
The only real organization I have right now is that I put the people that I know that I like under one section, I put the blogs that are useful or otherwise not really people like Birthdays and Topbloggers under a different section, and everyone else basically goes into this purgatory. haha
Even though it is fibbing for humor's sake, I am uncomfortable playing the sexist card.
I felt uncomfortable today for sexual joke/comraderie reasons.
We drove into work and on the corner was a student walking to class. She was wearing a shorter skirt and had nylons and black heeled shoes. Chilly was looking the other way so I said, "On the left, curb..." since I know he has a things for nyloned legs.
He was slow to look and we passed her quickly.
As I said, "Nevermind" I suddenly felt dirty, but only in an intellectual way as I realized I had objectified the woman. Either that, or I was still sleepy.
Personally, I have trouble with the word "objectified" because my brain doesn't stop at just thinking about the pretty parts of her body. By the time I'm done looking I've got myself married to her. I didn't turn her into an object for my pleasure - I turned her into my wife.
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