There is nothing either good or bad but thinking makes it so. -- William Shakespeare

 





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"the last to make the moves are the first to say the words"

we're having a fight tonight. 

it's about sexism. 

and racism, i guess. 

 

my side: if i end up in a physical fight with someone, i have assessed the risks, and intend to fight them physically based on my own merits.

his side: if a man fights you, i’m gonna fight him.

 

i got into a brief verbal altercation with a racist, neo-nazi piece of shit at the concert we went to tonight, and for some reason, this turned into a point of contention. 

 

 

 
 


 
insanereid on
Re: "the last to make the moves are the first to say the words"

Think of it as At least you know hes got your back!

You don't always get to choose physical altercations. Someone much bigger might just be looking for a fight they know they'll win. People aren't as predictable as some might think. Its always good to know you're part of a team if someone decides to take advantage of you.

morte on
Re: "the last to make the moves are the first to say the words"

yeah, that's where we eventually got with the discussion...but initially, it really came across as patronizing and sexist, and it made me feel like property, instead of like a team. 

we talked it through, and plan to talk about it some more tonight or tomorrow, when we've both slept.

insanereid on
Re: "the last to make the moves are the first to say the words"

Just tell 'em "Well, make a code word. If I'm over my head, I'll call you in. Like a tag team." lol

 



 
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