I bought a gift for Rob...

he complained, said he didn't understand why I would buy it for him. 

When I tried to explain why it was special, he told me that he still didn't get it, and then became argumentative.

 

I said, forget it...

 

I will take it back if you don't like it. 

He said, I didn't say that I didn't like it,

Its just not something you get for Valentines day. 

I said, just forget it...

He says, Its not Christmas, and it's not my birthday...this gift makes no sense...

So I repeated myself...

" When I saw it, it made me laugh...remember that time you did..." and so on. 

Last time I checked...when someone gives you a gift...You say thank you...

not, This has nothing to do with Valentines Day...

what were you thinking...

 

I said softly...

 

"It reminded me of the good times we used to have together...sentimental does not have to be romantic."

 

I went to bed...

 

I don't think I could have continued the conversation...

 

 

Now you know why I associate Valentines day with death... It obviously kills me slowly....

 

 

 
   

 


 
 
d72fish on
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honestly....long sigh go in the kitchen take his favorite mug and ...nah not a nice thing,,,,,,,ok just breahthe and doubl ehis dosage
nicholeo on
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LOL... I don't know if he was just oblivious to his stupidity...
d72fish on
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he was its called BEING A MAN...lol
d72fish on
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why do you think i stopped before i said trash he mug...he cant help it sister hes touched by the man disease....lol
nicholeo on
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LOL... yeah... that is it... the mans disease... *chuckles*
d72fish on
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in reality thats all it is he knows no better....
nicholeo on
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See... He is evolving into an asshole...he used to be the sweetest person I knew...

He was considerate, and thoughtful...now I don't know what the hell he is.

d72fish on
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maybe confused hug it will get better
nicholeo on
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hmmm.  Today is a new day... I am not going to dwell on it if I don't have too.  I can't let it get to me anymore.
d72fish on
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no you cant and i bet you $ i dont have it will be better!
nicholeo on
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LOL... yeah... I need to get back to work now... thanks, and have a good night-

alright?

d72fish on
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k b well
nicholeo on
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you too...

satan75 on
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Maybe next time you should put a .45 magnum in his mouth and pull the trigger. See if he likes that better.
nicholeo on
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Yeah... maybe that is an option
satan75 on
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Hey it sounds pretty damn good to me dude. If not to him, then someone!!!
nicholeo on
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YAY!! killing spree!
satan75 on
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Now you're talking!!
pimpmunk on
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awe hun...hugs you tight ........
nicholeo on
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Thanks John... I wish I would have had a hug for real earlier... I did need it.
pimpmunk on
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I know babe....I am sorry that was  kinda shitty .
nicholeo on
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Yeah... I will get over it soon enough.  I am usually pretty tough, but this one came out of left field and did hurt my feelings.  *sucking it up as I type* Well... today is a new day.
pimpmunk on
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well that would hurt anyone....  you are  an amzing person I lubs ya
nicholeo on
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*hugs to you* Thanks... lubs ya back...LOL
pimpmunk on
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LOL  lub is good
nicholeo on
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thats what I sound like right now... my nose is plugged up. LOL
pimpmunk on
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hahah....awe.
I sound like that  ...well because I am an idiot
nicholeo on
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HAHAHA... your not an idiot...although that did make me laugh out loud... you just get silly sometimes.
pimpmunk on
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lol
gwydionjim on
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I hate to be the barer of bad options but honestly, why put up with it and put yourself thru it?  Seperate for a bit and if he comes to his senses then take him back and you will both be better for it.  If not then it will be a stressor out of your life.....
nicholeo on
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Well... I am not going to break up over a valentines gone bad... I just told him yesterday that I give up on buying him gifts.  I said that I will not put myself through his criticisms (re: presents) anymore.  He said that he was fine by that, becuase he knows that he hurt my feelings.  He apologized, and then told me he was sorry for overanalyzing my gift, and said that he understands that he upset me.  At least he admitted he was wrong.
gwydionjim on
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Very true.  I'm not saying dump him over a stupid gift.  But you have been venting about him since he lost his job and if things don't get better then why waste your time?
nicholeo on
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Well.  He found a job quite some time ago... so he hasn't been unemployed or anything... I think I have found the root of our problem though...and it made me look at myself too.  I think that our relationship can be mended... But I need to give some effort too.
gwydionjim on
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Good luck and best wishes for the try.
nicholeo on
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Hey thanks...

I think we all get frustrated sometimes... and sometimes it is hard to look at your own role in the problem.  Hopefully this can be worked out...


 
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