellbound and oppressed by over-restricting my life) - so they're spelling their own destruction and burning themselves out in a way and we just have to emphasise what life is saying to speed the whole thing up and make it as painless a transition as we can for them + all involved.

It is hard and I try to be quite stealthy about how I present ideas to them so they'll be willing to think about them, and can't easily argue with them because it's out love for human kind, or caring for them - like using Jesus as an example of someone who didn't deserve what happened to him. We shouldn't have to jump through so many hoops (and them not even try), but it helps! It's sometimes almost impossible to avoid them interpreting it in a hostile way if they're determined, that's the problem I had with dox. We can't change the church but we can hopefully syphon people off one at a time!
[The people who propogate any brainwashing unwittingly serve a purpose too - they will speed people up in going the religious burning out thing, but without much care for their health. We all have to go through brainwashing once to gain immunity I suspect.]
nyourfacegrace on
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My way to confront them is through their own word ...the bible. I have read it through countless times and so I know it well. It seems most of them don't read it at all.
If they can't follow the word they preach how can they expect any one else to follow it?
And if read closely the bible disproves it's self over and over as the "infallible word of God".
Actually , sometimes their quite amusing, like little children telling stories. "once upon a time...and they all lived happily ever after!"The end!
bahamat on
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You have a facility I don't! (I've never read it even when I considered myself christian and I don't even own a bible! lol - not that there seems much point reading it now) You're right on that most don't read it - they're lazy - I guess they like to just be told what to do so they don't have to soulsearch or read, try to 'look' like a good student, by going to church, basically give the image of someone who deserves heaven without actually earning it.

Exactly, they choose what to listen to and what not to, they cling to hope, they indulge in the idea of rightousness, they fear anything that threatens that lifestyle (blissful ignorance lol) - I think to them maybe belief allows them to trick their own minds like that - and since it can be enforced it allows the religion to be authoritatian, which they think saves them from having to find their own way
nyourfacegrace on
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The life Jesus told them to live is certainly not the one you see them living!Jesus was all about, giving, forgiving, sharing. He was non money..non government...a pacifist. he cared not for possessions and condemned no one.
The church sees no profit in it's parishioners being poor so they twist the words to suit their needs.
If there was a god and Jesus in heaven, I wonder what they would think if they looked at the church today with it's huge elaborate cathedrals, adorned with expensive furnishings, big screen tvs, preachers draped in fine linens and gold jewelry living in large houses and driving expensive cars. While the church is surrounded by starving widows and poor people!
Oh ow...we have drifted totally of subject havn't we??LOLL! Maybe I should change the title to "If God really really was the head of the church".
Sorry.
We can continue this on my blog for today...we'll be right on target!
bahamat on
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Don't worry! and coolio.
This is a good site, it's religious, but uses NDE info and seems quite sensible for the most part, and might be a good intermediary for christians, getting them to focus more on the positive things, worth a look
http://www.near-death.com/experiences/origen12.html
Tchmymnd3 on
Re: If women ruled the world
I think I have to agree with Mike, but I would like to think that if women ruled, there would be more focus on protecting our children.

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