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... BULLSHIT if they didn't realize it was wrong, then they really need to take a deeper look into those girls' family life. At 10 I knew hitting someone was wrong, much less beating them while they were laying on the ground most likely screaming, crying and begging them to stop.
Those girls first of all need a sound SPANKING, yes a good old fashioned asswhippin. These are the type of girls that end up in gangs at 12 and 13 years old.
Then they need to make ammends for what they have done. Their parents will be held legally responsible for the bills (believe me I KNOW this one) The victim will have to go through not only physical therapy but you know shes going to need mental help now too.
Again I have to wonder, would the kids these days be so violent had their parents not been those wishey washey dont spank your children types? Probably NOT, notice crime rate has skyrocketed since the whole "time out vs spanking" bs started. Makes you wonder huh?
So when I win the lotto I am buying my own fargin island so I don't have to deal with this crap
Just ask Coltin, he and his lil I am giong to hit ppl stage in 1st grade was driving me up a wall. I finally had enough of it, told the principal and the teacher he hits one person you call me and I will deal with him. No more of this lecture and trying to scare a hard headed lil boy because he will give you what you want response wise. After the first time I went up to the school, he stopped. Granted, I yanked his ass out of class infront of ALL his friends, marched his lil butt down to the counslor's office and closed the door. Then I dropped his pants and spanked him bare assed 3 times. When I was done I pulled his pants up, asked him if he would like a repeat of this down the line and he said no. So I remined him, he lays hands on ANYONE other than defending himself via them hitting him first, I would lay my hand upside his ass. We didn't have a problem with him hitting anyone after that.
I also took DeLaney's happy lil ass down to the county holding cell and made her sit in there for 4 hours cause she liked to snitch coins out of my purse. Having a county officer talk to her in TX didn't phase her, spanking didn't phase her, so I introduced her to Auntie Joyce. Auntie Joyce is about 6 foot, a pretty but built like a brick house Indian friend of the families who was working County Lock up and Dispatch. Auntie Joyce, handcuffed her, made her go talk to the County sheriff in handcuffs, and marched her down to the empty women's holding cell near the office. Gave her one phone call, where she called me crying her lil eyes out, and I told her to shut up and sit there for another few hours. I was at the cafe with Mammo. Needless to say DeLaney NOW keeps her lil paws out of my purse. And she was 7 when I did that shit to her!
Second of all, I have so many times felt that it's just wrong to throw these kids into jail for some of these things, they are so young. But I'm telling you, I have seen it again and again too. Where they are ran through the juvenile department, and get off with a probation officer, an continue to get in trouble over and over and nothing else happens. I have a 12 yr old nephew, that this is happening with. So many times he should have been locked up and never once. HIS mom, doesn't even contact his probation officer when she should. And then of course my step daughter who is now 19 and still is seen as a juvenile, and keeps getting slaps on the wrists and a couple days away where she doesn't have to cook her own food.
I think we need to get harder on these kids, and we need to teach it and preach it like we do safe sex, so these kids, just like yours, can grasp better what they are going to lose out on. It's time to stop making bullying and violence among kids a game for them.
They really need to start makign not just the kids held accountable and their parents also!
YES! the parents need to be held accountable more. So often parents all react innocently, when they know darn well, they have not ever held their child accountable for anything. And it's really no surprise when their child goes off.